Dating question

[Iroczlover]

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

lol, here's the difference between women and men (one of many anyway! ), no matter how innocent the woman feels her flirting is, to the man she's flirting with, he alway thinks theres a slither of hope that maybe he'll get some! I don't care if the guy denies it!

lol OK Do you think a 36yr old FAT bytch, thats married with two kids has any hope of catching someones eyes thats 6'3 (or taller) thats built like a brick sh*t house???? that knows shes married & happy? NO not a chance heck

[68/2010]

Sometimes we want something so bad we tell ourselves we can make it work. And the true is. It was never met to be. And it's sad because it happens in life. Don't be a ace in the hole. There is someone out there for you that will treat you like you need to be treated.

[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by Iroczlover

lol OK Do you think a 36yr old FAT bytch, thats married with two kids has any hope of catching someones eyes thats 6'3 (or taller) thats built like a brick sh*t house???? that knows shes married & happy? NO not a chance heck

well if the flirting is mutual, THEN YES!

[x626xBlack]

The term "flirt" is subjective. Some people think grabbing someone on the ass is not flirting..... and some people think asking a female bank teller for stamps is flirting.....

It is all about the perspective. My rule of thumb is do not do it if you do not want it done to you.... If you do not mind someone grabbing your sig others ass then ...well quite frankly there is not much of a bond is there?

Also in regards to on again off again relationships.... I had a 2 strike rule. If yall split and got back together and could not make it work a second time...... "Houston there is a problem". Not everything is meant to be.

[x626xBlack]

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

well if the flirting is mutual, THEN YES!

Maybe he likes to watch a double feature on a pair of white pants.

[Iroczlover]

Originally Posted by x626xBlack

The term "flirt" is subjective. Some people think grabbing someone on the ass is not flirting..... and some people think asking a female bank teller for stamps is flirting.....

It is all about the perspective. My rule of thumb is do not do it if you do not want it done to you.... If you do not mind someone grabbing your sig others ass then ...well quite frankly there is not much of a bond is there?

Also in regards to on again off again relationships.... I had a 2 strike rule. If yall split and got back together and could not make it work a second time...... "Houston there is a problem". Not everything is meant to be.

NO grab ass here, if someone grabs my ass including my husband he gets smacked.

My flirting is "Hey sweety" then maybe a hug or a kiss on the cheek lol. NO LIP locks

Originally Posted by x626xBlack

Maybe he likes to watch a double feature on a pair of white pants.

OMG lol, I dont wear white paints lol.

[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by x626xBlack

Maybe he likes to watch a double feature on a pair of white pants.

[Iwantone2]

Flirting is such a sensitive topic...We all "flirt" in different ways. Some women hit or punch and they see that as flirting. Some guys will be talking to a girl and out of the blue, will say something like "Hey, are your nails real?" (also known as "negging").

Some guy once told me, "Sometimes you need to know that 'you still got it', you know?" To myself, I though, "dude you're still married to your wife, so you obviously got it."

bigted63, you have to learn to cope with your jealousy brother. Women see that as a big turn off; they want a guy that is confident. Think back to the caveman days: The cavemen that had the most women were the ones that were the stronger ones. They could go out and kill a sabertooth tiger to provide for the family. Now to put this in perspective: women want a guy that is confident and be able to stand up for themselves. If a guy can't stand up for himself or protect himself, how will that same dude protect her if the time ever comes up?

[bigted83]

Thats all I want. Is the love of my life. But I don't wanna be old when I find her(no offense)

[x626xBlack]

Originally Posted by bigted83

Thats all I want. Is the love of my life. But I don't wanna be old when I find her(no offense)

Better to find the "One" at 35 than 2 dozen at 25.

[Iroczlover]

Originally Posted by bigted83

Thats all I want. Is the love of my life. But I don't wanna be old when I find her(no offense)

dude at 27 you are already old lol

[bigted83]

Thx

[Tessa]

Originally Posted by Iwantone2

Flirting is such a sensitive topic...We all "flirt" in different ways. Some women hit or punch and they see that as flirting. Some guys will be talking to a girl and out of the blue, will say something like "Hey, are your nails real?" (also known as "negging").

Some guy once told me, "Sometimes you need to know that 'you still got it', you know?" To myself, I though, "dude you're still married to your wife, so you obviously got it."

bigted63, you have to learn to cope with your jealousy brother. Women see that as a big turn off; they want a guy that is confident. Think back to the caveman days: The cavemen that had the most women were the ones that were the stronger ones. They could go out and kill a sabertooth tiger to provide for the family. Now to put this in perspective: women want a guy that is confident and be able to stand up for themselves. If a guy can't stand up for himself or protect himself, how will that same dude protect her if the time ever comes up?

on flirting - it depends on HOW you do it and your intentions....I can flirt if need-be -- I am sinlge tho so....-- but flirting to me is just playing, I goof around with men and women -- it's just joking - there is nothing behind it. I don't make inappropriate comments "just because" or lead people on or sht like that....when it gets beyond "joking around" in an innocent way, into a more explicit way, then it's serious and THAT sht should NOT be done when you are with someone else.
I think it depends on the other person too -- I joke with my brother-in-law that he's my "secret lover" but we joke IN FRONT of my sister and she gets in on it too - she knows her husband is not going to cheat - and no WAY would I do anything of the sort to my family (friends or even strangers) let alone the fact that he's like a real brother...we are just goofy strange people and we CAN joke around.

I think you have to know the type of person you are with and their style -- some people innocently flirt (with or without realizing it) and other people push the limits and make it dis-respectful to their partner....any physical contact (of the "lovey" kind) kissing, etc - hell even TALKING dirty - to someone other then your partner is SO EFFING WRONG! That is cheating...sorry...
Joking like "hey baby" and winking at your friend and being overly goofy about it - and you partner knows you are just a goof-ball...eh..that's fine...
you just have to know how you behave, and how your parnter behaves and what's ok between the two of you....

When you get jealous that your 'other' is talking to other guys/girls and start thinking they are cheating - then...it's time to take a hike...
From what I've learned in realtionships - instinct is everything. If you think they are lying/cheating- they ARE -- if you think they are hiding something- they ARE...

[Iwantone2]

Originally Posted by bigted83

Thats all I want. Is the love of my life. But I don't wanna be old when I find her(no offense)

At the expense of sounding cliché, you need to learn to respect and love yourself before anybody will do the same for you. If you are around somebody and all you are doing is talking negatively about yourself, then you are conditioning them to do the same towards you. You need to do the opposite: You need to be able to tell interesting things about yourself! And not just one interesting thing, LOTS of interesting things. If you only say one interesting thing, the other person will say, "Oh, that's interesting...". But, if you say several interesting things, the other person will say, "Wow, HE'S interesting..."