I wonder if anyone has been through this (Girlfriend question) - Page 2

Zeus · 02-10-2010, 11:01 AM

BlackSS831 · 02-10-2010, 11:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Den4176

I have had my girlfriend for 6 years now, she the quiet type, always in her bed just watching as things go by, behaves, doesn't like to go out too much, she just loves chilling, or lying on me while i watch tv.

But one thing that i don't get, is when i get home, she's not excited to see me, she knows the routine, i get home and she's ready for a talk so she'll come to me, but she's not excited, other times she'll just stay in her bed.

When i went on vacation i had my roomie entertain her, they were very attached, and when my roomie gets home my girl gets excited and follows him everywhere in the house.

I'm not sure what i do or did wrong, but i give her a lot of attention, i try to be with her a lot, and give her attention and affection, but i feel like maybe she's not happy with me, and not sure what to think about that, i know my roomie would date her in an instant, and id still visit as shes a friend, but i'm not sure how hurt id be in the process? i love my girl. any advice?

#1 your girl is BORED! You need to stop being so clingy and let her know you have other options, let her see you with other girls, trust me she'll want you more.

#2 Your "Roomie" probably hit it when you were away but they got drunk... lol - So they try not to talk about it but she really wants it from him again.

#3 After 6 years and you say you love her but no ring and you say if you broke up you would be "Friends" even if your roomie was tapping that on a daily basis... lmao

You need to be a man, ask her to marry you or get rid of her. She probably gave up on the fact that your going to marry her and she's going to lay in bed watching tv her whole life with you.

Take her out to dinner, get a few drinks in her, go home and hit that like you've never hit that before! Make her go

"This message will self destruct in 5 seconds"

CynAgain · 02-10-2010, 11:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IndyDave

Communication is the key to any relationship that is going to last. Talk to her & listen to what she says.

Quote:

Originally Posted by SSOOCH

Is your girlfriend a "Human" or a "Canine". I don't get the "follow" around bit.....

I thought the same thing

tom692010 · 02-10-2010, 11:52 AM

By a camaro,dump her a** and have a blast finding another girl. Must be a joke or something so I'm not going to give u s*** for putting this on a Camaro forum.............

Moriartii · 02-10-2010, 11:54 AM

Your girlfriend sounds like a dog, literally. Just saying.

Cheers
K

Den4176 · 02-10-2010, 12:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlackSS831

#1 your girl is BORED! You need to stop being so clingy and let her know you have other options, let her see you with other girls, trust me she'll want you more.

#2 Your "Roomie" probably hit it when you were away but they got drunk... lol - So they try not to talk about it but she really wants it from him again.

#3 After 6 years and you say you love her but no ring and you say if you broke up you would be "Friends" even if your roomie was tapping that on a daily basis... lmao

You need to be a man, ask her to marry you or get rid of her. She probably gave up on the fact that your going to marry her and she's going to lay in bed watching tv her whole life with you.

Take her out to dinner, get a few drinks in her, go home and hit that like you've never hit that and Donkey Punch her...
before! Make her go

"This message will self destruct in 5 seconds"

thanks .....i'll try that..:(

Iwantone2 · 02-10-2010, 12:04 PM

thejoker1232 · 02-10-2010, 12:07 PM

hey if you give her a lot of attention maybe she just "knows the routine" and expects what will happen and is not that excited, however the friend is new and his thought processes and things are different. maybe you need to change up the way you do things or take some time off becauses girls are like little kids don't kill me they like mystery, and they like excitement so when the mysteriousness and excitement goes away they find themselves bored and thus your friend is new and exciting so i would not give her as much attention and just try to do spice it up a bit.... sorry i may be way in left field but that is how i percieved it. it's not you or her it's just the situation

Iwantone2 · 02-10-2010, 12:07 PM

Somebody earlier posted that you're being too nice...

How does your "roomie" interact with "her"?

Den4176 · 02-10-2010, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by THUMPER20X

You are paying too much attention. Shes bored of having you as a lapdog, she may/proby be sleeping with your roomate. Giving you a subtle hint that she more excited by him in general than you. Most girls are to chicken to fess up to things so they can look like the victim. She will escalate her behaviour till you get fed up, react and make her look like she was the victim to end the relationship and come out getting sympathy. Stale relationship M.O. #1. When girls first weigh a guy up for a relationship they want that sensitive and somewhat grounded guy kinda like you have to be 80%gentleman and 20%asshole to get her and then be 80%asshole and 20% gentleman when shes tired of you being loyal and caring. Then they get bored of that watch to much Sex and the City and try to live a separate life and when that starts you have already lost, its an actual trend/attitude very common in North America for some reason. Most girls are only as faithful as their lack of options. Keep this angle,,,,,, Keep a balance that you are intriguing, passionate and attentive to her needs but at the same time keep an aura that you know your'e a great guy and if you get wrongdone you can and will move on to a willing number of new girls. Its the only way. Women are relationship opportunists and you can never forget that, one of the biggest differences between men and women. I have over 300 hours in relationship counselling to know this crap. Alot of it is female secrets and its stuff youre not supposed to know. Women have their own agenda believe me, especially white North American ones for some reason, probly our culture pop/culture.

I suspect that she sleeps with him:( i found her once before sitting on his lap... but i thought she was just being friendly

CJ Man · 02-10-2010, 12:30 PM

I say take her on cheaters to be sure. Or Maury!

thejoker1232 · 02-10-2010, 12:32 PM

friends don't sit on friends lap trust me i know i went after a girl who had a bf and she never said oh ia m just going to sit on your lap for the fun of it. hmmm i learned from my mistake.

Den4176 · 02-10-2010, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Smith

WTF? Love advice on a Camaro internet msg board site?

rudack · 02-10-2010, 12:56 PM

Drop her like the plague. Your Friend or lack thereof needs a solid beating as well.

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Iwantone2 Voice Of The Voiceless Drives: CGM 1SS RS Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: OC Cali Posts: 9,610 View My Garage	Somebody earlier posted that you're being too nice... How does your "roomie" interact with "her"? __________________

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rudack Rudack Drives: ABM 2SS/RS Join Date: May 2009 Location: Coconut Creek, FL Posts: 742 View My Garage	Drop her like the plague. Your Friend or lack thereof needs a solid beating as well. __________________ ABM 2SS/RS #33390

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thejoker1232 Drives: furture 1LT synergy green camaro Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: longview Posts: 534	hey if you give her a lot of attention maybe she just "knows the routine" and expects what will happen and is not that excited, however the friend is new and his thought processes and things are different. maybe you need to change up the way you do things or take some time off becauses girls are like little kids don't kill me they like mystery, and they like excitement so when the mysteriousness and excitement goes away they find themselves bored and thus your friend is new and exciting so i would not give her as much attention and just try to do spice it up a bit.... sorry i may be way in left field but that is how i percieved it. it's not you or her it's just the situation

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CJ Man Missing my SS :( Drives: 2012 Ford Explorer [ :( ] Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 1,640	I say take her on cheaters to be sure. Or Maury!

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thejoker1232 Drives: furture 1LT synergy green camaro Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: longview Posts: 534	friends don't sit on friends lap trust me i know i went after a girl who had a bf and she never said oh ia m just going to sit on your lap for the fun of it. hmmm i learned from my mistake.