How did you/do you deal with breakups?

[Mydivorcegift]

I bought a Camaro....

[Splitter]

Originally Posted by Mydivorcegift

I bought a Camaro....

Haha, great username...

[45thAnniversary2SS]

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[hypercarfanatic]

Originally Posted by jonnyb

Not to be an asshole but that is what I was thinking to!

Not being an asshole, but I know 100% there isn't someone else in the picture right now. She may want someone else, but I know that now and in the time previous, she has not had a relationship with anyone except me.

[jewel25]

Originally Posted by hypercarfanatic

Not being an asshole, but I know 100% there isn't someone else in the picture right now. She may want someone else, but I know that now and in the time previous, she has not had a relationship with anyone except me.

It sucks and I know this sounds lame but it will make you a better person. All my break ups made me who I am today.


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[Splitter]

Originally Posted by 45thAnniversary2SS

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Originally Posted by jewel25

It sucks and I know this sound lame but it will make you a better person. All my break ups made me who I am today.


Sent from my mobile communication device -Jewels

R & D eh? I thought you were in H & R!

[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by kjkjr27

This is exactly how all my relationship/flings end...... there is always someone better. Weather it be in a relationship, job applications, whatever...always someone better

Yeah, the key to stay in a good relationship is communication. But it goes both ways. If one person doesn't care enough to communicate their feelings, good or bad, that is a recipe for failure. If anything is ever on your mind, you have to bring it up and talk about it. And as for anything in life, you have to stay confident.

And if you are single, and it's been a while, you have to go out and find you a few 4's and 5's to bang. Build up your confidence.

[jewel25]

Originally Posted by Splitter

R & D eh? I thought you were in H & R!

When you are in HR you have to do it all. People think HR people are miracle works. Yes we even have to deal with bad break ups and messy divorces. People need to leave their crap at home


Also I agree with PMC, confidence is the key. Mostly women also look for men who are emotionally stable. Us women tend to be all over the board with our emotions and we need men to be our rocks.

[smarbrit]

I think once you get over the initial shock, hurt and loneliness, you will be fine - but that can take some time. How do you deal with it, reconnect with friends, enjoy your hobbies, go for beers, whatever guys do to hangout. My favorite summer of all time was the first one I spent single after splitting with my husband. Reconnected with an old friend, made a lot of new ones and spent almost every weekend rafting down some lazy rivers, fire pits and even camping. I loved being single after 10 years, but it took some getting used to especially as a single parent with 2 kids.

Don't look back, just keep on keeping on!! Her "why" doesn't matter and it will never make sense to you, so best to let her have her reasons.

[Manbearpig]

Originally Posted by hypercarfanatic

Oh, and too young/unmotivated to drink

Kool-aid and a booty call.

[kjkjr27]

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

Yeah, the key to stay in a good relationship is communication. But it goes both ways. If one person doesn't care enough to communicate their feelings, good or bad, that is a recipe for failure. If anything is ever on your mind, you have to bring it up and talk about it. And as for anything in life, you have to stay confident.

And if you are single, and it's been a while, you have to go out and find you a few 4's and 5's to bang. Build up your confidence.

For me it would have to be 1s maybe 2s would be a stretch

[PoorMansCamaro]

Everyone's got to start somewhere!

PS, that's the lack of confidence in talking about

[Manbearpig]

Originally Posted by kjkjr27

For me it would have to be 1s maybe 2s would be a stretch

Plan B.



Seriously though, confidence is key.

[hypercarfanatic]

Originally Posted by Manbearpig

Kool-aid and a booty call.

Rock with that Kool-aid

If you can't taste the diabutus, you arn't making it right lol

Originally Posted by Manbearpig

Plan B.



Seriously though, confidence is key.

Working on confidence, and finding a suitable "booty call"

Originally Posted by smarbrit

I think once you get over the initial shock, hurt and loneliness, you will be fine - but that can take some time. How do you deal with it, reconnect with friends, enjoy your hobbies, go for beers, whatever guys do to hangout. My favorite summer of all time was the first one I spent single after splitting with my husband. Reconnected with an old friend, made a lot of new ones and spent almost every weekend rafting down some lazy rivers, fire pits and even camping. I loved being single after 10 years, but it took some getting used to especially as a single parent with 2 kids.

Don't look back, just keep on keeping on!! Her "why" doesn't matter and it will never make sense to you, so best to let her have her reasons.

Major ouch. I'm sorry to hear that

Yeah, getting over that initial shock as you put it, and feeling slightly better. And getting back into martial arts, something I loved but dropped to spend more time with her.