Brief Relationship Rant and Question for the Guys...

[BowtieBelle]

Keep this up, guys. You're making me feel better. I was seriously pissed there for a hot minute.

[2010 SSRS]

Best thing for you to do is totally disconnect from him and move on, don't waste your time with this kid.

[Hot Tamales]

He's trying to be "one up" on you and save face because you dumped him, so he's making it very well known that he's "moving on" even though he says she's just a friend. Otherwise, there's no good reason for him to contact you just to tell you that. He sounds like a real douchebag, consider yourself better off.

[monstertodd]

Based on your second paragraph, simple answer is that he regrets screwing up the relationship. He knows exactly what he did to screw it up, knows there is nothing he can do about it now, and also knows that the girl he took to the concert is no where near as wonderful as you are.

I'd say the internet canoodling is indicative that while he was with you, he wasn't certain if he was happy being with you or not. He knew he liked being with you, and probably had strong feelings for you, but he wasn't entirely sure that he didn't prefer the company of someone else.

[mikeb27]

I have a similar story with an ex. Bugged me for a while after we broke up, on and off. Was getting sick of the 3am drunk texts and phone calls, so I added the family blocking plan from Verizon. It's $5 a month, and meant for parents to block numbers they don't want their kids calling. Good thing is, she can't call/text me and I can't call/text her. For $5 a month, it's great piece of mind. BTW, it's been 2 years, and she still tries to contact me via email, but I can just delete those. Good luck.

[Okie Boom]

Tell ya what, he keeps giving you grief, next time you see him give him one of these.....

Should solve any future issues!!

[SamHouseIII]

2 words, douche bag

[cab2g]

just stop picking up the phone when he calls. he'll stop eventually. It's a good idea to cut ties before he actually convinces you to give him a second chance and you waste more of your life with him.

[Harley1]

Immaturity, still wanting to mess with u and see if it effects you..and stop picking up his calls...

[BowtieBelle]

He just makes me want to pull my hair out. Last weekend when I went to Tulsa I got a text from him-- "What room are you in?" Turns out he'd been facebook stalking, knew I was at the Hilton downtown and drove to Tulsa to come see me. Of course I didn't reply to his text and I guess he turned around and drove home, then got all bitchy about it later.

[its a syn]

your a good looking girl with a good looking car,go find some one who is worthy of being seen with the two of you. He sure isn't!!

[goval]

Tell him you found someone else and he will stop. Here are the reasons he still contacts you:
-Loneliness
-He still likes you and knows he lost a good girl
-He knows you are still single and he thinks he might have a chance

If he is stalking you, then there is only one solution: Contact the police. Better be safe than sorry.

[canadian ss]

Tell him he is harrassing you and you will take legal action or tell him your 6'6 320lbs muscle head biker boyfriend will get the gang together and take turns pulling rounds out of him!!!

[Tessa]

Some people are just crazy - they have a need to be adored even if they are the biggest assholes on the planet (I married one, I am fluent in asshole ). Even after lying, stealing, cheating - he STILL thought if he played nice I'd forgive him and walk away with nothing in the divorce. Fcker has no goddamned clue who I am

This guy knows the BS you put up with, knows how to manipulate you and con you - b/c he's done it before. In his mind - you can't possibly change. He sees you still as that girl that let him beat her down and make her feel worthless. (or whatever extent that fits how it went down - some of us sink further before we fight back).

He has no idea that by packing up and leaving, you left that girl you used to be behind and he has NO shot with you anymore. Just ignore him, don't talk to him, just let him go away.