Is it just me or is my gf cheating? - Page 4

CamaroFemme · 10-30-2009, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Logan-69-Camaro

we have been dating almost 2 yrs. Russo. i have low self confidence and i tend to suck up to make her happy, we still fight ALOT, im sorry about the cry baby post. idk what to do. she always says she is gone if we fight again, seems like she always says SHE IS LEAVING

I'll throw out the objective comment to be fair to her: we only know your side of the story.

That said, it sounds like the two of you aren't meant to be. Neither of you seem happy, and it seems like it isn't a slump, that's how it's always been. I'd leave whether or not she's cheating.

BackinBlackSS/RS · 10-30-2009, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Logan-69-Camaro

i have low self confidence and i tend to suck up to make her happy, we still fight ALOT, im sorry about the cry baby post. idk what to do. she always says she is gone if we fight again, seems like she always says SHE IS LEAVING

She has hand. You do not. Those that know Seinfeld know what I'm talking about.

Russo · 10-30-2009, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Logan-69-Camaro

we have been dating almost 2 yrs. Russo. i have low self confidence and i tend to suck up to make her happy, we still fight ALOT, im sorry about the cry baby post. idk what to do. she always says she is gone if we fight again, seems like she always says SHE IS LEAVING

problems have just started to arise? or have they always been like this? maybe she's not getting the attention she requires (all women are different) and she's being suspiscious to get the attention.. perhaps she doesn't know how to communicate to you that she needs more TLC... what are your hobbies? have they taken time away from your relationship?

CamaroFemme · 10-30-2009, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by BackinBlackSS/RS

She has hand. You do not. Those that know Seinfeld know what I'm talking about.

Sounds like he's going to have a lot of "hand" soon. (Ba-bump-TISH.)

But seriously, Mr. 69 (ahem), you seem open, sensitive, giving, and you have a personality. Get a woman worthy of you.

RichieRich · 10-30-2009, 08:30 PM

Why you asking us? We are Camaro owners with a mission to pick-up chicks!

JoeP@TeamBeckyD · 10-30-2009, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by CamaroFemme

Sounds like he's going to have a lot of "hand" soon. (Ba-bump-TISH.)

But seriously, Mr. 69 (ahem), you seem open, sensitive, giving, and you have a personality. Get a woman worthy of you.

meanmike · 10-30-2009, 08:38 PM

Dude as you already know she's cheating. I went through almost the exact same stuff with my ex and eventually I caught her nasty skanky ass. And let me tell you it sucked at first. Let me also tell you after I met my new GF I thanked her for being such a whore. We get along way better than my ex and I ever did and she is soooo much better looking and 8 year's younger.

mamaro · 10-30-2009, 08:38 PM

If she doesn't want you to see her phone, she has something to hide. You need to talk to her and get an honest answer from her, without accusing her. If there is no trust in the relationship, there can be no happiness.

7CAMARO7 · 10-30-2009, 08:42 PM

mr 69... also you seem like a nice guy... aka soft, always says what ever you want baby, always apologizing, always taking whatever she gives you, never telling her what you REALLY think of her when you really need to, being too nice.

NOT A GOOD THING

girls don't like that. They don't want you to treat them like shit(some do), but always apologizing and sucking up? no no no no no no no... you sound desperate.

Girls do not like a man with self esteem issues! Grow a pair and let her know you won't be taking her shit anymore. I'm not giving you internet advise, I'm telling you exactly what I'd do in your situation. I've been in your situation and this is all of what I've learned.

you need to turn into 50cent just just about 30min on her ass and see what happens... not chris brown, james brown, or oj, but 50cent(you might not know who he is) Somebody in here know's what I'm talking about.

also, just to mess with her... do something to irritate her. When you 2 go to bed tonight wait till you think she's just about sleep then snatch all the covers off of her and wrap your self in them. The end result will be you getting laid or you'll just find out how much of a b i t c h she can really be. In either case when she tries to get the covers back call her something she hates. and use a couple rubbers at the same time lol

NoUCantDriveIt · 10-30-2009, 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Logan-69-Camaro

we have been dating almost 2 yrs. Russo. i have low self confidence and i tend to suck up to make her happy, we still fight ALOT, im sorry about the cry baby post. idk what to do. she always says she is gone if we fight again, seems like she always says SHE IS LEAVING

Now THAT's some good information right there. Changes my whole opinion from before. Without a doubt... next time she throws "I'm leaving"

at you, see it for the awesome opportunity that it is and.. Let. Her. Go! b'bye... c'ya... don't let the door hit ya!

And next time don't suck up to a woman to make her happy because... (the short list) 1. It really pisses us off. 2. Any woman that it doesn't piss off WILL use and abuse you then leave when there's nothing left to take. and 3. It's a waste of time.

Honestly, I'd be surprised if after a few months on the open market that confidence of yours didn't bump up a few levels.

I'd stay on this soapbox longer but I don't know what age group you'll be hunting in.

7CAMARO7 · 10-30-2009, 08:52 PM

Be this guy for just 1hr with her ass lmao

NoUCantDriveIt · 10-30-2009, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by 7CAMARO7

Be this guy for just 1hr with her ass lmao

7CAMARO7 · 10-30-2009, 08:58 PM

lol its better than being mr soft nice guy lol

Russo · 10-30-2009, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by 7CAMARO7

lol its better than being mr soft nice guy lol

in my experience, being the asshole will get you laid more... however, a guy looking for substance beyond a piece of ass will never be happy playing the role of an ass...

10-30-2009, 08:42 PM	#51
7CAMARO7 Drives: Slow 4th gen Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: showing you tail lights Posts: 287 View My Garage	mr 69... also you seem like a nice guy... aka soft, always says what ever you want baby, always apologizing, always taking whatever she gives you, never telling her what you REALLY think of her when you really need to, being too nice. NOT A GOOD THING girls don't like that. They don't want you to treat them like shit(some do), but always apologizing and sucking up? no no no no no no no... you sound desperate. Girls do not like a man with self esteem issues! Grow a pair and let her know you won't be taking her shit anymore. I'm not giving you internet advise, I'm telling you exactly what I'd do in your situation. I've been in your situation and this is all of what I've learned. you need to turn into 50cent just just about 30min on her ass and see what happens... not chris brown, james brown, or oj, but 50cent(you might not know who he is) Somebody in here know's what I'm talking about. also, just to mess with her... do something to irritate her. When you 2 go to bed tonight wait till you think she's just about sleep then snatch all the covers off of her and wrap your self in them. The end result will be you getting laid or you'll just find out how much of a b i t c h she can really be. In either case when she tries to get the covers back call her something she hates. and use a couple rubbers at the same time lol __________________

10-30-2009, 08:58 PM	#55
7CAMARO7 Drives: Slow 4th gen Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: showing you tail lights Posts: 287 View My Garage	lol its better than being mr soft nice guy lol __________________

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meanmike Account Suspended Drives: FIRST ON RACE DAY Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Indiana Posts: 1,170	Dude as you already know she's cheating. I went through almost the exact same stuff with my ex and eventually I caught her nasty skanky ass. And let me tell you it sucked at first. Let me also tell you after I met my new GF I thanked her for being such a whore. We get along way better than my ex and I ever did and she is soooo much better looking and 8 year's younger.

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mamaro Drives: '10 IOM 2LT/RS M6 Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Cache Oklahoma Posts: 401 View My Garage	If she doesn't want you to see her phone, she has something to hide. You need to talk to her and get an honest answer from her, without accusing her. If there is no trust in the relationship, there can be no happiness.