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Originally Posted by stieger
marry your best friend. Simple as that, and that's what I'm doing. It's been working for 2 years now.
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That doesn't work always either. I used to date this one girl briefly about 3 years ago for say 3-5 months. Didn't work out so well but I ended becoming friends with her, probably one of the closer friends I have today. She wants totally different things in life (sitting around the house and no job while the husband works, her words...) despite the fact that we both have several common interests, so that's a no on marriage. Like I said before why not just enjoy the ride? People get into relationships with a formula in mind or start speculating if the person is marriage material right out of the box. I can understand putting together a 5/10 year plan for career and school, but a relationship? People have far more options these days than they used to, its hard....rather impossible to project something like a successful relationship much less marriage.