What's up with women?

[PQ]

At some point though, you dont want to play the stupid games either. If you let her play head games now, then she will continue. She should give you a better line of communication.

May be fine to 'Lay it on the line' but you've been the openly ready and willing one.

[mickss]

Originally Posted by derklug

The #1 thing that I have noted about women I have dated or married, is that they have poor taste in men.

You must have met my sister, I love her to death but why and where she use to finds these losers is beyond me. Thankfully she finally met a decent guy.

Originally Posted by v6sonoma

Who needs a woman when you have a camaro. Just ask Scooch!

Well he refers to the Camaro as she, her, baby, ect. I think he`s just confused.

[SScattergunSS]

Originally Posted by PQ

At some point though, you dont want to play the stupid games either. If you let her play head games now, then she will continue. She should give you a better line of communication.

May be fine to 'Lay it on the line' but you've been the openly ready and willing one.

I must say, I do agree with PQ completely on this.

[Z28RockStar]

AHHHH I C! Sorry for earlier post lol, I didn't realize it was a pseudo relationship . . . WOMEN ARE PLAYERS TOO. . . don't let them lie to you, they got more "game" than we ever thought of, putting you in a holding pattern and trying to keep you in the wings is definitely asking to be blown off from my point of view. I don't do games. (other than wow, . . shhh its a dirty secret don't tell anyone) I also refuse to be tried on, hung up on the dressing room wall while she tries on all my friends / other guys at the club as well lol. (from when I was dating of course)(long ago)(lol) Just be straight and direct with her IMHO and disregard my prior possibly insensitive post.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[Banshee]

Originally Posted by PQ

At some point though, you dont want to play the stupid games either. If you let her play head games now, then she will continue. She should give you a better line of communication.

May be fine to 'Lay it on the line' but you've been the openly ready and willing one.

Originally Posted by SScattergunSS

I must say, I do agree with PQ completely on this.

Done...I will approach her next time I see her and see what she says... Will be in person..no calling, no text BS.

My issue was with her making the first move...and throwing me off balance. I know how to handle what I do, just not the flipside.

[YodaOnCrack]

Here's what women are really thinking. Watch til the end.

[baumy2eagle]

LMAO

[SSMOKINHOT]

Originally Posted by Banshee

The other half of me takes this position...I just didn't want to come across as pushy because she made the first move and since then? She does call, she does text...we do talk.

I believe it's time to get some clarification.

Man, I need a drink!

Bottom's up!!!

[springerpete]

Disclaimer: Ladies don't read too much into this untill you read my whole post.

Treat her like a stray dog. Feed her when she comes over. Pet her when she's there, but don't go out looking for her and don't expect too much. If she like what's going on then she'll stay but if she don't she will leave. It was good advice that I got from an old wise man. That's also how I met my wife of the last 18 yrs.

Ladies, this same advice goes for you.

[Banshee]

We had loose plans to get dinner after she got off work Tuesday...she calls, we BS for 5 minutes, she stated will call back after quick pit stop..she didn't. Day and a half passes and she texts me at 5am today...

I find it humouous discussing this...It gets frustrating thinking about this crap and not debating and discussing.

What's the concensus? Wait the same amount of time to respond, play it off as in I was busy (which I was) or take a stand, state the obvious to her.

After this, I am going to write a book.

[Bonnie]

Originally Posted by SScattergunSS

I must say, I do agree with PQ completely on this.

When two people are compatable they just are! You shouldn't have to try too hard to get along with some one it should just come natural. I guess thats why me and Randy got and get along so well we were just honest and up front with each other and I think we liked arguing (debating) with each other! He eventually saw things my way! hahahaha J/k

[OrangeSS]

Playing her game (which it sounds to be), isn't the way to go.. I would just confront her about it directly. I would ask why it took her so long to get back to you. Prodding questions will eventually get you an answer, whether or not you like the answer will remain to be seen..

[Mr Twisty]

Lemme tell ya son... women are like fish.

Originally Posted by Bonnie

When two people are compatable they just are! You shouldn't have to try too hard to get along with some one it should just come natural. I guess thats why me and Randy got and get along so well we were just honest and up front with each other and I think we liked arguing (debating) with each other! He eventually saw things my way! hahahaha J/k

Bonnie hit the nail on the head, compatability is the key. If you don't like what she's doing, I would recommend going fishing.

[SScattergunSS]

Banshee, just lay it out there for her, there is no need to play games. Be honest with her and let her know your thoughts, feelings, and questions, then listen to what she has to say. If she can't be straight up with you at that point about her own thoughts and feelings, then it might be best to walk away before you get caught up in too much drama. She very well may have other "things" going on, and doesn't want to focus solely on you like you need. Maybe she'll come around, but only you know if she's worth it for you to invest all that extra time and energy in to pursuing her that you may need to.

Now, you also have me laughing, because everything really does happen for a reason. Maybe you really are supposed to write that book, and needed to experience everything with her that you're going through now? The best lessons a person learns in life are those gained through adversity! Good Luck, My Friend