How to tell someone u dont want them around - Page 2

Steve Dallas · 04-13-2012, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Sanddemon

If you have call forwarding, forward her number to dial a prayer, time and temperature or something else. Real harassing, then the cops need to get involved.

I did something like that once to someone. Why is irrelevant.

The person had a pager.

Back in the day, people used modems. I had a program called Procomm Plus that you used to connect to other modems and it would emulate various terminals. The cool thing was you could program it to do stuff.

I set it up to dial the pager number every minute, and put in a random number. This went on for about a week before he was forced to change the number.

Wantconvertible · 04-13-2012, 09:28 PM

you just told her ,she's reading this thread :(

Juiced1 · 04-13-2012, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by angie7

So I have this "friend" who is a nice enough person but we've had a rocky friendship to say the least bc shes bipolar and unmedicated. Well I show my car at shows and last week she decided to come and see me while I was at one. Ok no biggie. Well now shes is bugging the crap outta me about when the next one is and how shes gonna bring a chair and hang out. I dont want her around. Shes f'ing crazy and very annoying. How do I tell her I dont want her there?

I post on my fb wall about car shows that Im at so all my other car buddies show up so I cant hide my shows.

WWYD?

Gotta love the old self invite. Good luck.

Mr_Draco · 04-13-2012, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by angie7

Lol good answers!! How do I block my posts from her? Ive defriended her b4 & then she harasses my elderly parents until I befriend her again. Crazy I tell you!

On FB, go into your Privacy Settings. In the middle of the page you'll see where it says Control Your Default Privacy and underneath it you'll see Public, Friends, and Custom. Click Custom. You'll get a little pop up and near the bottom it says Hide This From. Just type in her name.

angie7 · 04-13-2012, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Juiced1

Gotta love the old self invite. Good luck.

I know right? She invited me to lunch one time and the day we were suppose to go she asked if I would pay for her? Uh no Im a single mom of 2, I dont have money for you!

angie7 · 04-13-2012, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr_Draco

On FB, go into your Privacy Settings. In the middle of the page you'll see where it says Control Your Default Privacy and underneath it you'll see Public, Friends, and Custom. Click Custom. You'll get a little pop up and near the bottom it says Hide This From. Just type in her name.

Thx! She posted directly to my wall just a bit ago asking about the next show...guess Ill just have to be a B.

Rangore · 04-13-2012, 10:32 PM

Just tell her the friendship isn't mutually beneficial. I don't think we should be friends any longer.

I've had to do this once before. I was just straight up and made a clean break. Now I don't have to deal with her anymore.

ckaram · 04-13-2012, 10:44 PM

If you knew her when she was on her meds and things were cool, tell her you can only hang if she stays on her meds. Otherwise, adios.

Either way you won't have to deal with crazy.

Oddball · 04-13-2012, 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by angie7

So I have this "friend" who is a nice enough person but we've had a rocky friendship to say the least bc shes bipolar and unmedicated. Well I show my car at shows and last week she decided to come and see me while I was at one. Ok no biggie. Well now shes is bugging the crap outta me about when the next one is and how shes gonna bring a chair and hang out. I dont want her around. Shes f'ing crazy and very annoying. How do I tell her I dont want her there?

I post on my fb wall about car shows that Im at so all my other car buddies show up so I cant hide my shows.

WWYD?

If you're sure she's Bi-polar, be honest. Tell her how you feel. The last thing you want to do is lead her on. Just make sure, when you tell her, you're in a position where you can physically get away from her QUICKLY.

angie7 · 04-13-2012, 11:33 PM

No shes seriously bipolar and OCD disorder. She thinks shes fine but you nvr know how she is going to react.

OffseT · 04-13-2012, 11:39 PM

doesn't sound like a friend to me :(

Oddball · 04-14-2012, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by angie7

No shes seriously bipolar and OCD disorder. She thinks shes fine but you nvr know how she is going to react.

She needs profesional help. How to get her that help is the $64,000 question. It took a woman I know two D.W.I's in one night, and time in the county jail to get refered to the state mental health dept.

Maxspeed · 04-14-2012, 08:10 AM

Do you carry a concealed weapon?

Ladybugsmom · 04-14-2012, 09:41 AM

Next time she invites herself, tell her your kids or your BF are going to be with you and that you're spending the day with THEM. If she can't catch that clue, go ahead and be rude.

04-13-2012, 10:32 PM	#21
Rangore Drives: 2012 Camaro 2SS 45th Anniversary Ed Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Minnesota Posts: 2,220	Just tell her the friendship isn't mutually beneficial. I don't think we should be friends any longer. I've had to do this once before. I was just straight up and made a clean break. Now I don't have to deal with her anymore. __________________ 2012 Camaro 2SS 45th Anniversary Edition - No longer owned: 2010 Camaro 2LT, 1993 Camaro Z-28

04-13-2012, 10:44 PM	#22
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04-13-2012, 11:33 PM	#24
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OffseT Maroboy2001 AKA Offset Drives: Boosted Trans Am Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Las Cruces, NM Posts: 1,149	doesn't sound like a friend to me :( __________________

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04-13-2012, 09:28 PM	#16
Wantconvertible Drives: 2011 SS/RS VERT Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: PHILA PA Posts: 1,615	you just told her ,she's reading this thread :(

04-14-2012, 09:41 AM	#28
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