PWA 3: Dark of the Lounge

[BowtieBelle]

Originally Posted by RallySS

I'll tell you another issue. I have one I really like, but not physically attracted to her much. I don't feel like I could ever date her because of the inevitable question when she asks if I think she looks pretty and my direct honesty. But I know she is interested and has been. This kind of this sucks pretty bad too.

I hate that :( I've had a couple of really, really great guys want to date me-- just crazy about me-- but if the attraction isn't there, it'll never work. It's not shallow-- a big part of a relationship is magnetism and attraction. Just the way it is.

[BowtieBelle]

Originally Posted by RallySS

Well, I am attracted to her personality, trust me. I really like her. But, well, she really isn't very physically attractive to me, no getting around it. I would never tell her that and it really pisses me off.

I'm talking about physical attraction here. It's super important. You can be attracted to someone's personality all you want-- but if there's no physical attraction, it sucks but that's life. Don't try to force it like I did-- just ends up a regret. :(

[2010 SSRS]

be like Vinny the Pimp and take them all out on a boat

[SinisterEcho]

Originally Posted by Tessa

Well there -- ignoring. Girls hate that. You pay attention to them, they play hard to get - you get over it, suddenly they want the attention

I'm glad I'm not really like that. If I like a guy - I LIKE his attention - I don't like playing games, it kills me. (b/c I have no IDEA how to play games so it's just easier to be honest and up front about it).

But People baffle me and men are the same - one minute they are all chatty and post whoring your FB and you think they are flirting - then next thing, you make a move and they suddenly treat you like you have rabies and they hate you. I don't know. :(
The older I get - the harder it is to understand people. I just stopped trying.

Dafuq? If i dont get the attn back.... then its not worth it to me.

Originally Posted by Tessa

Oh sister.
Some btches can't keep their hands off another woman's man

Or your girl going after another man....

[RallySS]

Unless they like to fish, I don't think they'll like my boat. Not exactly a Bayliner or ski boat. 1973 17ft Mako open fisher with 100hp Evinrude.

[2010 SSRS]

Originally Posted by RallySS

Unless they like to fish, I don't think they'll like my boat. Not exactly a Bayliner or ski boat

[Tessa]

Originally Posted by RallySS

I'll tell you another issue. I have one I really like, but not physically attracted to her much. I don't feel like I could ever date her because of the inevitable question when she asks if I think she looks pretty and my direct honesty. But I know she is interested and has been. This kind of this sucks pretty bad too.

Originally Posted by BowtieBelle

I hate that :( I've had a couple of really, really great guys want to date me-- just crazy about me-- but if the attraction isn't there, it'll never work. It's not shallow-- a big part of a relationship is magnetism and attraction. Just the way it is.

From someone on the other end all the time - I'd rather they didn't pretend or lie rather then have to get the "oh but you're so nice" -- swell, I feel worse. YAY.
If you aren't attracted to her, if you don't think she is pretty - just don't go there. It hurts a lot less to be rejected then it does to contantly know inside that the person you are with thinks you're ugly or whatever. Esp if they lie and you can tell they are lying - or, in your case, if you are that honest that she'd ask and you'd say no. That's just cruel. If you care about her at all don't put her through that.

[Tessa]

Originally Posted by SinisterEcho

Dafuq? If i dont get the attn back.... then its not worth it to me.




Or your girl going after another man....

Well that's what I meant - if you like someone who's paying attention to you - you pay attention back -- you don't run away and make them chase you.

It's not a complicated thing - and yet people make it that way by playing stupid games. It's just maddening

[Nvincent4708]

Originally Posted by RallySS

Unless they like to fish, I don't think they'll like my boat. Not exactly a Bayliner or ski boat. 1973 17ft Mako open fisher with 100hp Evinrude.

still a boat! women love the water.

i posted a pic of what i'm going on this weekend.

next year i'll have another jetski.

[2010 SSRS]

Originally Posted by Nvincent4708

still a boat! women love the water.

i posted a pic of what i'm going on this weekend.

next year i'll have another jetski.

they do love the water

[Nvincent4708]

Originally Posted by 2010 SSRS

they do love the water

exactly.. and muscle cars / big trucks.

[SinisterEcho]

Originally Posted by Tessa

Well that's what I meant - if you like someone who's paying attention to you - you pay attention back -- you don't run away and make them chase you.

It's not a complicated thing - and yet people make it that way by playing stupid games. It's just maddening

Yep. I dont play games. Thats why im single..... I dont have to worry about the dumb high school games.

[Nvincent4708]

Hell. rumor is...

gracie could fill up a kiddie pool on her own if you mention the words boat or camaro to her.

thats how much she likes those things...

[2010 SSRS]

Originally Posted by Nvincent4708

exactly.. and muscle cars / big trucks.

and fires on the beach