Sigh, women.

[cab2g]

Well... the good news is you have a nice car in which you can impress your future dates... I know, too soon, but remember that as much as you may want to get back with her, and she may even change her mind, don't do it... Once you start the cycle of break ups there is no telling when the next one will happen. It may be in a couple months, it may be after you're married. Good luck finding a better woman for you though!

[bhall82]

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

in the big scheme of things, 2 years, some underwear and concert tickets is not that bad...i know. lol

THIS. These are 2 guys that speak from experince. Count you blessings

[bhall82]

Originally Posted by SleepWarz

Currency isnt the issue. Its that she was the one for me, or so I thought. Very sudden end. I'm a super devoted person, I don't enjoy the party scene or anything so finding the right person was so hard, and took so long.



True that, lol!

You found her you'll find another. In the meantime practice the 3 F's. Find em, F*** em, Forget em.

[BowtieBelle]

[rachykells]

Originally Posted by SleepWarz

Currency isnt the issue. Its that she was the one for me, or so I thought. Very sudden end. I'm a super devoted person, I don't enjoy the party scene or anything so finding the right person was so hard, and took so long.

Bummer :( Bad timing for sure, but at least you know now before it got further along and you made the ultimate commitment. Been in your situation before, actually not too long ago, but I promise it gets better! I'm sure a lot of people are telling you that right now, but keep your head up and take care of yourself first. It will take some time to work through the shock, confusion and hurt, but once you do... I promise you'll be stronger from going through it. I still miss the friendship I had with the person who broke my heart into bits earlier this year, but it's not in my control. When someone walks out of your life, it's a choice they make. Whether they want to be in our lives again is on them. At least that's the way I look at things

And you can always return the VS stuff. I work there and they take back anything with no questions asked.

And hey-- at least you have a Camaro to cheer ya up.

[Dznts]

Originally Posted by bhall82

You found her you'll find another. In the meantime practice the 3 F's. Find em, F*** em, Forget em.

[skuttduck]

Originally Posted by SleepWarz

So the GF left me yesterday, with the famous 'its not you its me' crap. After almost 2 years. 8 Days before my birthday, after I had ordered her christmas presents from Victorias Secret and gotten us tickets to a concert on my birthday. Move on and all yeah but really, right now? Could have waited 2 weeks. Just ranting, sorry.

A female co-worker told me when this happened to me from my ex-girlfriend, to simply just not talk to her, say anything, emails, calls for over a week.

Also that the line is total crap, it was something you did, but female mind games abound mean there was something you didn't pick up on.

It did work to get my ex back, but we eventually totally broke up months later. She was trying to do things to get me to break up with her as she didn't want to be the bad person. I do remember that break up, by simply telling her she was a bitch (in front of her cousin). "Don't call my cousin a bitch" "no it's ok, I deserve it" then walking out the door, and disappearing from her life and family for quite sometime.

I called her up like a year later, and she wanted me to start to hang out with her friends and stuff again.

This is when I started being a total ass to her, and said "I always did everything you wanted to do, there is no way in hell I'm going to your house again"

But eventually I found someone who was better than I ever imagined. My ex.. Well that's a sad story...

[toesuf94]

Congratulations you lucky devil! Now - ebay the VS stuff...find a buddy to go to the concert with.

Yes, it sucks that she left (you probably wanted to enjoy the VS) but in the long run, you dodged a bullet.

[WadeWilson]

Originally Posted by bhall82

THIS. These are 2 guys that speak from experince. Count you blessings

I can attest to that!!

[2010SS2SS]

Be glad it happened sooner that later! Reach down grab ur sack and get out there and find something better....Best revenge is to find somone smarter, sexier and better for you

[SleepWarz]

Thanks everyone. Don't need revenge though. She did nothing really to make me bitter. Just gonna move on when I can.

[Rogue Leader]

Do yourself a favor, just ignore her. Shes probably gonna call to see how youre doing or hang out sometime soon. Unless you have some sorta business with her like you gotta get your shit back, just ignore her. if thats the case, once you get your shit back ignore her.

She will call you in a few weeks, saying she was wrong, maybe try it again. Ignore her. If you can't get away from her tell her to "**** off" and then run.

Trust me, been through it a couple times. I'm saving you a world of torture here.

[austinjames]

Originally Posted by SleepWarz

Thanks everyone. Don't need revenge though. She did nothing really to make me bitter. Just gonna move on when I can.

Better that happened now than if you were married. You got millions to choose from, dont worry

[hypurone]

Sorry to hear man. But if it's got tits or tires, you're gonna have trouble with it! Move on... Just think of all the time you can spend doin' what you wanna do.