heart broken

[will69camaro]

If you're paying rent (probably not a written arrangement) it'd be tough for her to straight kick you out I'd think..Either way shouldn't get yourself into that position in a matter of months.

William

[springerpete]

Originally Posted by OUR72GTO

The car came with a 3 year bumper to bumper warranty...

GF only came with 2 bumpers.

and NO WARRANTY!

[Hopper]

Originally Posted by 1320junkie

Just going to put this out there...if you had the car before her...dont get rid of it to get you back...you are just setting yourself up for heartbreak down the road..its not about the car but you just giving in...and dont become a stalker bro...you cant force her to be with you..just ive her some space and time..if she comes back it's meant to be...if not go play some Lady Antebellum in your camaro and do a burnout in front of her house..lol....just kidding...seriously give her some space for a bit, she knows you are trying to reach out to her..give her a chance to respond

Originally Posted by SSOOCH

Love is greater than any material item. Even a Camaro.

Originally Posted by cam5

just gunna say this straight foward.. the car came first which means she hasnt been around over a year.. dont settle for a woman that deals these cards in such a short period of time.. a relationship isnt truly tested until years into it.. if ur having problems now then id be afraid to see whats to come.. dont let a car end things with a woman... but dont let a woman control ur dreams..

Sage advice above. These 3 said exactly what I was going to post. SSOOCH is a man of few words and says it best IF love is truly there, but I agree with the other 2 as well. I think it's about more than your car. As junkie says, "give her space" and as cam5 says, "don't settle". Tread carefully and see what happens. Everything will become clear to you in time. Junkie also has it right, there's not many issues in life a good burnout won't make you forget for just a little while! Good luck to you!

[bozbot]

Originally Posted by 1320junkie

Ok she probably thinks she made a mistake by letting you move in with her and thinks you may not manage your money well because you have a large car payment but not your own place. I think you should be paying your rent or mortgage on your own place before you get a car payment. You broke up with your girl and got put out of her place...now you have to go home to momma. you gotta be a man bro..once you leave home you arent supposed to go back. This time after you go home regroup get a plan and alwayes..always have your own place...never place yourself at the mercy of a woman...not even your wife because at the end of the day YOU have to depend on you and so does your woman....the right woman that is.

again, i think you are right. i have a good job with decent money. i am saddled with student loans tho. like i said I will only be back at my moms for a little while to get myself back on my feet. i know the car was a bad decision financially but at the time i really didnt see myself getting involved with anyone seriously (i had just gotten out of long relationship) the new gf came along and we hit it off. everything was going great. i prob moved in too soon but then again she new about all my finances before i moved in and it didnt pose a problem until a month later all of a sudden.

[bozbot]

Originally Posted by SScattergunSS

After I've been reading more and more of this...I hate to say it, but I think you ought to let that gal go. Yep, let her go, keep the Camaro, and get a dog! They love riding in these new Camaros...and they're soooo loyal!!!

haha, that dog is awesome

[Hopper]

Originally Posted by SScattergunSS

After I've been reading more and more of this...I hate to say it, but I think you ought to let that gal go. Yep, let her go, keep the Camaro, and get a dog! They love riding in these new Camaros...and they're soooo loyal!!!

So right! Unfortunately, my dog drools to much for me to even think of letting him in my Camaro!

[bozbot]

Originally Posted by Hopper

Sage advice above. These 3 said exactly what I was going to post. SSOOCH is a man of few words and says it best IF love is truly there, but I agree with the other 2 as well. I think it's about more than your car. As junkie says, "give her space" and as cam5 says, "don't settle". Tread carefully and see what happens. Everything will become clear to you in time. Junkie also has it right, there's not many issues in life a good burnout won't make you forget for just a little while! Good luck to you!

yea alot of this is stuff that I already knew but just didnt pay attention to because I was just stuck in that honeymoon stage where everything is perfect.

oh and believe me I did a nice burnout down the road driving away from the apartment...haha. that made me feel good if only for a moment

[Kalenn]

Many years ago the woman of my dreams basically kicked me to the curb because she felt my "priorities" were not where they should be. She wanted me to find a better job, get a better place to live and buy a better car and so on. Well, I sold my '67 Camaro and bought a Beretta GT. I found a better job that paid better and moved into my own apartment. A few months later we were done. I had made all these changes and in the end it didn't matter. Granted my life was better and started me moving in the right direction career wise. But... no matter what I did, she still left.

Many years later I have a great job, a wife and daughter who I love dearly, and a comfortable home to call my own. The "woman of my dreams" is not a part of this life that I have now and I don't miss her one bit.

In my case, I'm thankful that God didn't grant my prayers to get her back.

Time will tell how your story unfolds. I wish you luck.

[bozbot]

Originally Posted by Kalenn

Many years ago the woman of my dreams basically kicked me to the curb because she felt my "priorities" were not where they should be. She wanted me to find a better job, get a better place to live and buy a better car and so on. Well, I sold my '67 Camaro and bought a Beretta GT. I found a better job that paid better and moved into my own apartment. A few months later we were done. I had made all these changes and in the end it didn't matter. Granted my life was better and started me moving in the right direction career wise. But... no matter what I did, she still left.

Many years later I have a great job, a wife and daughter who I love dearly, and a comfortable home to call my own. The "woman of my dreams" is not a part of this life that I have now and I don't miss her one bit.

In my case, I'm thankful that God didn't grant my prayers to get her back.

Time will tell how your story unfolds. I wish you luck.

sounds like you are a lucky guy.

sorry to say it is hard to see that as a possibility for me right now. im 26 years old with nothing but failed relationships. i have a decent job but am saddled with student loan debt. i got the car thinking at least this will make me happy, which it did and still does but i know deep down that it was also not a good choice for me at this point in my life. its just really hard for me to see a time when i will be in a happy life.

[springerpete]

Originally Posted by Kalenn

Many years ago the woman of my dreams basically kicked me to the curb because she felt my "priorities" were not where they should be. She wanted me to find a better job, get a better place to live and buy a better car and so on. Well, I sold my '67 Camaro and bought a Beretta GT. I found a better job that paid better and moved into my own apartment. A few months later we were done. I had made all these changes and in the end it didn't matter. Granted my life was better and started me moving in the right direction career wise. But... no matter what I did, she still left.

Many years later I have a great job, a wife and daughter who I love dearly, and a comfortable home to call my own. The "woman of my dreams" is not a part of this life that I have now and I don't miss her one bit.

In my case, I'm thankful that God didn't grant my prayers to get her back.

Time will tell how your story unfolds. I wish you luck.

That is almost verbatim to what happened to me, other than I didn't have the Camaro. I'm married 17yrs now and have two awesome kids. I have a woman who loves me for me. You can't ask for better than that.

[bozbot]

Originally Posted by 1320junkie

Ok dude pity party is over you are still young with a lot of life to live. Do whatever it is you enjoy doing. There are ton's of women in the world..If you have a bunch of failed relationships do something different in the next one. You will be fine my friend...the weather will be warmer sooner than later...jsut get out and enjoy life

i appreciate all your responses and yes I am throwing a bit of a pity party its just hard right now. lots of emotions going on since its so fresh. happened only a few hours ago.

I really do appreciate the honesty tho. who knows maybe it will be a bit of a kick in the pants...

thanks to everyone for your responses. many made me laugh.

i think its time for me to sleep on things.

night all!

[Kalenn]

Originally Posted by bozbot

sounds like you are a lucky guy.

sorry to say it is hard to see that as a possibility for me right now. im 26 years old with nothing but failed relationships. i have a decent job but am saddled with student loan debt. i got the car thinking at least this will make me happy, which it did and still does but i know deep down that it was also not a good choice for me at this point in my life. its just really hard for me to see a time when i will be in a happy life.

I am very thankful for the life I have now.

I was 22 when this went down. Several failed relationships also. I know it's hard to see because of what is going on right now but trust me... things will improve. I didn't believe people when they told me this way back then. But they were right.

You can make the changes you need to get yourself on a good track. If you feel the car was a bad idea then sell it. Junkie is dead on, man. Get a place to live first that you can afford comfortably. THEN go get a car and make sure you buy within your means. If you can feel good about signing the papers, even deep down, then you're golden. I know this sounds kind of corny, but everything WILL fall into place in time. You just have to believe.

Oh, not like it really matters, but I'm 43 now. I was 33 when I met my wife to be. You have time, Boz.

[Kalenn]

Originally Posted by springerpete

That is almost verbatim to what happened to me, other than I didn't have the Camaro. I'm married 17yrs now and have two awesome kids. I have a woman who loves me for me. You can't ask for better than that.

Cheers, mate!

[Zeus]

Originally Posted by bozbot

if you had to choose between the woman of your dreams and a camaro what would you do?

granted its not an ultimatum by the woman but rather i guess a choice of which you can afford. I know that sounds kinda wrong or wierd but having such a high car payment is straining my relationship.

we got into a huge fight tonight. needless to say i was pretty much kicked out...

Not to anger the fanboys, but the Camaro is just a car.

Just... A... Car...




It's not even an exotic car. Its a car you can rent and beat to shit from Avis.