Dating question - Page 4

Switchin2Chevy · 07-23-2010, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by x626xBlack

Print these words and keep them in your wallet. It puts things into perspective when dating or just going out.

When you see that drop dead gorgeous girl. The one you just feel like you can not live with out.

Somebody...... somewhere...... is tired of her shit.

Hell yes!! I couldn't have said it better my self...!

Switchin2Chevy · 07-23-2010, 11:38 AM

put that on a bumper sticker!

x626xBlack · 07-23-2010, 11:40 AM

Ill put it in my Sig so the whole world can enjoy

PoorMansCamaro · 07-23-2010, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by x626xBlack

Print these words and keep them in your wallet. It puts things into perspective when dating or just going out.

When you see that drop dead gorgeous girl. The one you just feel like you can not live with out.

Somebody...... somewhere...... is tired of her shit.

lol. i'm heard something similar.

"Somebody, somewhere, is tired of f***ing her"

Tessa · 07-23-2010, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by prostock69

It seems to me, from what you have written, that she is using you or playing you, as you stated. You are like a pair of comfortable shoes. She keeps putting you on after the new shoes start hurting her feet. Then she gets a hankering for a new pair of shoes again and ends up putting you back in the closet. In other words, she doesn't want to lose you as her backup so she's stringing you along while dating other guys. Don't enable this game she is playing by going back with her when she makes contact. Cut the strings permanently and move on. If she contacts you again, just say no. Put your emotional energy into new relationships. Believe me, you will not regret it.

one hundred percent...

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Originally Posted by Michelle42780

To the OP -If she can lie to the other BF, then she can & will do it to you.
You would really give up a car for a chick? Screw that! A real woman would never make you choose, and you'll regret it forever if you do. Don't worry about not being able to find a girl "as cool as she is", there are plenty of much cooler chicks out there, trust me. As prostock said above, she's just stringing you along out of convenience. Quit being a doormat, it's not cute... ever! Why not just stay single for a while? Nothing wrong with being single and doing what YOU want. Quit worrying about this broad.

Yet again -

Liars will always BE liars - they do not change, they have no respect. I have delt with enough of them - trust me. One lie leads to another and so on.

If you feel like she's lying and hiding things - she most likely IS. Trust your instinct on this -- which seems to be saying she's no good. I know what it's like to feel like someone is special and there is a connection you don't want to lose - and at first it will hurt...but you WILL get over it and one day you'll look back and realize she means nothing to you -- that all the lies and mistrust spoke volumes and NOTHING is worth putting up with that. No realtionship that worth anything should make you feel bad and distrusting and etc (fill in all the bad sht you feel). That is NOT love...

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Originally Posted by x626xBlack

This might sting given how you feel towards her, but having not gotten married until I was 32, I have a little bit of dating under my belt. I am 40 and have been happily married for 8 years and have never looked back.... So I know what it is like to find the right person. I am not blasting you or attempting anything derogatory so please bear with me. Some of this may hit you like a brick, which is what it may take.

1. You do not need to change. I do not know you and I do not need to. You are who you are and that will be the case until you are buried. We do not change for other people, we just pretend in front of them. Life's events can change us but it takes a "rude awakening" type of even to make that happen.

2. She is f-ked in the head. Cut and dry. Either she does not know what she wants, or she wants everything. Either way brother.... It is not you. The caveat to this statement is that she wants you after you change which is NOT YOU.

3. She has no respect for you, and does not care about your feelings. She is selfish and only concerned with her own feelings and wants. If she gave a crap about you, she would have not played with you like a yo-yo back and forth like she has. You are a gap filler, when she has nothing better to do... you are the go to guy, once something fun comes alone your dumped.

I do not know her personally, but I do know girls like her. I have been in your shoes. You need to completely disconnect from her and let your feelings subside so your head takes over. If you have any true friends they are telling you the same thing. It is not what you want to hear but it is an accurate assessment of the situation with out involved emotions.

Any honest female reading this will agree. Best of luck....It's going to be rough.

This is perfect - 100% true. I've been delt with this sht from men before - if you allow it to happen it will not stop. You have to stand up and let her go - don't wait for her to "get over" you or move on -- YOU need to drop her... don;t hang out with her, don't answer her texts - do NOT let her treat you like crap. Like a few others have said before - if you let her keep treating you this way you will only ever feel worse and worse - you will never get over her and move on.

And I agree with others -- run Forest run!!

Scrappy Doo · 07-23-2010, 01:15 PM

How many times do you have to touch the hot stove guy.......

Iroczlover · 07-23-2010, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by bigted83

I'M 27

yea I think shes playing ya, loll move on & you know what if the man i was with was all hot & bothered that iw as talking to other guys (lol he once was) then screw it I am out of here. this is the 2000s men & women hang out, they flirt (believe me I KNOW) but dosent mean they are after each other lol

PoorMansCamaro · 07-23-2010, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Iroczlover

yea I think shes playing ya, loll move on & you know what if the man i was with was all hot & bothered that iw as talking to other guys (lol he once was) then screw it I am out of here. this is the 2000s men & women hang out, they flirt (believe me I KNOW) but dosent mean they are after each other lol

maybe i'm old fashioned (which is odd because i'm not really old. lol), but i think if you are in a relationship, whether just dating, steady dating, engagned or married, you shouldn't be flirting with anyone other than your significant other...

Iroczlover · 07-23-2010, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

maybe i'm old fashioned (which is odd because i'm not really old. lol), but i think if you are in a relationship, whether just dating, steady dating, engagned or married, you shouldn't be flirting with anyone other than your significant other...

OK I flirt with guys who I know & have known for a while Who know that Heck shes just being her. My husband's best friends, (what hes cute, but doesnt mean i want to do anything) Scott, some of the guys in the camaro club, heck guys on here & the old farts at work lol. its all fun & games but I sleep in my bed every night.

bigted83 · 07-23-2010, 01:52 PM

I agree with poor mans camaro. If your dating somebody u shouldn't flirt or anything

bigted83 · 07-23-2010, 01:53 PM

It's the jealousy of her showing them more attention than me

Iroczlover · 07-23-2010, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by bigted83

I agree with poor mans camaro. If your dating somebody u shouldn't flirt or anything

I been married for 17yrs, plan on staying together that long if not longer.

Russo · 07-23-2010, 01:58 PM

dude, let God do it for you... quit trying to make it work and let it go... this is coming from someone who broke up after a 3 year relationship and been through anti-depressents, alcohol, and sex to try to get the "in love" feeling back... it doesn't work! seek first the Kingdom and everything else will be taken care of..

PoorMansCamaro · 07-23-2010, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Iroczlover

OK I flirt with guys who I know & have known for a while Who know that Heck shes just being her. My husband's best friends, (what hes cute, but doesnt mean i want to do anything) Scott, some of the guys in the camaro club, heck guys on here & the old farts at work lol. its all fun & games but I sleep in my bed every night.

lol, here's the difference between women and men (one of many anyway!

), no matter how innocent the woman feels her flirting is, to the man she's flirting with, he alway thinks theres a slither of hope that maybe he'll get some! I don't care if the guy denies it!

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Russo Unofficial Glass Tech Drives: 2014 Ford F150 FX2 Join Date: May 2009 Location: Raceland, LA Posts: 1,376	dude, let God do it for you... quit trying to make it work and let it go... this is coming from someone who broke up after a 3 year relationship and been through anti-depressents, alcohol, and sex to try to get the "in love" feeling back... it doesn't work! seek first the Kingdom and everything else will be taken care of..