I can't believe what i heard tonight...

Vengeance Graphix · 08-28-2012, 01:55 AM

So after my last post about me breaking up with my gf the other day i need to vent majorly this time because im in such loss for words right now its not even funny.

She calls me up an hour ago and talks to me about how she doesnt understand why i don't want to be in a relationship with her anymore. My reason for leaving was because i have way to many things in my life going on and i just dont feel it was right for me to not be there or not have her see me. we were only dating for a month, Well about 2 weeks back i said i would help her with her history paper she needed to write for summer class and after we got that done we spent the day together, well right before we got off the phone she tells me..(So now lets go back the phone call)... before the convo ends she says...fine if this is what you want this is it no more... and since youve been on honest with me this entire time ill be honest with you... that paper you helped me write.. yeah i deleted it once you left and i had sex with my ex and he made it better, and last monday when i told you i was at my friends well i wasnt i was out having sex with him again to help with my other school thing.. so goodbye... and then hung up

YET... she told me, "im not sure if we can be friends because after this... im not sure i can trust you"....

I am SO FLIPPING MAD RIGHT NOW!........ im like shaking and feel sick

I cant believe this

Johnthegreat · 08-28-2012, 02:06 AM

She's saying that to get under ur skin. See she felt the same way u feel now,but when she told u that ,she transfers how she felt on to u. It's the transfer of energy principle. Or she just did it to get back at u. Anyway if u don't like her who cares .

Vengeance Graphix · 08-28-2012, 02:09 AM

well im thru with her im so over that BS. time for me to find me someone else

AdamZ · 08-28-2012, 02:19 AM

So...she thought she was getting back at you by admitting she was a complete slut...

hmmm... SHE TOLD YOU!

Vengeance Graphix · 08-28-2012, 02:21 AM

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Originally Posted by AdamZ

So...she thought she was getting back at you by admitting she was a complete slut...

hmmm... SHE TOLD YOU!

yeah makes sense right ... lol

Why me

oyealiz · 08-28-2012, 02:26 AM

NEXT!

Vengeance Graphix · 08-28-2012, 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by oyealiz

NEXT!

+1, amen to that

Where can i find me a nice girl who likes camaros.. anyone have ideas lol

Dtrimpi87 · 08-28-2012, 03:20 AM

That's alright brother, whether she's telling the truth or not, she's not worth your time. Last November I found out that my girl of almost 3 years was sleeping with my best friend of 10 years. She used my laptop one night and when she went to bed I went to go use it and she forgot to log off her Facebook conversation with him. Right there plain as day was a whole conversation revealing what they were up to and how they planned on getting together when he got home from deployment but didn't want to break things off with me till he got back so shed have a place to stay. Talk about betrayal. They both denied anything was going on even though I read the whole thing. Don't dwell on it bro. There's plenty of fish in the sea.

Vengeance Graphix · 08-28-2012, 03:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Dtrimpi87

That's alright brother, whether she's telling the truth or not, she's not worth your time. Last November I found out that my girl of almost 3 years was sleeping with my best friend of 10 years. She used my laptop one night and when she went to bed I went to go use it and she forgot to log off her Facebook conversation with him. Right there plain as day was a whole conversation revealing what they were up to and how they planned on getting together when he got home from deployment but didn't want to break things off with me till he got back so shed have a place to stay. Talk about betrayal. They both denied anything was going on even though I read the whole thing. Don't dwell on it bro. There's plenty of fish in the sea.

Oh man thats so horrible :(

Thanks tho, i need all the pick me up as possible.

Its true that there's plenty of fish in the sea, it just sucks when that fish turns out to be a shark and rips you and your heart apart.

Sir Nuke · 08-28-2012, 09:05 AM

MAN, if it were me, I would be GLAD she called.....you were feeling bad about leaving adn all.....now after the lights are tirned on adn she spilled her guts about her "activities" it should clear your mind to know you made the right decision and move on to begger and better things.....GOOD RIDDENS.

GoldCartridgeGamer · 08-28-2012, 09:09 AM

We've all been there at least once when a girlfriend has cheated on us. I had that happen once and set her up to catch her. The guy she was cheating with helped me catch her.

kevin1106 · 08-28-2012, 09:22 AM

Be single.... Enjoy it while you can.... Hearing about you guys writing papers.... I take it you guys are young.... Just enjoy life and when the right woman comes along, you will know it.... You won't even be looking either.. If she wants to say mean and hurtful things.. Who cares... You don't want her... So dont sweat it.....

Xedes · 08-28-2012, 09:23 AM

Ok, I think her whole story of cheating was all a lie. She was just trying to hurt you back. Now that you know her maturity level and how vindictive she can be, feel good about dumping her. She sounds like a PITA.

BowtieBelle · 08-28-2012, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by xVengeancex28

before the convo ends she says...fine if this is what you want this is it no more... and since youve been on honest with me this entire time ill be honest with you... that paper you helped me write.. yeah i deleted it once you left and i had sex with my ex and he made it better, and last monday when i told you i was at my friends well i wasnt i was out having sex with him again to help with my other school thing.. so goodbye... and then hung up

YET... she told me, "im not sure if we can be friends because after this... im not sure i can trust you"....

I am SO FLIPPING MAD RIGHT NOW!........ im like shaking and feel sick

I cant believe this

K, I'm sorry, but that girl is a B!TCH. Plain and simple. You can do SO much better. Coming from a girl. Seriously. I'd slap her with my pimp hand if she was right in front of me. There's nothing "sweet" about that girl. She's trouble, and more than being a total bee-- she's also a tramp. As far as the ex story she's spouting-- whether it's true or not doesn't matter. If it's true, she's a tramp. If it isn't true, she is at the very least a total bee. So let him have her-- I'm sure your parents taught you to give your used toys to the less fortunate, anyway.

Kick her to the curb and find you a real woman. You're only a month in, so you don't love her yet, not really-- even though you might feel like you do.

Just remember lust is easy and love is hard-- but LIKE is most important. You can't like someone who treats you that way.

And if you need to talk send me a PM!

08-28-2012, 01:55 AM	#1
Vengeance Graphix Drives: 2017 Corvette Grand Sport Join Date: May 2010 Location: Central NJ Posts: 10,870	I can't believe what i heard tonight... So after my last post about me breaking up with my gf the other day i need to vent majorly this time because im in such loss for words right now its not even funny. She calls me up an hour ago and talks to me about how she doesnt understand why i don't want to be in a relationship with her anymore. My reason for leaving was because i have way to many things in my life going on and i just dont feel it was right for me to not be there or not have her see me. we were only dating for a month, Well about 2 weeks back i said i would help her with her history paper she needed to write for summer class and after we got that done we spent the day together, well right before we got off the phone she tells me..(So now lets go back the phone call)... before the convo ends she says...fine if this is what you want this is it no more... and since youve been on honest with me this entire time ill be honest with you... that paper you helped me write.. yeah i deleted it once you left and i had sex with my ex and he made it better, and last monday when i told you i was at my friends well i wasnt i was out having sex with him again to help with my other school thing.. so goodbye... and then hung up YET... she told me, "im not sure if we can be friends because after this... im not sure i can trust you".... I am SO FLIPPING MAD RIGHT NOW!........ im like shaking and feel sick I cant believe this __________________ Vengeance Graphix Last edited by Vengeance Graphix; 08-28-2012 at 03:43 AM.

08-28-2012, 02:09 AM	#3
Vengeance Graphix Drives: 2017 Corvette Grand Sport Join Date: May 2010 Location: Central NJ Posts: 10,870	well im thru with her im so over that BS. time for me to find me someone else __________________ Vengeance Graphix

08-28-2012, 09:05 AM	#10
Sir Nuke Master of All Things Drives: '26 Corvette Stingray Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Southeast of Houston, Texas Posts: 22,667 View My Garage	MAN, if it were me, I would be GLAD she called.....you were feeling bad about leaving adn all.....now after the lights are tirned on adn she spilled her guts about her "activities" it should clear your mind to know you made the right decision and move on to begger and better things.....GOOD RIDDENS. __________________

08-28-2012, 09:09 AM	#11
GoldCartridgeGamer Drives: 2014 Ford SVT Raptor SuperCrew Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Memphis, TN Posts: 7,527	We've all been there at least once when a girlfriend has cheated on us. I had that happen once and set her up to catch her. The guy she was cheating with helped me catch her. __________________ Phoenix (sold) 2014 Ford SVT Raptor SuperCrew How to hug your camaro Buy the car that you would most like to get beat in. The other guy will always be faster.

08-28-2012, 02:06 AM	#2
Johnthegreat Drives: 2012 2SS/RS black camaro Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: New York Posts: 515	She's saying that to get under ur skin. See she felt the same way u feel now,but when she told u that ,she transfers how she felt on to u. It's the transfer of energy principle. Or she just did it to get back at u. Anyway if u don't like her who cares .

08-28-2012, 02:19 AM	#4
AdamZ Account Suspended Drives: Eve - 2011 Camaro 2SS/RS Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Fairfield, OH Posts: 11,814	So...she thought she was getting back at you by admitting she was a complete slut... hmmm... SHE TOLD YOU!

08-28-2012, 02:26 AM	#6
oyealiz Drives: c7 3LT, manual, vert Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: DFW, Texas Posts: 1,204	NEXT!

08-28-2012, 03:20 AM	#8
Dtrimpi87 Banned Drives: 2010 2SS/RS A6 & 2011 1LT/RS Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 3,491	That's alright brother, whether she's telling the truth or not, she's not worth your time. Last November I found out that my girl of almost 3 years was sleeping with my best friend of 10 years. She used my laptop one night and when she went to bed I went to go use it and she forgot to log off her Facebook conversation with him. Right there plain as day was a whole conversation revealing what they were up to and how they planned on getting together when he got home from deployment but didn't want to break things off with me till he got back so shed have a place to stay. Talk about betrayal. They both denied anything was going on even though I read the whole thing. Don't dwell on it bro. There's plenty of fish in the sea.

08-28-2012, 09:22 AM	#12
kevin1106 Drives: 2015 ZO6 3LZ Stage 2 A8 Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: La plata MD Posts: 2,299 View My Garage	Be single.... Enjoy it while you can.... Hearing about you guys writing papers.... I take it you guys are young.... Just enjoy life and when the right woman comes along, you will know it.... You won't even be looking either.. If she wants to say mean and hurtful things.. Who cares... You don't want her... So dont sweat it.....

08-28-2012, 09:23 AM	#13
Xedes Drives: 2011 Black RS/SS Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Indiana Posts: 1,030	Ok, I think her whole story of cheating was all a lie. She was just trying to hurt you back. Now that you know her maturity level and how vindictive she can be, feel good about dumping her. She sounds like a PITA.