Brief Relationship Rant and Question for the Guys... - Page 4

BowtieBelle · 09-08-2011, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by NYJets77

just thought of something, but its kind of mean.

Next time he calls and mentions all the girls he's getting with, tell him about your recent experience (since you two can share these things now): your new lover (not boyfriend - its got to sound a little tawdry) does this thing with his <fill in body part of your choice here, but I'd go with tongue) that drives you insanely wild. So much so that there's "instant arrival".

Pure pwnage.

NYJets77 · 09-08-2011, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Ark5thGenGirl

always finish off an opponent, grasshopper.

Drew10 · 09-08-2011, 04:09 PM

I just want to know how he was cheating on you via the internet(s) if it wasn't porn or Camaro5. Is there something else on the internet(s) I am not aware of?

Actually it sounds like his ego is hurt and he wants you to still want him. Best thing to do is just ignore him.

BowtieBelle · 09-08-2011, 04:17 PM

Yeah, I'll be HAPPY to get more explicit. He was having cybersex with ex girlfriends and total sluts on webcam sites, lying to me about it, telling THEM he was going to leave me to be with them... he was going on adultfriendfinder and making plans to meet up with different random women for sex-- he was having phone sex in the mornings on his drive to work because that is when his ex got off her night shift-- should I carry on or have I embarassed myself enough at this point for dating this loser?

NYJets77 · 09-08-2011, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Ark5thGenGirl

Yeah, I'll be HAPPY to get more explicit. He was having cybersex with ex girlfriends and total sluts on webcam sites, lying to me about it, telling THEM he was going to leave me to be with them... he was going on adultfriendfinder and making plans to meet up with different random women for sex-- he was having phone sex in the mornings on his drive to work because that is when his ex got off her night shift-- should I carry on or have I embarassed myself enough at this point for dating this loser?

jeez - how old is this guy? 15?

Nvincent4708 · 09-08-2011, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Ark5thGenGirl

Yeah, I'll be HAPPY to get more explicit. He was having cybersex with ex girlfriends and total sluts on webcam sites, lying to me about it, telling THEM he was going to leave me to be with them... he was going on adultfriendfinder and making plans to meet up with different random women for sex-- he was having phone sex in the mornings on his drive to work because that is when his ex got off her night shift-- should I carry on or have I embarassed myself enough at this point for dating this loser?

you might wanna start picking better men.

this guy has "failure" written all over him.

BowtieBelle · 09-08-2011, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by NYJets77

jeez - how old is this guy? 15?

29

I fell for him because he's really good-looking, I think. I'm not usually that shallow but he looks like a modern James Dean and he just sucked me in and charmed me and he was all wounded and I thought I could fix him. I think. To be honest I really wasn't thinking...

NYJets77 · 09-08-2011, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Ark5thGenGirl

29

I fell for him because he's really good-looking, I think. I'm not usually that shallow but he looks like a modern James Dean and he just sucked me in and charmed me.

something wrong there: I mean sex is awesome, but the dude needs to be neutered. doesn't sound like he'll get that under control any time soon...

Drew10 · 09-08-2011, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Ark5thGenGirl

Yeah, I'll be HAPPY to get more explicit. He was having cybersex with ex girlfriends and total sluts on webcam sites, lying to me about it, telling THEM he was going to leave me to be with them... he was going on adultfriendfinder and making plans to meet up with different random women for sex-- he was having phone sex in the mornings on his drive to work because that is when his ex got off her night shift-- should I carry on or have I embarassed myself enough at this point for dating this loser?

I always wondered what web cams were for lol. Your ex sounds like a real creep. Just be glad he is gone and don't ever look back.

BowtieBelle · 09-08-2011, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by NYJets77

something wrong there: I mean sex is awesome, but the dude needs to be neutered. doesn't sound like he'll get that under control any time soon...

I think he really, truly, might be a sex addict. Like... hardcore. Not even gonna joke, no details except to say getting it at home at least 4 nights a week wasn't enough for him

automatic1221 · 09-08-2011, 04:28 PM

Not saying this about you, but humans want what they can't have and they take what they do have for granted... sad, but always true.

BackinBlackSS/RS · 09-08-2011, 04:34 PM

End ALL contact and it will be done with. He's a game player and a manipulator.

Tessa · 09-08-2011, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by JETG

Just stop talking to him, nothing gained from it at all. Once they are a ex, they stay that way and no reason to revisit what didnt work. Why torment yourself because of someone you dumped.

Why is it that women date loosers ??? then grip about it ??? never understood that. Then have a nice guy and get what they want then treat him like crap. Thank god I am single, and loving life !!!

It works the same for men - the boys put up with the whores that abuse them instead of taking out us nice girls. Some of us actually know how to treat a decent man and WANT to treat the good ones the way they deserve.

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Originally Posted by Ark5thGenGirl

Yeah, I'll be HAPPY to get more explicit. He was having cybersex with ex girlfriends and total sluts on webcam sites, lying to me about it, telling THEM he was going to leave me to be with them... he was going on adultfriendfinder and making plans to meet up with different random women for sex-- he was having phone sex in the mornings on his drive to work because that is when his ex got off her night shift-- should I carry on or have I embarassed myself enough at this point for dating this loser?

Oh so you've met my ex-husband too?

No for real -- been THERE girl -- its all too easy to find these pricks -- do NOT hold it against yourself. They are con artists - this is what they DO - they know how to manipulate and make YOU feel like the "bad guy".
You got smart - now he can't stand it. Nothing bruises the ego of a con-artist like this more then when you won't fall for his BS games.

2001ragtop · 09-08-2011, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Ark5thGenGirl

...but really... Why does he BOTHER? Is it the challenge factor or am I just missing something?

1) Only date someone who is head-over-heels crazy about you. If he does not act like it, don't associate with him anymore.

2) If you DO choose to date him/marry him...do not complain that you accepted the role in the relationship as the one who "is way more interested", instead of the one who does not have to do anything. all relationships are like this. One of the persons is always the one who is wrapped around the other ones finger.

3) another good rule is to ONLY date someone who follows you around...same way you choose a pet at a pet store. the one who comes to YOU is the one you should be with. that sounds bad, but if you don't do that, you will end up just being a doormat.

4) find a guy that nobody wants and you can be assured you will have no issues. same rule applies for guys looking for women. If you date a "Celebrity" type of person, then you have to accept the complete and total nightmare that is involved with that. celebrities are fun to watch, but not to get involved with. those types are more obligated to their celebrity status than to you.

good luck.....keep in mind you have options. dont allow yourself to let this guy play jedi mind tricks on you. Just IGNORE him and move on. the more you ignore, the more they will disappear as if they don't exist.

Edit: Rule #3....follows you around AND you have lots of things in common with them.

Adios

09-08-2011, 04:17 PM	#46
BowtieBelle They see me trollin'... Drives: 217 ci of fury; Chauffeured by SS Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 13,875 View My Garage	Yeah, I'll be HAPPY to get more explicit. He was having cybersex with ex girlfriends and total sluts on webcam sites, lying to me about it, telling THEM he was going to leave me to be with them... he was going on adultfriendfinder and making plans to meet up with different random women for sex-- he was having phone sex in the mornings on his drive to work because that is when his ex got off her night shift-- should I carry on or have I embarassed myself enough at this point for dating this loser? __________________ "Never race anything you can't afford to light on fire and push off a cliff." -CamaroSpike 2011 Custom LT/RS: Bella's Build Thread

09-08-2011, 04:28 PM	#53
automatic1221 Drives: 2010 Camaro 2SS RS Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Tyler Posts: 227	Not saying this about you, but humans want what they can't have and they take what they do have for granted... sad, but always true. Last edited by automatic1221; 09-08-2011 at 04:53 PM.

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