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[sugar'n'spice]

Originally Posted by Tactical Z

Do you regret not dating until college?



Well, it was for the good.

He was real busy with sports and studies....SO he can have a life
after college!

[Tactical Z]

Originally Posted by respect is earned

well in my sophmore year, one of my good friends on the basketball team had a girlfriend since 8th grade and they thought they were going to get married...weeelllll she got pregnant and pretty much ruined both their lives. they both coulda gone into a division 2 college to play basketball and now they have a kid. and i feel sorry for the kid because he will have to live with their stupid choices

Now that was stupid.

[respect is earned]

Originally Posted by sugar'n'spice

Not sad...but really STUPID! Hello? Only 14!!!

yeah i agree kids (and i know i am still young) think that everything is huge and life changing like i said earlier that they just dont use common sense

[sugar'n'spice]

Originally Posted by respect is earned

well in my sophmore year, one of my good friends on the basketball team had a girlfriend since 8th grade and they thought they were going to get married...weeelllll she got pregnant and pretty much ruined both their lives. they both coulda gone into a division 2 college to play basketball and now they have a kid. and i feel sorry for the kid because he will have to live with their stupid choices

I don't believe in dating too young! And there's why!

[respect is earned]

Originally Posted by sugar'n'spice

He was real busy with sports and studies....SO he can have a life
after college!

plus one for that

[Tactical Z]

Originally Posted by sugar'n'spice

He was real busy with sports and studies....SO he can have a life
after college!

I am real busy with studies, I still have girlfriends...sorta...

[sugar'n'spice]

Originally Posted by respect is earned

yeah i agree kids (and i know i am still young) think that everything is huge and life changing like i said earlier that they just dont use common sense

Yes, you are young to me. OH! The good old days....I had at
your age! 'SNAP OUT OF IT, JOANNE!' THOSE DAYS ARE LONG GONE..

[respect is earned]

Originally Posted by sugar'n'spice

I don't believe in dating too young! And there's why!

exactly although i think with good parenting, kids can start to ease into dating at around 16. i mean, its my parents rule that no girlfriend over when they arent home, no going into bedrooms at anytime, no laying down on the couch... things like that which seem harsh but have really payed dividends for me

[sugar'n'spice]

Originally Posted by respect is earned

plus one for that

X100!

[The_Blur]

Originally Posted by Tactical Z

Do you regret not dating until college?

There were girls on the cross country team and orchestra that hung out. High school and college are very different. Only a few people transcend the superficial desire for popularity. The priority reason for most people to date in high school is to get attention from other people or to put notches in your belt, or to say, "I dated [the hottest girl in school; the prom queen; a football player; a cheerleader; someone important]." When you go to college, that goes away. You'll have an unrestricted good time for the first two years, and you'll get serious the second two years if you managed to stay in school.

There are things I would've changed, but I'm happy with the outcome. I met my girl in college, and we're getting married in March.

[respect is earned]

Originally Posted by sugar'n'spice

Yes, you are young to me. OH! The good old days....I had at
your age! 'SNAP OUT OF IT, JOANNE!' THOSE DAYS ARE LONG GONE..

haha you still have good days they are just different. you have kids and that is a different type of joy

[Tactical Z]

Originally Posted by respect is earned

yeah i agree kids (and i know i am still young) think that everything is huge and life changing like i said earlier that they just dont use common sense

They act before they think.

[respect is earned]

ok well i gotta head to class. this dude in the library has been looking at me for the last half hour its sooooo creppy. ttyl all. Much love

[sugar'n'spice]

Originally Posted by respect is earned

exactly although i think with good parenting, kids can start to ease into dating at around 16. i mean, its my parents rule that no girlfriend over when they arent home, no going into bedrooms at anytime, no laying down on the couch... things like that which seem harsh but have really payed dividends for me

I fully agree!

Those will be my rules as well!