Anyone here have a Wife or GF that use to be your BF girl/wife first [had his kids] - Page 2

brandotron · 12-27-2010, 01:40 PM

Sounds shitty to me. You will lose your friend, and he'd owe you a punch in the face. Man rules. Case closed.

NoUCantDriveIt · 12-27-2010, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by spyderbuddy

U still look great, and have some very pretty eyes.

And thanks

Awww... thanks sweetie.

spyderbuddy · 12-27-2010, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by 2ndgenz28

For this one, I have never known her beyond friends but that makes it better I say as I fell for her, for who she is over the years, and as usual I had done my best to ignore her as a woman, how friends are suppose to do it with their friends girls/wives. [Unless they let them post half naked pics on a car forum

] Why 6-8 years back I stopped going over there or returning calls for no reason, someone was gonna see how I looked at her.
And it was the right thing to do if I could not hide it.

They had a real rocky things going for many years, he spent 24/7 bitchin about how he didn't want her, never wanted to get married, made it clear that their arrangement was they could do what ever with who ever when out [though she didn't know this], long as they came home it was ok.
Asking me to help him get ride of her when he was at his witts end.

While I bite my tongue with a "ill take her off your hands” inside.
Which he probably would of went for as his big concern was losing his house and stuff. [He did buy it himself from his Dad, was his families land for a few gens, I could see that side of it.]

So cause of all that I had to stop going around there, though I have thought about her almost daily ever since. Some reason I just happen across their daughters twitter page, she is now going to college and grown. [last I was around, she was maybe 12] From the comments and pics her Mom is single now. I had no clue or ever heard anything. Only pic she has of her Mom on FB is from 06 and she changed allot, no more tiny girl, The kids and her 30s had come home to roost. But soon as I see those eyes none of that matters. Weight can be changed, but everyone knowing your woman use to be a stripper can’t be exercised off

hehehe I know that isn’t 100% right though this is also different, being how I fell for her over time for who she is as a person, not someone I was just getting naked with and fell that way.
Which I feel is different.

So the statute of limitation on going after her should have run out by now?
[Being I haven’t seen either in many years...]

Personaly, I would find me someone that wants me. Otherwise you're in to deep, and when she dosen't want you, it could really hurt.

Steve Dallas · 12-27-2010, 02:06 PM

OK, the following question begs to be asked...

Are we turning Camaro5 into Sally Jesse Raphael or the Maury Povitch show? I mean...c'mon.

I mean, off topic is fine, but I frankly want to see these discussions limited to whether Ssooch is having PQ's love child or something. And some hair pulling between the fine ladies of Camaro5.

CJ Man · 12-27-2010, 02:09 PM

See man laws in off topic thread!

The again can't fight your heart!

Bonnie · 12-27-2010, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Dallas

OK, the following question begs to be asked...

Are we turning Camaro5 into Sally Jesse Raphael or the Maury Povitch show? I mean...c'mon.

I mean, off topic is fine, but I frankly want to see these discussions limited to whether Ssooch is having PQ's love child or something. And some hair pulling between the fine ladies of Camaro5.

I like the Ssooch and PQ's love child idea better!

NoUCantDriveIt · 12-27-2010, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Bonnie

I like the Ssooch and PQ's love child idea better!

I have to say Bonnie... that idea scares me more than a little bit.

midnighter · 12-27-2010, 02:28 PM

It gets complicated, been there done that. No good.

Baldman · 12-27-2010, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Dallas

OK, the following question begs to be asked...

Are we turning Camaro5 into Sally Jesse Raphael or the Maury Povitch show? I mean...c'mon.

I mean, off topic is fine, but I frankly want to see these discussions limited to whether Ssooch is having PQ's love child or something. And some hair pulling between the fine ladies of Camaro5.

More like Jerry Springer.

spyderbuddy · 12-27-2010, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Dallas

OK, the following question begs to be asked...

Are we turning Camaro5 into Sally Jesse Raphael or the Maury Povitch show? I mean...c'mon.

I mean, off topic is fine, but I frankly want to see these discussions limited to whether Ssooch is having PQ's love child or something. And some hair pulling between the fine ladies of Camaro5.

How's about Jerry Springer. He always has some of this and that going on.
"My Boyfriend is now my Girlfriend"
"My Momma is sleeping with My babies Daddy"

Let's have some real fun.

Cristoff · 12-27-2010, 02:43 PM

It won't end well. You will lose your friend immediately and you will lose her eventually because of the tense situation.

The ONLY one that will really lose in this is YOU. Walk away.

the Kolektor · 12-27-2010, 03:32 PM

Garth Brooks has a song called Unanswered Prayers, maybe it applies to this, maybe not. Either way, good luck. I think this situation can only be answered by you and nobody else on here. Its easy to look in on a situation and tell you what you should and should not do, but only you truly know how you feel and what you are capable of handling, emotionally speaking. In the end, it will be your decision. What are you willing to do? How will you be able to handle it if it does not work out? Does she even feel the same way after all this time?? The time passed is a long time, it allows much change and personal growth on both your parts. It's definitely a tough situation to be in, but in the end, it will work out the way it's supposed to. Good luck.

Blownhotrodder · 12-27-2010, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by midnighter

It gets complicated, been there done that. No good.

*Milk 1027* · 12-27-2010, 05:41 PM

You need some serious help with your "love life"

12-27-2010, 01:40 PM	#15
brandotron I am the internets. Drives: dangerously Join Date: May 2009 Location: Redondo Beach, CA Posts: 12,571 View My Garage	Sounds shitty to me. You will lose your friend, and he'd owe you a punch in the face. Man rules. Case closed. __________________

12-27-2010, 02:06 PM	#18
Steve Dallas Commits weekly crime Drives: 2017 Camaro 1LT Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Camano Island, WA Posts: 9,513 View My Garage	OK, the following question begs to be asked... Are we turning Camaro5 into Sally Jesse Raphael or the Maury Povitch show? I mean...c'mon. I mean, off topic is fine, but I frankly want to see these discussions limited to whether Ssooch is having PQ's love child or something. And some hair pulling between the fine ladies of Camaro5. __________________ 2017 Camaro 1LT - Blue Barchetta IV I fire up the willing engine, responding with a roar. Tires spitting gravel I commit my weekly crime.

12-27-2010, 03:32 PM	#26
the Kolektor Patiently waiting.... Drives: 2007 Jeep Wrangler Sahara Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Louisville, Ky Posts: 625	Garth Brooks has a song called Unanswered Prayers, maybe it applies to this, maybe not. Either way, good luck. I think this situation can only be answered by you and nobody else on here. Its easy to look in on a situation and tell you what you should and should not do, but only you truly know how you feel and what you are capable of handling, emotionally speaking. In the end, it will be your decision. What are you willing to do? How will you be able to handle it if it does not work out? Does she even feel the same way after all this time?? The time passed is a long time, it allows much change and personal growth on both your parts. It's definitely a tough situation to be in, but in the end, it will work out the way it's supposed to. Good luck. __________________ You Know......Sometimes you just can't fix stupid!!!!

12-27-2010, 05:41 PM	#28
Milk 1027 Camaro➎ moderator Drives: '13 BLK 1LE Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: AZ Posts: 13,567 View My Garage	You need some serious help with your "love life" __________________

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