How did you/do you deal with breakups? - Page 6

The Black Knight · 11-06-2014, 08:58 PM

My advice and I know you were hoping not to hear this but it's time for you to grow a set, man up and move on. You're not the first guy in the world to get dumped and you're not going to be the last either.

I say get used to the feeling of rejection. You've got to know what it's like to lose before you can know the feeling of a win. Believe me, you're going to lose way more than you're going to win.

The sad reality is, women are just as shallow as men can be. They don't have some deep emotional reason for dumping you. Fact is, you probably weren't doing "it" for her so she started looking else where. Or she was just looking for another better version of you, and has found it.

Very rarely will a woman dump you out of the blue for no reason at all and remember, if they come off with that tired and played out line of "it's not you, it's me." Know this, it is you and it will always be you. They don't end the relationship because something is wrong with them, they end it because someone is wrong with you.

It's time to move on and really from what it sounds you're very young. Man the last thing on your mind should be some girl that dumped you because the relationship went stale. Remember, SH*T happens and it happens to us all.

As you transition from a boy into a man, you'll soon realize that there is more to life than some puppy love relationship. You'll begin to see females in a different light and be able to start separating the women from the girls, and then separate the real women from the lame women.

If you're not old enough to drink(which I don't recommend either to wash away your grief, it is nice to take the sting off), then go do something constructive with your time that involves some self growth. Realize that if you can improve upon yourself and be a better version of you, then sooner rather then later you'll realize that she was beneath you and you deserve better.

Yeah you're ass hurt, happens to us all. You lost man, doesn't mean you have to like it. You'll live and you'll move on

Jason@JacFab · 11-06-2014, 08:59 PM

I usually work more. Get a 2nd job... Maybe a third? $$$$$

racergirl · 11-06-2014, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by The Black Knight

My advice and I know you were hoping not to hear this but it's time for you to grow a set, man up and move on. You're not the first guy in the world to get dumped and you're not going to be the last either.

I say get used to the feeling of rejection. You've got to know what it's like to lose before you can know the feeling of a win. Believe me, you're going to lose way more than you're going to win.

The sad reality is, women are just as shallow as men can be. They don't have some deep emotional reason for dumping you. Fact is, you probably weren't doing "it" for her so she started looking else where. Or she was just looking for another better version of you, and has found it.

Very rarely will a woman dump you out of the blue for no reason at all and remember, if they come off with that tired and played out line of "it's not you, it's me." Know this, it is you and it will always be you. They don't end the relationship because something is wrong with them, they end it because someone is wrong with you.

It's time to move on and really from what it sounds you're very young. Man the last thing on your mind should be some girl that dumped you because the relationship went stale. Remember, SH*T happens and it happens to us all.

As you transition from a boy into a man, you'll soon realize that there is more to life than some puppy love relationship. You'll begin to see females in a different light and be able to start separating the women from the girls, and then separate the real women from the lame women.

If you're not old enough to drink(which I don't recommend either to wash away your grief, it is nice to take the sting off), then go do something constructive with your time that involves some self growth. Realize that if you can improve upon yourself and be a better version of you, then sooner rather then later you'll realize that she was beneath you and you deserve better.

Yeah you're ass hurt, happens to us all. You lost man, doesn't mean you have to like it. You'll live and you'll move on

^^^^^^^This. This was some great advice.

Blk-Ice · 11-07-2014, 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by kjkjr27

Mariah Carey, Celine Dion, lots of tissues, lotion...

!!!!!!!!!

bigblockz8 · 11-07-2014, 11:48 AM

I got a part time job that became my new full time. Worked 160-200hrs per pay period followed by a week off to recover and enjoy my new pocket change. Kayaking, flying, shooting and tons of nights at the track.

Hope it all works out!

jonnyb · 11-07-2014, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by The Black Knight

My advice and I know you were hoping not to hear this but it's time for you to grow a set, man up and move on. You're not the first guy in the world to get dumped and you're not going to be the last either.

I say get used to the feeling of rejection. You've got to know what it's like to lose before you can know the feeling of a win. Believe me, you're going to lose way more than you're going to win.

The sad reality is, women are just as shallow as men can be. They don't have some deep emotional reason for dumping you. Fact is, you probably weren't doing "it" for her so she started looking else where. Or she was just looking for another better version of you, and has found it.

Very rarely will a woman dump you out of the blue for no reason at all and remember, if they come off with that tired and played out line of "it's not you, it's me." Know this, it is you and it will always be you. They don't end the relationship because something is wrong with them, they end it because someone is wrong with you.

It's time to move on and really from what it sounds you're very young. Man the last thing on your mind should be some girl that dumped you because the relationship went stale. Remember, SH*T happens and it happens to us all.

As you transition from a boy into a man, you'll soon realize that there is more to life than some puppy love relationship. You'll begin to see females in a different light and be able to start separating the women from the girls, and then separate the real women from the lame women.

If you're not old enough to drink(which I don't recommend either to wash away your grief, it is nice to take the sting off), then go do something constructive with your time that involves some self growth. Realize that if you can improve upon yourself and be a better version of you, then sooner rather then later you'll realize that she was beneath you and you deserve better.

Yeah you're ass hurt, happens to us all. You lost man, doesn't mean you have to like it. You'll live and you'll move on

Wow ok I just took the time to read all that and I completely agree its good advice! Another thing is when you go from relationship to relationship start noticing the small red flags to look for so you can end it faster and not let it drag out. Also if you get serious with someone look closely at her mother. Even though they deny it 90% of them turn into their mother!

trashmanssd · 11-07-2014, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by jonnyb

Wow ok I just took the time to read all that and I completely agree its good advice! Another thing is when you go from relationship to relationship start noticing the small red flags to look for so you can end it faster and not let it drag out. Also if you get serious with someone look closely at her mother. Even though they deny it 90% of them turn into their mother!

jewel25 · 11-07-2014, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by jonnyb

Wow ok I just took the time to read all that and I completely agree its good advice! Another thing is when you go from relationship to relationship start noticing the small red flags to look for so you can end it faster and not let it drag out. Also if you get serious with someone look closely at her mother. Even though they deny it 90% of them turn into their mother!

OHHHH I hope not, my mother is crazy.

Bhobbs · 11-07-2014, 01:40 PM

My ex fiance cheated on me so I told her family and friends all the sh*t I found out and now no one talks to her. I was still friendly with her family and friends for a while after we broke up and they all sided with me. She was left alone because she is a horrible person and everyone was fed up with her.

Now, if I wasn't on good terms with her family/friends, I would have hooked up with her best friend/sister/mom and left to piss her off.

ZED SLED · 11-07-2014, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by jonnyb

Wow ok I just took the time to read all that and I completely agree its good advice! Another thing is when you go from relationship to relationship start noticing the small red flags to look for so you can end it faster and not let it drag out. Also if you get serious with someone look closely at her mother. Even though they deny it 90% of them turn into their mother!

My mother in law is a nympho and owns a liquor store. Pretty sure my wife is adopted.

trashmanssd · 11-07-2014, 02:33 PM

that started of so bright and cheery, yet ended so sadly.

LStick · 11-07-2014, 02:53 PM

Eventually you will become better at detecting relationship "Red Flags", to the Point they will stand out like Road Flares and Skyrockets.

AZCamaroFan · 11-07-2014, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by jonnyb

Wow ok I just took the time to read all that and I completely agree its good advice! Another thing is when you go from relationship to relationship start noticing the small red flags to look for so you can end it faster and not let it drag out. Also if you get serious with someone look closely at her mother. Even though they deny it 90% of them turn into their mother!

i'm guessing you mean looks, because kids and parents can be Very Different as far as personality.

jonnyb · 11-07-2014, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by AZCamaroFan

i'm guessing you mean looks, because kids and parents can be Very Different as far as personality.

Nope I mean looks and personlity but remeber I said 90% so that leaves some room for error.

11-06-2014, 08:58 PM	#71
The Black Knight 2013 Black LFX Drives: '13 1LS Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: Colorado Posts: 186 View My Garage	My advice and I know you were hoping not to hear this but it's time for you to grow a set, man up and move on. You're not the first guy in the world to get dumped and you're not going to be the last either. I say get used to the feeling of rejection. You've got to know what it's like to lose before you can know the feeling of a win. Believe me, you're going to lose way more than you're going to win. The sad reality is, women are just as shallow as men can be. They don't have some deep emotional reason for dumping you. Fact is, you probably weren't doing "it" for her so she started looking else where. Or she was just looking for another better version of you, and has found it. Very rarely will a woman dump you out of the blue for no reason at all and remember, if they come off with that tired and played out line of *"it's not you, it's me."* Know this, it is you and it will always be you. They don't end the relationship because something is wrong with them, they end it because someone is wrong with you. It's time to move on and really from what it sounds you're very young. Man the last thing on your mind should be some girl that dumped you because the relationship went stale. Remember, SH*T happens and it happens to us all. As you transition from a boy into a man, you'll soon realize that there is more to life than some puppy love relationship. You'll begin to see females in a different light and be able to start separating the women from the girls, and then separate the real women from the lame women. If you're not old enough to drink(which I don't recommend either to wash away your grief, it is nice to take the sting off), then go do something constructive with your time that involves some self growth. Realize that if you can improve upon yourself and be a better version of you, then sooner rather then later you'll realize that she was beneath you and you deserve better. Yeah you're ass hurt, happens to us all. You lost man, doesn't mean you have to like it. You'll live and you'll move on __________________ 2013 Camaro 2003 GSX-R1000K3 ΜOΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ Mods: Flowmaster Series 10's axle back, Black ZL1 20X9 wheels(from Factory Reproductions), K&N Typhoon cold air intake, 20% window tint(all sides & back), gun metal hash marks, black outs for Camaro and Chevy badges, Vitesse Throttle Controller

11-07-2014, 11:48 AM	#75
bigblockz8 Drives: 2012 Camaro 2LS, 05 Trailblazer LS Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: Maryland Posts: 95	I got a part time job that became my new full time. Worked 160-200hrs per pay period followed by a week off to recover and enjoy my new pocket change. Kayaking, flying, shooting and tons of nights at the track. Hope it all works out! __________________ My build thread

11-07-2014, 01:40 PM	#79
Bhobbs Drives: 2015 SS 1LE Red Hot, 1970 Chevelle Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Chino, CA Posts: 6,991	My ex fiance cheated on me so I told her family and friends all the sh*t I found out and now no one talks to her. I was still friendly with her family and friends for a while after we broke up and they all sided with me. She was left alone because she is a horrible person and everyone was fed up with her. Now, if I wasn't on good terms with her family/friends, I would have hooked up with her best friend/sister/mom and left to piss her off. __________________

11-06-2014, 08:59 PM	#72
Jason@JacFab Drives: 2016 1LT RS Camaro; 72 Chevelle Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Central Point, OR Posts: 5,685 View My Garage	I usually work more. Get a 2nd job... Maybe a third? $$$$$

11-07-2014, 02:33 PM	#81
trashmanssd Drives: Black 14 2SS/1LE/RS 14 Tundra Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Plymouth, Ma Posts: 2,414	that started of so bright and cheery, yet ended so sadly.

11-07-2014, 02:53 PM	#82
LStick Drives: 2021 Shadow Gray 1LS Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Streetsboro Ohio Posts: 1,370	Eventually you will become better at detecting relationship "Red Flags", to the Point they will stand out like Road Flares and Skyrockets.