Loveline Thread

[edog]

Originally Posted by Brokinarrow

I'll say this.... most of us guys DO NOT GET subtle little hints and messages that you ladies think are obvious signs. If you want us, TELL US in plain English

[BowtieBelle]

I think I'm just gonna let it lie. He's having fun-- I know this-- and I'm well-versed in 'He's just not that into you' so if he wanted us to be together I'm pretty sure he'd have made that happen. He's had multiple opportunities and is well-aware of me being into him. I'll leave it where it is. Next bus will be along shortly.

[heRS]

Sounds like a good plan. Enjoy and play safe, girl!

[BowtieBelle]

Originally Posted by heRS

Sounds like a good plan. Enjoy and play safe, girl!

[GoldCartridgeGamer]

Originally Posted by Brokinarrow

I'll say this.... most of us guys DO NOT GET subtle little hints and messages that you ladies think are obvious signs. If you want us, TELL US in plain English

+1

Originally Posted by Sanddemon

I agree 100%. In my younger days there were several young ladies over the years that had an interest in me. I was just too naive to notice.

I've had girls from my elementary, middle school, and high school come forth and tell me later on they had a crush on me. They told me they gave me hints, but I was too naive to notice or understand. I asked them why didn't they just tell me, they had no answer. So I agree either tell him straight up or leave it alone (which you decided). A lot of good guys don't like to play games forever. We prefer the honest in the face truth....well at least I do, lol.

[eggydoo]

Originally Posted by Sanddemon

I agree 100%. In my younger days there were several young ladies over the years that had an interest in me. I was just too naive to notice.

I fall into this category as well...I didn't even realize it til a few years later.

Some were even blatant hints but it just did not click at the time....

[UT-Engineer]

Originally Posted by Stingr69

My first thought was - Move on girl. It sounds like a train wreck just waiting to happen.

My second thought - You might as well just come out a tell the guy. That way you can get his side of it. Either way, you get progress. Simple really.

Hope this helps,

-Mark.

This isn't high school. Just tell him... It will make the whole process easier.

[67 Convertible]

Originally Posted by Lgndryhr

+1
I've had girls from my elementary, middle school, and high school come forth and tell me later on they had a crush on me. They told me they gave me hints, but I was too naive to notice or understand. I asked them why didn't they just tell me, they had no answer. So I agree either tell him straight up or leave it alone (which you decided). A lot of good guys don't like to play games forever. We prefer the honest in the face truth....well at least I do, lol.

I'm most likely a bit older then most of you, went to high school in the late 60's. I had a crush on a girl in high school, we met at a party and made out but no sex, I never asked her out because she had a boyfreind.

Fast forward 30 years to 1999 at my 30th class reunion. She walks up to my wife and says "You're a very lucky woman, I was so in love with your husband back in high school, I have thought about him off and on over the years" My wife doesn't have a jealous bone in her body, so her comments didn't bother her in the least and we joked about it later. But I was dumbfounded. WHAT??? Why didn't she tell me 31 years ago???

So yeah, some of us have to be hit over the head with a 2x4. I certainly didn't pick up on her hints (if there were any)......we kissed, but I was too naive to pick up on the fact that I could have taken it further.

[UT-Engineer]

Originally Posted by 67 Convertible

I'm most likely a bit older then most of you, went to high school in the late 60's. I had a crush on a girl in high school, we met at a party and made out but no sex, I never asked her out because she had a boyfreind.

Fast forward 30 years to 1999 at my 30th class reunion. She walks up to my wife and says "You're a very lucky woman, I was so in love with your husband back in high school, I have thought about him off and on over the years" My wife doesn't have a jealous bone in her body, so her comments didn't bother her in the least, but I was dumbfounded. WHAT??? Why didn't she tell me 31 years ago???

So yeah, some of us have to be hit over the head with a 2x4. I certainly didn't pick up on her hints (if there were any)......we kissed, but I was too naive to pick up on the fact that I could have taken it further.

WoW Sounds like she put you in an awkwards situation at your reunion. I'd be like.. WTF!!! lmao. But I totally agree with you here. Men are Men and Women are... well.... confusing as ****! My best advice to any women would be to "Just Speak English" Its the only language we understand other than sex so if its not one of those youre doing, we probably have no freaking clue what your talking about