Cyber bullying of My Step Granddaughter - Page 3

PoorMansCamaro · 10-01-2013, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by jewel25

Damn PMC, why do you have to ruin everything? Stop stiring the pot. GEZZZZZZZZZZ

lol, you have me second guessing if it's me he's talking about.

Sales @ CAI Inc · 10-01-2013, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

lol, you have me second guessing if it's me he's talking about.

Trust me, everyone knows who I am referring to, and we all know its not you

Princess1 · 10-01-2013, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Angrybird 12

We found out yesterday that my wife's granddaughter has been being Cyber Bullyed from some girls at her School. According to a new Tennessee Law anyone found to be Cyberbullying can be prosecuted. Minors can be sentenced to 30 days Community Service, and adults can serve up to a year in prison and or up to a $250,000 fine.
I won't go into all the details of what was said but one student said if she reports her that she would kill her. Another one said she was so ugly that nobody will ever love her so she better kill herself now. This has been going on since last school year but she was too afraid to tell anyone until now.
These type threats are against the law, they have been reported to the principle, and the police. The police are going to get a warrant to have the internet provider turn over all records of thie IP addresses these messages have been coming from.
This crap needs to be stopped. I am so pissed off right now, I am afraid of what her dad might do when he finds out who is behind this.

Talk to your kids and let them know that nobody should be allowed to bully someone on the Internet or through text messaging. It's against the law in many places and they are cracking down on it. If your child is being Bullyed they need to know they can report it. If your child is bullying someone then they need to know they can get in a lot of trouble if and when they are caught.

I totally agree please report it and too many kids are doing the unthinkable and being a bully is so terrible. Kids are vulerable enough and impressionable as it is without some horrible kids telling them hurtful things. I pray everything works out for the best for your grandchild. Makes me angry to keep hearing this over and over and kids taking their lives because they just can't take it anymore. Soo SAD!!!

jewel25 · 10-01-2013, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Princess1

I totally agree please report it and too many kids are doing the unthinkable and being a bully is so terrible. Kids are vulerable enough and impressionable as it is without some horrible kids telling them hurtful things. I pray everything works out for the best for your grandchild. Makes me angry to keep hearing this over and over and kids taking their lives because they just can't take it anymore. Soo SAD!!!

Sorry off topic, but DAMNNNNNNNN your rims are sick

RubyCamaro · 10-01-2013, 02:15 PM

Here is a link to our site for youth opened to the page with links on cyber bullying. I hope it is helpful Angrybird:

http://www.whoyouwant2be.org/whats-s...ternet-safety/

Princess1 · 10-01-2013, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by jewel25

Sorry off topic, but DAMNNNNNNNN your rims are sick

LOL Thanks stop that Drooling.. he he

Overflow · 10-01-2013, 02:24 PM

Lupie has ZERO idea what he's talking about.

Angrybird 12 · 10-01-2013, 02:42 PM

Thanks for the support from all those who gave it.

Please everyone all I am asking is to teach your kids how wrong it is. And above all parents, keep checking their social networking accounts and text messaging, incoming and outgoing.

Iwantone2 · 10-01-2013, 02:54 PM

Welcome back to the rodeo, PoorMans...
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Leo_black · 10-01-2013, 03:02 PM

IMHO neither getting the parents/police involved, nor handling the situation with fighting back will work. If she fights back physically then she would need to make her win so overwhelming that the bullies would never even consider retaliation. (but then you have the possibility of the parents sueing) Or there's he parent/police method. The problem with this is if the kid does the 30 days community service but unless there is continious follow up the bully will most likely resent your granddaughter and retaliate physically or just emotionally (or both). The only way to really ensure that this type of behavior not only doesn't continue towards your granddaughter but anyone else is to make sure the parents are being proactive. Unless you can get the kids parents to stop this kind of behavior then the 30 days community service will not work long term, if at all.

Personally, in my childhood, if I had a problem it was resolved with fists. That doesn't mean it was resolved the best way but it was resolved nonetheless. The problem is now the parents fault for not being an actual parent.

Example: kid A bullies kid B. Kid B fights back and both kids get expelled or in trouble another way. Kid A bullies kid B, kid B does nothing back, it's kid B's fault. Or the more common situation; kid A bullies kid B, kid B fights back, Kid A's parents blame kid B for everything because they are too blinded to see that their kid is the one at fault.

PoorMansCamaro · 10-01-2013, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Iwantone2

Welcome back to the rodeo, PoorMans...
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1badtie · 10-01-2013, 03:19 PM

This is why schools should ban all cell phones from even being at school, and why parents should not buy their kids cell phones until 16

Angrybird 12 · 10-01-2013, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by 1badtie

This is why schools should ban all cell phones from even being at school, and why parents should not buy their kids cell phones until 16

Like I said before they need to block all texting and internet to and from their kids cell phones. Just a basic cell phone is all they need, if they have any at all.

RubyCamaro · 10-01-2013, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Leo_black

IMHO neither getting the parents/police involved, nor handling the situation with fighting back will work. If she fights back physically then she would need to make her win so overwhelming that the bullies would never even consider retaliation. (but then you have the possibility of the parents sueing) Or there's he parent/police method. The problem with this is if the kid does the 30 days community service but unless there is continious follow up the bully will most likely resent your granddaughter and retaliate physically or just emotionally (or both). The only way to really ensure that this type of behavior not only doesn't continue towards your granddaughter but anyone else is to make sure the parents are being proactive. Unless you can get the kids parents to stop this kind of behavior then the 30 days community service will not work long term, if at all.

Personally, in my childhood, if I had a problem it was resolved with fists. That doesn't mean it was resolved the best way but it was resolved nonetheless. The problem is now the parents fault for not being an actual parent.

Example: kid A bullies kid B. Kid B fights back and both kids get expelled or in trouble another way. Kid A bullies kid B, kid B does nothing back, it's kid B's fault. Or the more common situation; kid A bullies kid B, kid B fights back, Kid A's parents blame kid B for everything because they are too blinded to see that their kid is the one at fault.

However today kids use guns not fists.

10-01-2013, 02:15 PM	#33
RubyCamaro Jan Drives: 2010 Camaro 1LT Red Jewel tintcoat Join Date: May 2010 Location: Springfield, TN Posts: 16,241 View My Garage	Here is a link to our site for youth opened to the page with links on cyber bullying. I hope it is helpful Angrybird: http://www.whoyouwant2be.org/whats-s...ternet-safety/ __________________ Last edited by RubyCamaro; 10-01-2013 at 02:51 PM.

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10-01-2013, 03:02 PM	#38
Leo_black Drives: 2013 1LT Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: Utah Posts: 51 View My Garage	IMHO neither getting the parents/police involved, nor handling the situation with fighting back will work. If she fights back physically then she would need to make her win so overwhelming that the bullies would never even consider retaliation. (but then you have the possibility of the parents sueing) Or there's he parent/police method. The problem with this is if the kid does the 30 days community service but unless there is continious follow up the bully will most likely resent your granddaughter and retaliate physically or just emotionally (or both). The only way to really ensure that this type of behavior not only doesn't continue towards your granddaughter but anyone else is to make sure the parents are being proactive. Unless you can get the kids parents to stop this kind of behavior then the 30 days community service will not work long term, if at all. Personally, in my childhood, if I had a problem it was resolved with fists. That doesn't mean it was resolved the best way but it was resolved nonetheless. The problem is now the parents fault for not being an actual parent. Example: kid A bullies kid B. Kid B fights back and both kids get expelled or in trouble another way. Kid A bullies kid B, kid B does nothing back, it's kid B's fault. Or the more common situation; kid A bullies kid B, kid B fights back, Kid A's parents blame kid B for everything because they are too blinded to see that their kid is the one at fault.