So what do you think a girl would say if you just walked up and said this - Page 4

MrandMrsNinja · 08-15-2011, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by 2ndgenz28

It doesn’t matter what you say, that’s not what gets them.
Could all be jibberish.

Its how you deliver it and your confidence.

Why jerks get all the girls, they don’t care what they think and ask ever girl if they want to bang.

Its their confidence of not caring what they think that allows them to score more.

i just always used my good looks..one of my ex's asked my bestfriend for my number and the first text she ever sent me was "So, you're really freakin hot" didn't really know how to respond in all honesty..i've heard some crazy things from chicks, but that was completely upfront and out there

after that it was all in the books though
i don't think i have EVER used a pick-up line of any sort on a chick

point of the story; so you callin me a jerk?

ibeck · 08-15-2011, 02:55 PM

Ladies love me, I'm on my Cool J.

Tessa · 08-15-2011, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Iwantone2

bill2129, i commend you if you have the courage to walk up to a girl and say something like that. but, you leave it open to "her" saying "no" or "sorry, I have a bf". if she feels you are coming on too strong, she will get "defensive" and try to find a way out of the situation.

think of it this way: you have a cat and a ball of yarn. if you put the ball of yarn in front of said cat and leave it there, the cat won't pay attention to the ball of yarn. however, if you start to tease the cat by pulling the ball of yarn out of it's reach, the cat becomes interested and starts to chase after it.

While I do not disagree with this point -- eventually, the girl gets bored if all you are is teasing and games.
At least I do -- sure, part of the fun is the joking around and flirting phase, but eventually, you have to man up and ask her out. or she'll get bored and think you aren't interested -- ESPECIALLY if she's flirting with you and you play it too cool. She might think you aren't interested and give up.

Steve Dallas · 08-15-2011, 04:05 PM

Just because this thread deserves this:

PoorMansCamaro · 08-15-2011, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Dallas

Just because this thread deserves this:

this picture should now, and forever, be used on this guys threads.

MrandMrsNinja · 08-15-2011, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Dallas

Just because this thread deserves this:

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:lau ghabove:

:laugh above:

BackinBlackSS/RS · 08-15-2011, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Overflow

Dude. You like a new girl each week.

Well, he has to. They've figured him out in that amount of time.

ibeck · 08-15-2011, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

this picture should now, and forever, be used on this guys threads.

I second this.

2ndgenz28 · 08-15-2011, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by BackinBlackSS/RS

Well, he has to. They've figured him out in that amount of time.

Or the only thing he uses his mouth for is delivering cheesy lines

Gotta dine at the Y like old folks at Dennys, ya stay for hours and leave a good tip.

rachykells · 08-15-2011, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Tessa

to most of this thread.

To the OP, just ask the girl. Have the courage to do it. If she says no, oh well. There is nothing wrong with asking though. Just be honest and be yourself.

This. Just be confident!

I'd rather a guy just come up and be straightforward, not give me some cheesy line he used on all the other girls he's been seeing lately.

Ivas · 08-15-2011, 06:43 PM

I actually did it. I'll tell ya' how it went, you be the judge whether it was a success or failure.

It was the first year of my independence (precocious I was) I was 16, I lived rough for that first year, moving several times a month. The guy I shared troubles, his name was Steve, with (not even a roommate) was 17. We wagered each other that whoever succeeded with a new girl would pay for the next day's beer and cigarets for the two of us.

The wager's rule was simple. You could say only one sentence: "Do you wanna' ****?" Since we were at the Saturday Afternoon Free Concert at Berkeley's Provo Park, and it was 1972, there were plenty of chicks. I saw Steve fail a couple of times; I, myself, was slapped in the face, once. The second girl, by the name of Coco, was a foxy older woman, 19 or 20 years old! She took me to her car (I made sure my friend saw her), and off we went to her crib in San Lorenzo. It was very cool. During a recovery moment, I heard a motorcycle in her driveway. I asked her, "Who?" She replied it was her live-in boyfriend who was an Angel.

Ooh, time to get my skinny ass outa' bed and down the road. I pulled on my pants,and socks and held my boots as I jumped out the bedroom window. The boyfriend's dog started after me, I lost him as I crossed the backyard fence, but he kept one of my boots, and off I went down a street I'd never seen, in a town I didn't know.

There remained a saving grace though. The driver of the first ride I hitched liked my dilemma so much, I could tell by his uproaring laughter, he gave me a ride all the way back to Provo Park.

aet08 · 08-15-2011, 07:24 PM

why the focus on getting the number? why not just talk to them and get to know the girl right there and then?

Iwantone2 · 08-15-2011, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Tessa

While I do not disagree with this point -- eventually, the girl gets bored if all you are is teasing and games.
At least I do -- sure, part of the fun is the joking around and flirting phase, but eventually, you have to man up and ask her out. or she'll get bored and think you aren't interested -- ESPECIALLY if she's flirting with you and you play it too cool. She might think you aren't interested and give up.

Ah, Tessa...the voice of reason

In no way am I advocating teasing or manipulating someone's feelings. I was just simply stating that if you are too forward on the initial approach, there is an opportunity for rejection.

(My advice comes from my personal and friends' experiences)

Of course, the only way to learn something is to try it and you learn to see what works and what doesn't work. The worst that can happen is you hear "No".

Steven345 · 08-15-2011, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by aet08

why the focus on getting the number? why not just talk to them and get to know the girl right there and then?

If only he had a camaro like yours to impress the girls..... Perhaps you will lend it to jr. for a weekend?

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08-15-2011, 06:43 PM	#53
Ivas el Ruco Drives: 2010 Camaro SS (now runnin' TENS ) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Fontana, CA Posts: 7,388	I actually did it. I'll tell ya' how it went, you be the judge whether it was a success or failure. It was the first year of my independence (precocious I was) I was 16, I lived rough for that first year, moving several times a month. The guy I shared troubles, his name was Steve, with (not even a roommate) was 17. We wagered each other that whoever succeeded with a new girl would pay for the next day's beer and cigarets for the two of us. The wager's rule was simple. You could say only one sentence: "Do you wanna' ****?" Since we were at the Saturday Afternoon Free Concert at Berkeley's Provo Park, and it was 1972, there were plenty of chicks. I saw Steve fail a couple of times; I, myself, was slapped in the face, once. The second girl, by the name of Coco, was a foxy older woman, 19 or 20 years old! She took me to her car (I made sure my friend saw her), and off we went to her crib in San Lorenzo. It was very cool. During a recovery moment, I heard a motorcycle in her driveway. I asked her, "Who?" She replied it was her live-in boyfriend who was an Angel. Ooh, time to get my skinny ass outa' bed and down the road. I pulled on my pants,and socks and held my boots as I jumped out the bedroom window. The boyfriend's dog started after me, I lost him as I crossed the backyard fence, but he kept one of my boots, and off I went down a street I'd never seen, in a town I didn't know. There remained a saving grace though. The driver of the first ride I hitched liked my dilemma so much, I could tell by his uproaring laughter, he gave me a ride all the way back to Provo Park.

08-15-2011, 07:24 PM	#54
aet08 Drives: c Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: c Posts: 627	why the focus on getting the number? why not just talk to them and get to know the girl right there and then?