Anyone here have a Wife or GF that use to be a stripper [just topless to fully nude]

[Big Brunsy]

Strippers are fun for a night or 2, but aren't really g/f material as they are usually just gold diggers.

[Mr_Draco]

If she hasn't done it in a long time, don't worry about it imo. I know a lot of girls who tried it for a couple months for the money and because they thought it would be cool. If she is still doing it then I wouldn't bother.

[MikeSVX]

My exwife was (in vegas no less). She didn't when we where together, though she went back to it for a little while after we broke up and lost her job. There was really anything to deal with. It wasn't my families business and I let them know it. Of course, I don't know how old you are. Im in my 30's.

[Steve Dallas]

I hope I don't get banned for this!!!!

GIS for Stripper...

[infernoinandout]

My first wife was sort of a stripper, she would strip down for just about any one. Thus she is no longer my wife. 4 kids four dads and counting.

[CamaroMiami]

I had a stripper that liked me when I was younger and unmarried. I didn't know she was a stripper until a friend told me what she did. I never had a relationship with her and thought of her as a beautiful, fine bodied friend.

To tell you the truth, I just thought she was too fine and looked too good to want me.

I wonder now what she's doing, she must be in her mid fifties now.

[Hicompression]

Originally Posted by PQ

It is funny how every one of that ever gave me a lap dance...has told me they were stripping their way through medical or law school.

RIIIIIIIIGHT

Edited...and Quoted For Truth.

[Hicompression]

Originally Posted by CamaroMiami

I had a stripper that liked me when I was younger and unmarried. I didn't know she was a stripper until a friend told me what she did. I never had a relationship with her and thought of her as a beautiful, fine bodied friend.

To tell you the truth, I just thought she was too fine and looked too good to want me.

I wonder now what she's doing, she must be in her mid fifties now.

You sir, should have hit that.

[heRS]

I used to manage a strip bar and for every stripper that truly has deep moral values there are about 300 that don't. If she was a stripper and isn't now, meybe her sense of moral value kicked in before the easy livin' and drugs took over. Don't hold a person's past against them. They may have chosen to change and done a damfine job of it. Good luck.

[Russo]

Originally Posted by heRS

Don't hold a person's past against them. They may have chosen to change and done a damn fine job of it. Good luck.

^this.

how many people make decisions that parents, siblings, cousins, and friends use to condemn them? it could have happened 10 years ago, but you still have the memory... my suggestion is to pray about it... maybe it's the feeling you had in the past, how she made you feel then...

my example is that when i was younger, i told many people that i wanted a wife that didnt have kids from a previous marriage or shack up.. but that was when i was younger... as i get older, i realise that the chances of me hooking up with the right person that also has a child, gets greater... today's value of marriage, children, responsibility, etc is totally out of wack.. so there may be sacrafice or compromise you have to make or least willing to make...

[helmincamaro]

Originally Posted by Steve Dallas

I hope I don't get banned for this!!!!

GIS for Stripper...

She takes the table hop to a whole new level!

[2010 SSRS]

nude strippers rule

[PQ]

Originally Posted by SSE 4 2SS

Ahhh, the voice of experience...

Actually, almost..... lmao

Originally Posted by Ivas

Just raise the PIMP hand.

Originally Posted by 2ndgenz28

It would be after the fact for me, yet nothing has happened, it still part of my thought process as to what if I get re-involved with this girl.

Was an old girl friend, who did the topless thong thing at one of those bar n grill places where its not really strip, but your still mostly naked for pay.

things that bother me, she did this right after we broke up long ago, so I got to hear everyone come n tell me about it how friends like to do. Though she hasn't done that forr many many years.

Then I ponder the future, I mean someone has to of dealt with it but what's its like to say or hear it used an an excuses "Grandma use to be a stripper" "Grandma has a tattoo" "Grandma went to Mexico for spring break topless"
"Grandpa smokes pot" well that last one is ok

Which isn't really right, what woman could live up to the down the road Grandma test. {maybe one of the Duggar girls , fat chance at that. }


There is also a small part of me that doesn't care about all that stuff, "who cares, shes back" but then those little voices start to question things.

Seriously. It's a tough one.

I'd say if you can't make complete peice with this, then don't pursue it.

You obviously realy like this girl. Honestly I wouldn't have a problem with it. She can earn your respect and trust. I'm guessing she has your respect already. Ot at least a bit of it. Just treat it like any other situation and you will know wether her past is the past. But if you can't le it go, then do both of you a favor and call it quits now.

Originally Posted by Big Brunsy

Strippers are fun for a night or 2, but aren't really g/f material as they are usually just gold diggers.

Mostly. But in this case, she has obviously not done it for a while and isn't 'trashy'. Never know. She could be one of the few.

Originally Posted by Hicompression

Edited...and Quoted For Truth.

Originally Posted by heRS

I used to manage a strip bar and for every stripper that truly has deep moral values there are about 300 that don't. If she was a stripper and isn't now, meybe her sense of moral value kicked in before the easy livin' and drugs took over. Don't hold a person's past against them. They may have chosen to change and done a damfine job of it. Good luck.

[bigted83]

can't make a hoe a housewife