I Hate My girlfriend - Page 3

BigTrap1967 · 12-17-2008, 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by The_Blur

I used to have similar problems with my girl. The truth is that nothing is the same when applied to men and women. The outputs are wildly different. You have to be able to maintain some semblance of your identity when you are with her. She should be able to respect that you are a man just as you should respect that she is a woman. Her interests will be fundamentally different than yours, but you should still pursue them to show that you care about the things that interest her. If she cares, she might learn a token thing or two about cars, sports, or something else that makes men operate.

This is not a sexist perspective. Women and men both have the capacity to do anything. It is a matter of social influence, biological components, and the way that she was raised that makes her so different from her. Remember that she gives you something that you couldn't get on your own. You might find someone else, but finding the right woman is important to helping a lot of men develop into the men that they want to be. Women are the same way. They find the men that make them happy about themselves. In order to get to that end, we go through a lot of different routes taking advice from some really bad advisors. I remember getting advice on women from a player in college. It was terrible advice, and following it would have made me sleazy.

The moral of the story is that something happened before you two were dating that made you date. You need to relive those experiences, and so many couples forget how they came to be. Whatever you did that made her love you, you need to do again. Take her out to the place where you first went out for a nice meal and remind her how much you love her. Tell her to get whatever she wants on the menu. Buy her a chocolate desert with raspberry sauce. Go home and watch one of her movies. If this type of routine isn't a sacrifice you are willing to endure for a couple days out of the month, then you might not be suitable for any woman. If you can handle something like this that would make any woman feel special, then she'll have every reason to appreciate you. Her failure to appreciate you being a good man is plenty of reason to leave, but you'll have no excuse if you don't try to make your relationship special before you leave.

I think I found doctor phil

.Thanks for your in put man.

headpunter · 12-17-2008, 12:37 AM

does she have a nice dumper? if not just dump her.......

CaptianSam · 12-17-2008, 01:18 AM

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Originally Posted by z28camaross

my girlfriend hates when i talk about the camaro all the time... so just talk to your friends about it.. my girlfriend loves the 350z and the 370z so if i talked about that she'd be fine. she said if i got the new 370z she would have sex in with with me every day

are we going out with the same girl... mine is THE EXACT SAME and says the EXACT SAME THINGS...if its about cars i dont care blah blah

headpunter · 12-17-2008, 01:20 AM

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Originally Posted by CaptianSam

are we going out with the same girl... mine is THE EXACT SAME and says the EXACT SAME THINGS...if its about cars i dont care blah blah

dump her....sex isnt worth a 370z....

CaptianSam · 12-17-2008, 01:33 AM

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Originally Posted by BigTrap1967

No I just think it is typical for a woman to have every thing and not appreciate it.maybe we should get a women who works hard an is independent.I can't even tell my girl that the food need more salt on it without her thinking i am trying to belittle her.

she is insecure, you need to show more affection and aggressiveness sexually, that really helps... my fiance and i have gone through tough times (ie my family HATES her) and that helps.. also tell her how special she is without overdoing it all the time... go do FUNNY stuff like comedy conventions to just lighten it up a bit or go karting or play golf or go camping...

BUT dont be such a type A personality... i am... most men are... and type A's always do better with a type b... now if your girl is a type a... like mine... just make it a relaing atmosphere without saying relax... when you want to say something show it with actions...

i love you- kiss her
relax- rub her neck and shoulders
you can say alot by interrupting her thoughts with physical moments...

im good at this relationship stuff and it gets tricky but you have to get this hate idea out of your head...

my mom and sister are both kinda nuts and continue to "go after" my fiance saying i would never have done this or that if she wasnt here ruining ou family... they are both crazy... but i ended up running away with her for 4 years and i was broke and dropped out of school... and it was the right decision i realized i had something more than money, or cars, or anything... i had someone that i loved more than myself i found somebody that is even stronger than i am and smarter and she is gorgoeus... ( she models for trojan now) and it was so painful and so hard in my situation... ...
anyways... she hates to hear about cars now
i hate to hear about clothes and shopping , but i still listen, because she is the biggest part of me. and i dont care if she talks about shoes for 450 hours, i would still be interested, watching those amazing lips move when she talks...

nester7929 · 12-17-2008, 02:03 AM

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Originally Posted by z28camaross

my girlfriend hates when i talk about the camaro all the time... so just talk to your friends about it.. my girlfriend loves the 350z and the 370z so if i talked about that she'd be fine. she said if i got the new 370z she would have sex in with with me every day

I think you'd have a very difficult time doing that in the 370z.

OUR72GTO · 12-17-2008, 04:12 AM

You have the right car ...and the wrong girl !

*Milk 1027* · 12-17-2008, 04:28 AM

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Originally Posted by headpunter

does she have a nice dumper? if not just dump her.......

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Originally Posted by headpunter

dump her....sex isnt worth a 370z....

dayvedayve · 12-17-2008, 05:18 AM

Tell her that if she wants a Z then she better work for it cause your money is goin on a Camaro. Keep ya pimp hand strong!

playhard67 · 12-17-2008, 06:35 AM

Don't talk about the Camaro to her. She see's the car as her competition for your affection. When you get the urge to talk camaro come here....but, do it without her knowing about it.

CamaroScotty · 12-17-2008, 06:36 AM

I know a few guys that traded their girlfriends for Black labs......Is that an option???

playhard67 · 12-17-2008, 06:43 AM

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Originally Posted by FenwickHockey65

At least my cars still love me.

and vice versa check this out

playhard67 · 12-17-2008, 06:57 AM

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Originally Posted by CaptianSam

and she is gorgoeus... ( she models for trojan now)

umm...this "POST" is.....

CaptianSam · 12-17-2008, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by playhard67

umm...this "POST" is.....

the blonde... im not showing you guys any scandalous pictures

12-17-2008, 12:37 AM	#30
headpunter Not That sad..considering Drives: Man Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: the part of washington the capital forgot about. Posts: 3,745 View My Garage	does she have a nice dumper? if not just dump her....... __________________ Stop Whinging

12-17-2008, 06:35 AM	#38
playhard67 come to poppa Drives: 67RS,09 Harley FLHX Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Maryland Posts: 1,098	Don't talk about the Camaro to her. She see's the car as her competition for your affection. When you get the urge to talk camaro come here....but, do it without her knowing about it. __________________ Cancelled the 2010 SS/RS (for now) and bought this instead (2009 Harley FLHX)

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