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Originally Posted by Den4176
I have had my girlfriend for 6 years now, she the quiet type, always in her bed just watching as things go by, behaves, doesn't like to go out too much, she just loves chilling, or lying on me while i watch tv.
But one thing that i don't get, is when i get home, she's not excited to see me, she knows the routine, i get home and she's ready for a talk so she'll come to me, but she's not excited, other times she'll just stay in her bed.
When i went on vacation i had my roomie entertain her, they were very attached, and when my roomie gets home my girl gets excited and follows him everywhere in the house.
I'm not sure what i do or did wrong, but i give her a lot of attention, i try to be with her a lot, and give her attention and affection, but i feel like maybe she's not happy with me, and not sure what to think about that, i know my roomie would date her in an instant, and id still visit as shes a friend, but i'm not sure how hurt id be in the process? i love my girl. any advice? 
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#1 your girl is BORED! You need to stop being so clingy and let her know you have other options, let her see you with other girls, trust me she'll want you more.
#2 Your "Roomie" probably hit it when you were away but they got drunk... lol - So they try not to talk about it but she really wants it from him again.
#3 After 6 years and you say you love her but no ring and you say if you broke up you would be "Friends" even if your roomie was tapping that on a daily basis... lmao
You need to be a man, ask her to marry you or get rid of her. She probably gave up on the fact that your going to marry her and she's going to lay in bed watching tv her whole life with you.
Take her out to dinner, get a few drinks in her, go home and hit that like you've never hit that before! Make her go
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