Anyone here have a Wife or GF that use to be your BF girl/wife first [had his kids]

[2ndgenz28]

Anyone here have a Wife or GF that use to be your BF or a real close friends girl/wife first? Having had kids with him first or not.
[but with advise is more helpful.]


Oh yea I know, first I’m asking about strippers and now this.

When missed opportunity knocks.....

[spyderbuddy]

No, but i've been with a few wives that had husbands. The're the best kind of Girlfriend, no strings, just Friends with benefits

[NoUCantDriveIt]

LOL! You're a trip.

[Bonnie]

Originally Posted by NoUCantDriveIt

LOL! You're a trip.

[spyderbuddy]

What's wrong with that? Women got needs, and I satified the're needs.
Always Believed that a women should come first.

[PQ]

Hard for me to give any good feedback on some of these. I've been married for almost 19 years. BUT, though I have done much of the previous stuff in these type of threads, this one I have NO experience in. Simply a place I woulnd't go.

Talk about a conflict of interest, wether you all think there is or isn't.

I'd stay away from it. jmo

[NoUCantDriveIt]

Originally Posted by spyderbuddy

What's wrong with that? Women got needs, and I satified the're needs.
Always Believed that a women should come first.

Sorry hon, didn't mean you were a trip. meant the OP.

[2ndgenz28]

For this one, I have never known her beyond friends but that makes it better I say as I fell for her, for who she is over the years, and as usual I had done my best to ignore her as a woman, how friends are suppose to do it with their friends girls/wives. [Unless they let them post half naked pics on a car forum ] Why 6-8 years back I stopped going over there or returning calls for no reason, someone was gonna see how I looked at her.
And it was the right thing to do if I could not hide it.

They had a real rocky things going for many years, he spent 24/7 bitchin about how he didn't want her, never wanted to get married, made it clear that their arrangement was they could do what ever with who ever when out [though she didn't know this], long as they came home it was ok.
Asking me to help him get ride of her when he was at his witts end.

While I bite my tongue with a "ill take her off your hands” inside.
Which he probably would of went for as his big concern was losing his house and stuff. [He did buy it himself from his Dad, was his families land for a few gens, I could see that side of it.]


So cause of all that I had to stop going around there, though I have thought about her almost daily ever since. Some reason I just happen across their daughters twitter page, she is now going to college and grown. [last I was around, she was maybe 12] From the comments and pics her Mom is single now. I had no clue or ever heard anything. Only pic she has of her Mom on FB is from 06 and she changed allot, no more tiny girl, The kids and her 30s had come home to roost. But soon as I see those eyes none of that matters. Weight can be changed, but everyone knowing your woman use to be a stripper can’t be exercised off hehehe I know that isn’t 100% right though this is also different, being how I fell for her over time for who she is as a person, not someone I was just getting naked with and fell that way.
Which I feel is different.


So the statute of limitation on going after her should have run out by now?
[Being I haven’t seen either in many years]

[spyderbuddy]

Originally Posted by NoUCantDriveIt

Sorry hon, didn't mean you were a trip. meant the OP.

U still look great, and have some very pretty eyes.

And thanks

[Bonnie]

Originally Posted by NoUCantDriveIt

Sorry hon, didn't mean you were a trip. meant the OP.

Me too!

[spyderbuddy]

Originally Posted by Bonnie

Me too!

Thanks Ms Bonnie
Still Love you. Your a sweetie.

[Bonnie]

Originally Posted by spyderbuddy

Thanks Ms Bonnie
Still Love you. Your a sweetie.

[2ndgenz28]

For this one, I have never known her beyond friends but that makes it better I say as I fell for her, for who she is over the years, and as usual I had done my best to ignore her as a woman, how friends are suppose to do it with their friends girls/wives. [Unless they let them post half naked pics on a car forum ] Why 6-8 years back I stopped going over there or returning calls for no reason, someone was gonna see how I looked at her.
And it was the right thing to do if I could not hide it.

They had a real rocky things going for many years, he spent 24/7 bitchin about how he didn't want her, never wanted to get married, made it clear that their arrangement was they could do what ever with who ever when out [though she didn't know this], long as they came home it was ok.
Asking me to help him get ride of her when he was at his witts end.

While I bite my tongue with a "ill take her off your hands” inside.
Which he probably would of went for as his big concern was losing his house and stuff. [He did buy it himself from his Dad, was his families land for a few gens, I could see that side of it.]


So cause of all that I had to stop going around there, though I have thought about her almost daily ever since. Some reason I just happen across their daughters twitter page, she is now going to college and grown. [last I was around, she was maybe 12] From the comments and pics her Mom is single now. I had no clue or ever heard anything. Only pic she has of her Mom on FB is from 06 and she changed allot, no more tiny girl, The kids and her 30s had come home to roost. But soon as I see those eyes none of that matters. Weight can be changed, but everyone knowing your woman use to be a stripper can’t be exercised off hehehe I know that isn’t 100% right though this is also different, being how I fell for her over time for who she is as a person, not someone I was just getting naked with and fell that way.
Which I feel is different.


So the statute of limitation on going after her should have run out by now?
[Being I haven’t seen either in many years...]

[spyderbuddy]

Originally Posted by PQ

Hard for me to give any good feedback on some of these. I've been married for almost 19 years. BUT, though I have done much of the previous stuff in these type of threads, this one I have NO experience in. Simply a place I woulnd't go.

Talk about a conflict of interest, wether you all think there is or isn't.

I'd stay away from it. jmo

Careful PQ Bon Bon Will Be watching you.
Oh BTW i still think you have one of the best looking Camaro's on line.