heart broken

[BackinBlackSS/RS]

Originally Posted by sugar'n'spice

First of all, never let anyone tell YOU what to do. Be a man and stand
up, make your own decisions. No woman ( and I'm a woman)
should tell you what to do.

The 'dream' woman is supposed to support you, and back you up.
To be there for you no matter what, whether you're up and down.

I strongly believe you should keep your car! As for the girlfriend, if
she can't accept you the way you are....time to move on....

Plenty of other of women out there who would appreciate you
just the way you are WITH your car!

Nail meet head.

[HeatherMarie2LT]

Originally Posted by 5th_GEN_SS

girls come and go but ur camaro will never walk out on you lol

LOL and I'll actually back him on this

[hb35man]

I was going to try to make a point, but I lost my train of thought,must be the beer.

[wylde1]

hahaha that miller ad is amazing



The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else. A camaro can help you with that

[sugar'n'spice]

Originally Posted by BackinBlackSS/RS

Nail meet head.

[pleigh]

Originally Posted by bozbot

if you had to choose between the woman of your dreams and a camaro what would you do?

granted its not an ultimatum by the woman but rather i guess a choice of which you can afford. I know that sounds kinda wrong or wierd but having such a high car payment is straining my relationship.

we got into a huge fight tonight. needless to say i was pretty much kicked out...

What are your payments on a 2LT 6M?? They should be around $600 or less. If you bought a car that you can't afford and it's causing stress every hour of your life, it's time for the car to go. I'm not being preachy but I've been in your shoes, if the car causes that much stress, worry, and anxiety, it just ain't worth it. Trust me.. you can ALWAYS buy another car..

[will69camaro]

$600 for a V6? I pay less than that on a SS...

[pleigh]

Originally Posted by will69camaro

$600 for a V6? I pay less than that on a SS...

Zactly!! Or.. I should say depending on your interest rate, down payment, etc.. mine are less than $500.. my point was that depending on how you're spending your dough.. 500-600 should not be that big of a deal.. unless you're so strapped you shouldn't have bought it in the first place.. either way, it's not worth the stress to keep something you can't afford especially when they are reselling so well..

[bozbot]

Originally Posted by sugar'n'spice

First of all, never let anyone tell YOU what to do. Be a man and stand
up, make your own decisions. No woman ( and I'm a woman)
should tell you what to do.

The 'dream' woman is supposed to support you, and back you up.
To be there for you no matter what, whether you're up and down.

I strongly believe you should keep your car! As for the girlfriend, if
she can't accept you the way you are....time to move on....

Plenty of other of women out there who would appreciate you
just the way you are WITH your car!

I appreciate your input but while it may look like ive decided to sell the car because of her, its more of because of what she made me realize. at this point in my life i cant really afford it. thats the bottowm line no matter what happens with me and this girl.


i appreciate the input and agree with alot of what you said

[bozbot]

Originally Posted by hb35man

I was going to try to make a point, but I lost my train of thought,must be the beer.

this is amazing. thank you

Originally Posted by pleigh

What are your payments on a 2LT 6M?? They should be around $600 or less. If you bought a car that you can't afford and it's causing stress every hour of your life, it's time for the car to go. I'm not being preachy but I've been in your shoes, if the car causes that much stress, worry, and anxiety, it just ain't worth it. Trust me.. you can ALWAYS buy another car..

500 month. and while its not crazy stressful, living at my moms because i cant afford an apartment is more stressful.

[will69camaro]

Yea that would be more stressful. Definitely worth while to take the time to get on your feet. If you're going to come out of the deal behind however, maybe worth while to see if you can sort it out and keep the car?

[Matrix]

Thats a tough one to be in.

At the end of the day, you have to know your limits and the strain of lack of funds can do to a relationship. I dont care what you say, you need a certain amount of money to keep you happy, Love by itself will not keep you happy. Money by its self will not make you happy, YOU MUST HAVE A BALANCE.


It appears you dont have a balance and you should/could have seen the toll it was taking on her/relationship and talked about how to resolve it with her. She sees the car as a diversion from her and a money pit in her eyes.

Women(most) are very future orientated, men are more now orienated and need instant gratification. She sees the car as a drag on finances and killing a future that she has in her head like a new place/family etc etc.

If its causing you this much trouble and you still ache for HER, do I really need to tell you what to do?

BTW, she better be worth it or I'll kick your ass over the decision your gonna need to make lol!!!!

[bozbot]

Originally Posted by Matrix

Thats a tough one to be in.

At the end of the day, you have to know your limits and the strain of lack of funds can do to a relationship. I dont care what you say, you need a certain amount of money to keep you happy, Love by itself will not keep you happy. Money by its self will not make you happy, YOU MUST HAVE A BALANCE.


It appears you dont have a balance and you should/could have seen the toll it was taking on her/relationship and talked about how to resolve it with her. She sees the car as a diversion from her and a money pit in her eyes.

Women(most) are very future orientated, men are more now orienated and need instant gratification. She sees the car as a drag on finances and killing a future that she has in her head like a new place/family etc etc.

If its causing you this much trouble and you still ache for HER, do I really need to tell you what to do?

BTW, she better be worth it or I'll kick your ass over the decision your gonna need to make lol!!!!

you are exactly right, that is pretty much what she said. the only thing i dont agree with is that i should have realized. i think if something is bothering her so bad she needs to come to me, and not wait to let it build up and then throw it in my face in a fight.

like i said im not doing it for her but if i was she is so very very very very very very worth it.

["prima"Donna]

Originally Posted by sugar'n'spice

First of all, never let anyone tell YOU what to do. Be a man and stand
up, make your own decisions. No woman ( and I'm a woman)
should tell you what to do.

The 'dream' woman is supposed to support you, and back you up.
To be there for you no matter what, whether you're up and down.

I strongly believe you should keep your car! As for the girlfriend, if
she can't accept you the way you are....time to move on....

Plenty of other of women out there who would appreciate you
just the way you are WITH your car!

+1

My Dad told me this quote after my very first boyfriend from high school broke up with me AND broke my heart...these are good words to live by...

"If you love someone, set them free, if they come back, they are yours, if they don't, then they never were".....don't know if I have the EXACT words right, but it is so true...

Good luck to ya, buddy....the 'right one' is out there and will accept you JUST THE WAY YOU ARE, Camaro and all, if not, maybe she isn't 'the one', and better to find out now, instead of years down the road where it could hurt even more...:(

Keep us posted, we care...