Attn Law enforcement and Lawyer ppl or ppl with knowledge of law. is this a threat - Page 2

songsj · 10-21-2009, 11:36 PM

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yea she really believes he may do something... shes actually saying she won't get in the car so all of that doesn't happen.

They may be idle threats, but If you think he may do something then stay away.

1320junkie · 10-21-2009, 11:37 PM

How old are you and how old is she?

coolman · 10-21-2009, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by G.E.

i dont think this is just the fatherly type bond ya'll are talking about... this is like a psycho type thing... like he isn't all that lovely to his step kids either...

Well, that is something different. It's hard to tell for us. We don't know him.
If your that afraid I would move on. How old are you?

G.E. · 10-21-2009, 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by coolman

Why doesn't the old man like you? Maybe she just saying that so she doesn't have to go with you.

well we are not going anywhere, she just wants to take a ride, but she is worried for her, my and my cars sake and safety... and i have no idea y he does not like me... I have never met any adult who does not like me... I am not a bad kid... I am one of the best kids I know... I am surprised I am not a complete loner/loser because I have such a non exciting crazy life... like booze and cigs... Never done any of that stuff, straight "a" student... I don't know what his problem is, every other adult I know wants me to date their daughter... and i am not being conceited.

G.E. · 10-21-2009, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by coolman

Well, that is something different. It's hard to tell for us. We don't know him.
If your that afraid I would move on. How old are you?

well we are both 16 bout to be 17 and if you really wanna know, she is 2 months older than me, and I'm not sure what you mean by move on... like i said we are not dating... we just dated for a while... however we are now just friends...

1320junkie · 10-21-2009, 11:48 PM

Well, let me step out of this one I may be to biased because my only daughter is my oldest child.........

Asylum · 10-21-2009, 11:51 PM

Since no one has said it I guess I'm the first.
Stop talking to us about your problem, we (the interwebz) will not solve it for you or give you good indication of what to do.

Its been said before

1.) Talk to your LOCAL police department if you truly feel unsafe. If you believe beyond reasonable doubt that something may happen then your first step is to stop interacting / seeing this girl immediately. That is not only my advice but what the police will say as well.

The expression is simply put - Plent of fish in the sea.

2.) If you are a man, and your sure as hell not acting like one you drive to the house knock on the door and when she answers ask for her dad. If he answers stand up and say Hey, I'm really concerned about something your daughter said... bla bla bla

If choosing option 2. bring a friend with YOU as a witness should he actually be crazy and assault you -- which I doubt would happen.

Ultimately the fact that either of my points are even being brought up should speak volumes about the situation.

In the end Choice 3 is the most mature, and appropriate choice for this type of circumstance

Stop talking to her, and move on.
She / He is not worth the time - I would have suspected a Straight A non cig and booze drinking student to be able to establish this on their own but I suppose not.

Anyways, do what you want but remember...
Coming here is the first step in the wrong direction for advice. It's far to circumstantial.

Choice 1 or 2 - pick one.
BUt really, Choice 3 is the smartest.

Oh and just for a laugh.
Listen to your brain, that's what MEN do,
Listen to your heart - that shit gets you hurt, frustrated, and upset.

coolman · 10-21-2009, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by G.E.

well we are both 16 bout to be 17 and if you really wanna know, she is 2 months older than me, and I'm not sure what you mean by move on... like i said we are not dating... we just dated for a while... however we are now just friends...

Well then , I would just be friends from a distance. I know it's tough, but if he's unstable you don't want to mess with him. Going to the cops could just make things worse for her and you. I hope he's not being abusive to her at home. this would than need to get some attention from your local law if so. If it was me I would walk away. You have your whole life to make friends.

2ndgenz28 · 10-22-2009, 12:17 AM

Man up and seak the guy out. [wear a wire if your that scared] but if your respectful and honest he may change his tune. Sounds like you have known her to long now without knowing him. Also talk to the Mother. If you can butter up the Mom the Dads thoughts are null n void for the most part. She can then get or give you more permission to do things as she can see it from the daughters side.

Iroczlover · 10-22-2009, 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by 1320junkie

My daughter went on her first date last week...I threatened the boy etc...I let it be known dont mess with my daughter

lol same here when my daughter starts to date, shes already causing her dad to get gray hairs & Shes 11yrs old.

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Originally Posted by songsj

I'm not sure how far you went but if you have to go overboard and threaten the guys your daughter brings home. Maybe she should wait a little longer to date. Like maybe 21.

my daughter when she gets old enough to date.

Her father will be sitting on the front porch cleaning a shot gun (dont even own one right now but will be buying on soon) lol,& when the kid drives up * comes to get her, her brother will be coming out of the back yard in cover alls.

"Pa We are running outta room back there"

My hsuband would say
"what time you bringing my little girl home? I dont have issues going back to prison"

lol

Banshee · 10-22-2009, 01:40 AM

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Originally Posted by G.E.

Ok, this girl and I are good friends and went out for a while and her stepdad is a real douche. He is also the janitor at our school... Anyway he has always made little threats to her about me... but never directly to me. The most recent threat, I guess that is what this is called, is when she was telling him about my car. He said that if he ever caught her in it that he would smash the window, pull her out and then beat me... Now to me this is pretty disturbing. My question is, can anything be done about this..

additional info: Past threats are kind of like if i ever see him touch you i will brake his (my) hand... Like I said he has never directly threatened me but he is always telling her little things that he'd do to me.

How old is she?

Secondly, if the threat was not made directly to you, you have no grounds.

Reason?

The elements of a threat..fear/ Fear can not be presumed through hearsay. Your GF telling you dad was going to do "X" to your car and "Z" to you is not sufficient to file charges. Unless that is, your GF will swear of "affirm" what she told you (fathers threats) are true.

However...

You can make an informational report if your local dept. will allow it.

*Milk 1027* · 10-22-2009, 01:43 AM

it sounds like you're not even out of highschool yet. If that's the case, don't bother with police, dump her, it's not worth it.

Banshee · 10-22-2009, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Milk 1027

it sounds like you're not even out of highschool yet. If that's the case, don't bother with police, dump her, it's not worth it.

Unless she has one hell of a milkshake!

coolman · 10-22-2009, 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Milk 1027

it sounds like you're not even out of highschool yet. If that's the case, don't bother with police, dump her, it's not worth it.

so that's how you make them short and sweat.

10-22-2009, 01:43 AM	#26
Milk 1027 Camaro➎ moderator Drives: '13 BLK 1LE Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: AZ Posts: 13,567 View My Garage	it sounds like you're not even out of highschool yet. If that's the case, don't bother with police, dump her, it's not worth it. __________________

10-21-2009, 11:37 PM	#16
1320junkie Drives: The Imperial Army Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: The Darkside Posts: 15,742	How old are you and how old is she?

10-21-2009, 11:48 PM	#20
1320junkie Drives: The Imperial Army Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: The Darkside Posts: 15,742	Well, let me step out of this one I may be to biased because my only daughter is my oldest child.........

10-21-2009, 11:51 PM	#21
Asylum Account Suspended Drives: 2010 2SS RS Black on Black Manual 6 Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Brampton Posts: 441	Since no one has said it I guess I'm the first. Stop talking to us about your problem, we (the interwebz) will not solve it for you or give you good indication of what to do. Its been said before 1.) Talk to your LOCAL police department if you truly feel unsafe. If you believe beyond reasonable doubt that something may happen then your first step is to stop interacting / seeing this girl immediately. That is not only my advice but what the police will say as well. The expression is simply put - Plent of fish in the sea. 2.) If you are a man, and your sure as hell not acting like one you drive to the house knock on the door and when she answers ask for her dad. If he answers stand up and say Hey, I'm really concerned about something your daughter said... bla bla bla If choosing option 2. bring a friend with YOU as a witness should he actually be crazy and assault you -- which I doubt would happen. Ultimately the fact that either of my points are even being brought up should speak volumes about the situation. In the end Choice 3 is the most mature, and appropriate choice for this type of circumstance Stop talking to her, and move on. She / He is not worth the time - I would have suspected a Straight A non cig and booze drinking student to be able to establish this on their own but I suppose not. Anyways, do what you want but remember... Coming here is the first step in the wrong direction for advice. It's far to circumstantial. Choice 1 or 2 - pick one. BUt really, Choice 3 is the smartest. Oh and just for a laugh. Listen to your brain, that's what MEN do, Listen to your heart - that shit gets you hurt, frustrated, and upset.

10-22-2009, 12:17 AM	#23
2ndgenz28 Thread Killer Drives: All Black Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: NWO Toledo Area Posts: 4,720	Man up and seak the guy out. [wear a wire if your that scared] but if your respectful and honest he may change his tune. Sounds like you have known her to long now without knowing him. Also talk to the Mother. If you can butter up the Mom the Dads thoughts are null n void for the most part. She can then get or give you more permission to do things as she can see it from the daughters side.