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A good parent will talk to their kids about ways to resolve these kinds of problems and use good judgement. Sometimes standing up for yourself may require getting physical. My example was just that a recent example that is in our local news. The parent is an ahole agreed...It just shows how things can get out of hand very quickly and have tragic, lasting consequences. But wouldn't calling the police be the same as telling a teacher? (BTW, I agree the way to handle it would be to call police, but others in the thread say that "tattling" will make is worse...wouldn't that be the same the next day at school to be teased the next day?) |
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Anyway, yeah you make good points about the bullies using the same excuse to get out of trouble and such. I definitely feel that fighting should be a last resort, but I don't want my children to feel afraid to fight back if necessary - which I think some schools can have that effect with their threatened punishments for fighting no matter who started it. I think a lot of my frustration on this topic stems from what my dad told me to do if someone tried to fight me: go hide in a corner. Love my dad to death, but couldn't fathom why he would tell me this.
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The principle started telling my uncle how he needed to step up and be a better parent. He let that principle have it. He told the principle that when his kids started coming home from elementary school after being educated on what child abuse was his hands are tied. You can’t spank or send your kid to bed without supper anymore without the government stepping in. I’m not picking sides here, but today, parents have to be real careful on how they decide to punish their kids. Sad, but that is how it is… |
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I agree that kids are bullied from other sources other than just the schools, but alot of times school is the only place these children come in contact with the ones they are being bullied by! I just wish some parents would teach thier children to be respectful of others and how hurtful words can be to others! But most generally those type of kids dont have a parent that cares enough and that is why thier children end up being the way they are! I know my boys arent angels, but they do know there is heavy consequences to pay if and when they get out of line, and with that being said, they generally prefer to behave themselves for the most part rather than deal with the wrath of mom!!
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edit: I wanted to add that I in no way want to diminish anything by putting it into numbers. Like I said, I was just curious and surprised. edit 2, I also wanted to add this: 65 years and over 30.0 24.5 20.8 17.6 20.5 17.9 15.2 15.3 15.6 14.6 Those numbers correspond to the years above. So the overall suicide rate has been pretty constant, but it used to be the elderly committing suicide and those numbers have dropped in half in 40 years.
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But all these comments about kids thinking suicide is "socially acceptable" are just total BS. I've been depressed before and yes, I did attempt suicide once (not because of bullying) but changed my mind before it was too late. I saw a therapist and got help. But I can tell you I didn't once think about whether it would be socially acceptable. You really think anybody thinks about how popular they'll be after they kill themselves? Its all about ending the pain you're feeling. Not saying its a good thing, but really - blaming it on it being socially acceptable is just finding a scapegoat. What we should be addressing is the cause of the pain that these kids are feeling. Maybe its that bullying is getting worse than it was a few decades ago. Maybe its that parental support is less than it was. Most likely its some combination of factors. The most important thing we can do for these kids though is to help them feel that they are not alone. Because its when you're feeling like you're no longer really part of this world that you start thinking about taking yourself from it - at least in my experience. Just my two cents. - X
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However, I would be lying if I didn't admit that when a kid I know has been bullied "stands up for themselves" I walk a little slower toward the fight to break it up |
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I don't know, it appears 20-24 are always higher in every decade.
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