Is it just me or is my gf cheating?

[2011RS/SS]

You are in Texas.... I would call CHEATERS and catch her azz redhanded with nationwide coverage......PWNAGE awaits dude

[OUR72GTO]

[vdevine]

100% cheating. Dump her and find someone who is in to you.

[Logan-69-Camaro]

so i found out there is this guy named john that plays on her volleyball co-ed team that is into her, but she tells me he is ugly and no way is she into him. BTW she stayed out till 2 last night and when i called her she told me she didnt have service but i could text her? She gets all mad when i ask her about anything.

[BackinBlackSS/RS]

Originally Posted by Logan-69-Camaro

so i found out there is this guy named john that plays on her volleyball co-ed team that is into her, but she tells me he is ugly and no way is she into him. BTW she stayed out till 2 last night and when i called her she told me she didnt have service but i could text her? She gets all mad when i ask her about anything.

It is time to go. Find the courage and end it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[1320junkie]

Originally Posted by Logan-69-Camaro

so i found out there is this guy named john that plays on her volleyball co-ed team that is into her, but she tells me he is ugly and no way is she into him. BTW she stayed out till 2 last night and when i called her she told me she didnt have service but i could text her? She gets all mad when i ask her about anything.

Well, first off for what it's worth...You have to man up....how can you expect a woman to respect you if you don't respect yourself? you stated that you have low self esteem...you need to handle that issue first. Secondly dont kiss a woman's ass. You can be nice to her, compliment her etc..but no ass kissing..give in sometimes but always stand strong as a man, you need to work out that esteem issue first to be able to do that. Remember she can not be the source of your esteem. You guys live together but yet she stays out until the wee hours of the morning? That's not cool and contrary to popular belief a whole lot of cheating goes on during normal business hours...long story short the lady you speak of does not respect you...if she is cheating or if she is not...she doesnt respect you and you are tolerating it which means you dont respect yourself (self esteem again). I respect myself therefor people respect me, she is only doing what you allow her to get away with. Respect yourself first and I think you will realize that this woman is not for you. Love can come and go with a person becaue it never really dies. But once the trust is gone....it's more than likely gone forever. You dont have to act like a "dyck" just because you have one...just be a man. Make the hard decision and dont kiss women's azz they will respect that. Sometime's I raise hell just because..thats what men do sometimes..lol...women do the same but at the end of the day what I say goes....now I do compromise at times to keep things in balance and everyday I know i find away to show my lady that she is loved and I handle business. At any given point if she starts to act up or disrespect me in a serious way..she knows.. I wont tolerate it.....don't know if any of this is helping you or not..but if it were me she'd be gone.

[infernoinandout]

when i was in the navy I would come home and she would want to go with here friends at mid night and stay out till 5am, divorced that, one of the best decision in my life.

[PQ]

Originally Posted by Logan-69-Camaro

So the past couple weeks my girlfriend has been going out and hanging out with her girlfriends. She stays out as late as 2:30 at night and stuff. She is always on the phone texting and etc. She checks my phone non-stop but i cant lay a finger on hers? She always tilts her phone away from me and turns the screen off after everything (i-phone) Last night we were sleeping and i woke up to the sound of her talking to "amanda" she was laughing and carrying on, at 3:00 in the morning no one talks to their best friends about nothing am i right? She always thinks im cheating or texting someone else also. I just need a few pointers on what you guys think.

Thanks, Logan

Dude, leave. I've said it a million times. The minute I wonder and question, I'm getting a divorce. I won't live like that. It's counter-active to you gaining self esteem. And if it's true, don't think it's you. It's her breaking an agreement and that's it.

Advice, next time you meet a girl, just assume you'll only be with her a short while. Pre-plan the break-up and expect it. Let her do what she wants. If she digs you, you'll know it. STILL don't expect it to go too long. You'll know when it's time to trust her. And don't even beggin to hope a girl will be faithful until that 'You know it' time comes. I've had girls tell me that it doesn't seem like I even care what they do. (including my wife) My answer; "I don't! I hope you'll be with only me but you can do what you want." It's worked out well over the years. Nobody likes to be watched over.

Originally Posted by 1320junkie

Well, first off for what it's worth...You have to man up....how can you expect a woman to respect you if you don't respect yourself? you stated that you have low self esteem...you need to handle that issue first. Secondly dont kiss a woman's ass. You can be nice to her, compliment her etc..but no ass kissing..give in sometimes but always stand strong as a man, you need to work out that esteem issue first to be able to do that. Remember she can not be the source of your esteem. You guys live together but yet she stays out until the wee hours of the morning? That's not cool and contrary to popular belief a whole lot of cheating goes on during normal business hours...long story short the lady you speak of does not respect you...if she is cheating or if she is not...she doesnt respect you and you are tolerating it which means you dont respect yourself (self esteem again). I respect myself therefor people respect me, she is only doing what you allow her to get away with. Respect yourself first and I think you will realize that this woman is not for you. Love can come and go with a person becaue it never really dies. But once the trust is gone....it's more than likely gone forever. You dont have to act like a "dyck" just because you have one...just be a man. Make the hard decision and dont kiss women's azz they will respect that. Sometime's I raise hell just because..thats what men do sometimes..lol...women do the same but at the end of the day what I say goes....now I do compromise at times to keep things in balance and everyday I know i find away to show my lady that she is loved and I handle business. At any given point if she starts to act up or disrespect me in a serious way..she knows.. I wont tolerate it.....don't know if any of this is helping you or not..but if it were me she'd be gone.

Fn

Dude. You're smarter than even YOU know.

[jrboyd_1980]

Originally Posted by PQ

Dude, leave. I've said it a million times. The minute I wonder and question, I'm getting a divorce. I won't live like that. It's counter-active to you gaining self esteem. And if it's true, don't think it's you. It's her breaking an agreement and that's it.

Advice, next time you meet a girl, just assume you'll only be with her a short while. Pre-plan the break-up and expect it. Let her do what she wants. If she digs you, you'll know it. STILL don't expect it to go too long. You'll know when it's time to trust her. And don't even beggin to hope a girl will be faithful until that 'You know it' time comes. I've had girls tell me that it doesn't seem like I even care what they do. (including my wife) My answer; "I don't! I hope you'll be with only me but you can do what you want." It's worked out well over the years. Nobody likes to be watched over.
Fn

Dude. You're smarter than even YOU know.

PQ you do realize if you ever tried to divorce Bonnie she would neuter you right?
And Junkie would probably Mod-Slap you.


To the OP...

Seriously, if you are asking for advice on a car forum, then it must be bad, and leave her.

[97one]

Logan,

You got lots of good advice from this Thread.....

Now it's time to move on.............

[1320junkie]

Originally Posted by jrboyd_1980

PQ you do realize if you ever tried to divorce Bonnie she would neuter you right?
And Junkie would probably Mod-Slap you.

.

No I wouldn't..lol..but they have a great relationship

[okyankee]

i did not read all the posts besides the original. she is cheating. it is all in the name of the friend she was talking to at 3. break it down. A-MAN-DA. get it?

[1320junkie]

Originally Posted by okyankee

i did not read all the posts besides the original. she is cheating. it is all in the name of the friend she was talking to at 3. break it down. A-MAN-DA. get it?

LMAO..where have you been man?

[Zeus]

Originally Posted by 1320junkie

Well, first off for what it's worth...You have to man up....how can you expect a woman to respect you if you don't respect yourself? you stated that you have low self esteem...you need to handle that issue first. Secondly dont kiss a woman's ass. You can be nice to her, compliment her etc..but no ass kissing..give in sometimes but always stand strong as a man, you need to work out that esteem issue first to be able to do that. Remember she can not be the source of your esteem. You guys live together but yet she stays out until the wee hours of the morning? That's not cool and contrary to popular belief a whole lot of cheating goes on during normal business hours...long story short the lady you speak of does not respect you...if she is cheating or if she is not...she doesnt respect you and you are tolerating it which means you dont respect yourself (self esteem again). I respect myself therefor people respect me, she is only doing what you allow her to get away with. Respect yourself first and I think you will realize that this woman is not for you. Love can come and go with a person becaue it never really dies. But once the trust is gone....it's more than likely gone forever. You dont have to act like a "dyck" just because you have one...just be a man. Make the hard decision and dont kiss women's azz they will respect that. Sometime's I raise hell just because..thats what men do sometimes..lol...women do the same but at the end of the day what I say goes....now I do compromise at times to keep things in balance and everyday I know i find away to show my lady that she is loved and I handle business. At any given point if she starts to act up or disrespect me in a serious way..she knows.. I wont tolerate it.....don't know if any of this is helping you or not..but if it were me she'd be gone.

Pimp'n 101.