hey you guys i need help with girl problem plz plz plz

[2000v6]

Originally Posted by UCI CamaroFan

if they don't exist and she's lying, then he's wasting his time either way.

True, very true. I wouldn't want to get involved with a girl like that, she'll just keep making excuses and lie

[2000v6]

Originally Posted by thejoker1232

i've seen the kids for real she has 1 boy and 1 girl i met them

Then don't get involved, that's the straight up answer, no bulls*it

[Xmicro_SS]

THINK WITH YOUR BIG HEAD!!! IGNORE THE LITTLE HEAD!!!


RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!

[OuSoonersGirl]

Originally Posted by 2000v6

Also, if she's 25, has kids and no man around...guess what? SLUT

[thejoker1232]

thanks for the advice there seems to be alot of people saying the same thing, and my gut tells me not to go against a crap load of people thanks you guys you really helped clear things up for me now i don't feel so nervous

i don't know i thought i could handle it but when i think about i will def not get camaro and def not get my own house i will be tied down to gf and kids money i make go to kid i can see it all now dude like i said i can't i think i will just remain single for a while

[a_Username]

Contrary to the popular beliefs in this thread lol, you need to sit down and really ask yourself if you like her. She went home with a friend of yours, as well as having two kids. If you still like her despite all that, then go for it.

[2000v6]

Originally Posted by OuSoonersGirl

Hey, it's semi true, I know a lot of people who were conceived out of wedlock and parents got married after finding out that a kid was on the way, and have managed to enjoy approx. 20 years give or take together.

[BlackSS831]

Stay friends with her, take her to the bars and have her be your wing woman... lol

[Camaro_Corvette]

Originally Posted by thejoker1232

thanks for the advice there seems to be alot of people saying the same thing, and my gut tells me not to go against a crap load of people thanks you guys you really helped clear things up for me now i don't feel so nervous

i don't know i thought i could handle it but when i think about i will def not get camaro and def not get my own house i will be tied down to gf and kids money i make go to kid i can see it all now dude like i said i can't i think i will just remain single for a while

Wait,

[thejoker1232]

idk i don't really know her all that well too base my decision on just one night is very stupid but then again she might be the person i've been looking for but has just had a troubled past i don't know like people said here there is a very high chance of getting hurt and this is a very risky situation and the more it goes on the greater it will hurt in the end so in a way i do want to go with her despite her flaws but in a way i don't want to be more messed up in the head than i already am i already had my dad leave me my grandma get near death sick, my aunt die, my mom's best friend die, my best friends move away and a whole bunch of other stuff that happened as well i don't want another notch to that belt.

[2000v6]

Originally Posted by thejoker1232

thanks for the advice there seems to be alot of people saying the same thing, and my gut tells me not to go against a crap load of people thanks you guys you really helped clear things up for me now i don't feel so nervous

i don't know i thought i could handle it but when i think about i will def not get camaro and def not get my own house i will be tied down to gf and kids money i make go to kid i can see it all now dude like i said i can't i think i will just remain single for a while

Are you a geek or something that simply can't score with the ladies? They really aren't that hard to find, and a lot of girls like the normal guys who aren't d*cks, they just need to realize it

Look girls are out there. Go find one. Don't sit behind the computer, go talk to them. I can spend a lot of time with work, school, interests, friends, etc. because having a few gfs I really don't need to get involved with more and I keep myself busy with the few girls that I do have by spending time with them

[OuSoonersGirl]

Originally Posted by 2000v6

Hey, it's semi true, I know a lot of people who were conceived out of wedlock and parents got married after finding out that a kid was on the way, and have managed to enjoy approx. 20 years give or take together.

But not all and that doesn't make them a slut. I know some damn good girls that just happen to make dumbass decisions with the men they end up with. That didnt make them a slut though.

Just sayin....not all.

[2000v6]

Originally Posted by thejoker1232

idk i don't really know her all that well too base my decision on just one night is very stupid but then again she might be the person i've been looking for but has just had a troubled past i don't know like people said here there is a very high chance of getting hurt and this is a very risky situation and the more it goes on the greater it will hurt in the end so in a way i do want to go with her despite her flaws but in a way i don't want to be more messed up in the head than i already am i already had my dad leave me my grandma get near death sick, my aunt die, my mom's best friend die, my best friends move away and a whole bunch of other stuff that happened as well i don't want another notch to that belt.

If that's true then I'm sorry, but honestly read what I said and believe that you can score with a perfectly normal girl without the extra baggage. Who knows the girl that you find may actually be supermodel quality if you're willing to listen to us.

[2000v6]

Originally Posted by OuSoonersGirl

But not all and that doesn't make them a slut. I know some damn good girls that just happen to make dumbass decisions with the men they end up with. That didnt make them a slut though.

Just sayin....not all.

No of course not. There are girls that make stupid decisions, but does that really mean that their bf's can't be their kids' father. Honestly, if I found out that a gf of mine was pregnant and I was 100% sure that I was the father, then I would settle down with the girl and provide a family, neither for me nor the girl but for the child