Alcohol need advice

Prospective Buyer · 08-02-2011, 11:46 PM

How do you deal with alcohol problems in your family? I can't take it anymore, it's going to ruin my school year. I don't know who to call for her. This is going to be the longest night of my life.

CamaroKid300 · 08-03-2011, 12:10 AM

If you are talking about your father beating your mother because of his abuse of alcohol, you need to call the police.

Don't sit back and let that happen.... your mother will thank you and you need to get your dad away from her.

If you don't want to call the police, go to your school counselor in the morning. They will be able to help you.

Domestic violence is no joke.

Do something ASAP.

SIM Curly · 08-03-2011, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by CamaroKid300

If you are talking about your father beating your mother because of his abuse of alcohol, you need to call the police.

Don't sit back and let that happen.... your mother will thank you and you need to get your dad away from her.

If you don't want to call the police, go to your school counselor in the morning. They will be able to help you.

Domestic violence is no joke.

Do something ASAP.

Schools out still

ibeck · 08-03-2011, 12:13 AM

Try a hotline to see if someone will come help, that might not be of much use to be honest. I'm assuming its your mom, since I know you're young. Take the booze from her, I'm dead serious. I've dealt with some messed up shit a couple years ago, just take it away from her. She's gonna get mad, but don't let her get any more. Once she sobers up hit her with the cold hard facts, if you need to try to video tape her or take pictures so she can see what she looks like.

CamaroKid300 · 08-03-2011, 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by SIM Curly

Schools out still

Not where I live. Public schools started on the 1st.

Prospective Buyer · 08-03-2011, 12:17 AM

No one is being hit in this house. Need to let everyone know that.

CamaroKid300 · 08-03-2011, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Prospective Buyer

No one is being hit in this house. Need to let everyone know that.

Good.

Then you need to talk to her when she is sober. Just go and try to get away from it tonight. Go to a friends house.

Can you talk to your dad?

Prospective Buyer · 08-03-2011, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by ibeck

Try a hotline to see if someone will come help, that might not be of much use to be honest. I'm assuming its your mom, since I know you're young. Take the booze from her, I'm dead serious. I've dealt with some messed up shit a couple years ago, just take it away from her. She's gonna get mad, but don't let her get any more. Once she sobers up hit her with the cold hard facts, if you need to try to video tape her or take pictures so she can see what she looks like.

I feel like the recording would really set her straight. It's like Im dealing with two different people here.

2ndgenz28 · 08-03-2011, 12:21 AM

Thats a bad one.

I have uncles and their friends who were hard core 70s bikers.
Kill ya for riding a Jap bike and throw ya in a ditch.
Drink 100 beers, pop, snort, shoot, smoke n shove what ever u got.

All the advice they give me is ride a Jap bike, HDs left them in to many places they didn't want to be. And don't drink. What ever you do, don't drink.

"pop, snort, shoot, smoke n shove what ever u got." all fair game.

Prospective Buyer · 08-03-2011, 12:21 AM

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Originally Posted by CamaroKid300

Good.

Then you need to talk to her when she is sober. Just go and try to get away from it tonight. Go to a friends house.

Can you talk to your dad?

My Dad isn't home, he is out working. I can go to a friend's house, it's calming down now but I'm still going to let my closest one know.

ibeck · 08-03-2011, 12:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Prospective Buyer

I feel like the recording would really set her straight. It's like Im dealing with two different people here.

Try that, take away her aclohol and let her see what she's like once she's sobered up. Next time she starts drinking make a huge deal, I mean HUGE, and remind her what happened last time and how she's hurting you and whoever else.

2ndgenz28 · 08-03-2011, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Prospective Buyer

I feel like the recording would really set her straight. It's like Im dealing with two different people here.

Was gonna say that but you need more then 1 video to prove a pattern to a drunk. you needs weeks of constant flips on behavior.

I sort of just bought a hidden camera to get some footage of my girl.
she will not let anyone take her pic. and no im not talking naked or sex, just a pic. Bought a pair of these. Awesome video and sound.

already plan to change lenses to yellow or clear cutting down a cheap safety glasses lenses, so it not out of place inside

http://cgi.ebay.com/4GB-Spy-Sunglass...item45fa765581

Prospective Buyer · 08-03-2011, 12:27 AM

Also, this doesn't happen everyday. There are large stretches of time where nothing happens, then sometimes things go haywire.

CamaroKid300 · 08-03-2011, 12:30 AM

Then I'd go to a friends house.

08-02-2011, 11:46 PM	#1
Prospective Buyer Drives: Acura TL Acura MDX Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 267	Alcohol need advice How do you deal with alcohol problems in your family? I can't take it anymore, it's going to ruin my school year. I don't know who to call for her. This is going to be the longest night of my life. Last edited by Prospective Buyer; 08-03-2011 at 12:05 AM.

08-03-2011, 12:10 AM	#2
CamaroKid300 ace5.org Drives: 2017 ZL1 M6 Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Atlanta, GA Posts: 6,143 View My Garage	If you are talking about your father beating your mother because of his abuse of alcohol, you need to call the police. Don't sit back and let that happen.... your mother will thank you and you need to get your dad away from her. If you don't want to call the police, go to your school counselor in the morning. They will be able to help you. Domestic violence is no joke. Do something ASAP. __________________ Stock...For Now.

08-03-2011, 12:13 AM	#4
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08-03-2011, 12:30 AM	#14
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08-03-2011, 12:27 AM	#13
Prospective Buyer Drives: Acura TL Acura MDX Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 267	Also, this doesn't happen everyday. There are large stretches of time where nothing happens, then sometimes things go haywire.