heart broken

bozbot · 02-03-2010, 10:06 PM

if you had to choose between the woman of your dreams and a camaro what would you do?

granted its not an ultimatum by the woman but rather i guess a choice of which you can afford. I know that sounds kinda wrong or wierd but having such a high car payment is straining my relationship.

we got into a huge fight tonight. needless to say i was pretty much kicked out...

Iwantone2 · 02-03-2010, 10:15 PM

In my opinion and experience, things should have been laid out before-hand. I know that I had to consider what would change and how things would work out. I had many conversations with my girlfriend before my car came in. She was very understanding about everything I was going through and what would come. The most important thing is communication! Yes a car will be there and take you places, but it is your significant other that will take care of you when you're sick and comfort you with loving arms when the world seems to be against you...

I don't know exactly what happened between you guys, and I can't ask you to write it out on this forum, but try to talk things out with her.

Good luck to you my brother!

5th_GEN_SS · 02-03-2010, 10:17 PM

girls come and go but ur camaro will never walk out on you lol

firengnred · 02-03-2010, 10:19 PM

Quote:

In my opinion and experience, things should have been laid out before-hand. I know that I had to consider what would change and how things would work out. I had many conversations with my girlfriend before my car came in. She was very understanding about everything I was going through and what would come. The most important thing is communication! Yes a car will be there and take you places, but it is your significant other that will take care of you when you're sick and comfort you with loving arms when the world seems to be against you...

I don't know exactly what happened between you guys, and I can't ask you to write it out on this forum, but try to talk things out with her.

Good luck to you my brother!

cam5 · 02-03-2010, 10:23 PM

well my girl is upset im buying rims for my car when i have "more important" things to spend money on.. but all said and done she understands my passions and understands i need my hobbies that keep the heart thumping.. so any true woman will understand its not whats smart but what makes u happy.

SSOOCH · 02-03-2010, 10:24 PM

Love is greater than any material item. Even a Camaro.

5th_GEN_SS · 02-03-2010, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by SSOOCH

Love is greater than any material item. Even a Camaro.

unless your in love with your camaro then its ok.

PAUL SS · 02-03-2010, 10:32 PM

Human vs machine, it's a no brainer. Make the right choice. Evaluate your situation, maybe right now a big car payment is not what you need hanging over you. Think about it.

will69camaro · 02-03-2010, 10:32 PM

Good woman is harder to find than a good car. If she's WORTH it then do what it takes.

BlackSunsine · 02-03-2010, 10:35 PM

Well, do you really really need the rims?

And yet, what would the money be spent on differently?

I really want stripes painted on the car, and I could afford it, but then I would be tappin savings. So I will wait and save the $$.

can you wait a few months for the rims, put a bit of $$ on the side each month.

SScattergunSS · 02-03-2010, 10:36 PM

Maybe you could fall in love with a wonderful woman who already has a Camaro?!

bozbot · 02-03-2010, 10:37 PM

haha. thanks guys i needed that.

well i got the car before her but i feel like my world is collapsing now that she is gone.

im not even sure me getting rid of the car would solve anything.

im trying to communicate with her but she isnt answering me now. tried everything from phone calls, txts, facebook ims and messages but no response. my mother says that she prob just needs time to cool off from the fight but im worried she might not respond at all

cam5 · 02-03-2010, 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackSunsine

Well, do you really really need the rims?

And yet, what would the money be spent on differently?

I really want stripes painted on the car, and I could afford it, but then I would be tappin savings. So I will wait and save the $$.

can you wait a few months for the rims, put a bit of $$ on the side each month.

i could wait but im getting an awesome deal.. im am very money savy.. finance degree and all.. ha.. after buying my brand new wheels and already sold my other ones i will spend 75 dollars on brand new wheels..

springerpete · 02-03-2010, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by 1320junkie

A wife is more important than anything in this world...girlfriends can be replaced..........

So Keep your wife, replace your girlfriends every other month and keep the camaro......

Look back on your relationship with her in a objective way and try to determine whether she is or was being selfish. Relationship take work from both parties. If you were doing all of the work then skip her.

I hate to say it buy it sounds like she was looking for an excuse to leave and used your car for the reason she needed. .

02-03-2010, 10:06 PM	#1
bozbot Boom goes the dynamite Drives: '02 civic Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Dutchess County, NY Posts: 168 View My Garage	heart broken if you had to choose between the woman of your dreams and a camaro what would you do? granted its not an ultimatum by the woman but rather i guess a choice of which you can afford. I know that sounds kinda wrong or wierd but having such a high car payment is straining my relationship. we got into a huge fight tonight. needless to say i was pretty much kicked out... __________________ Camaro - "a small, vicious animal that eats Mustangs."

02-03-2010, 10:15 PM	#2
Iwantone2 Voice Of The Voiceless Drives: CGM 1SS RS Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: OC Cali Posts: 9,610 View My Garage	In my opinion and experience, things should have been laid out before-hand. I know that I had to consider what would change and how things would work out. I had many conversations with my girlfriend before my car came in. She was very understanding about everything I was going through and what would come. The most important thing is communication! Yes a car will be there and take you places, but it is your significant other that will take care of you when you're sick and comfort you with loving arms when the world seems to be against you... I don't know exactly what happened between you guys, and I can't ask you to write it out on this forum, but try to talk things out with her. Good luck to you my brother! __________________

02-03-2010, 10:17 PM	#3
5th_GEN_SS Junkie Drives: SIM 2SS/RS M6 Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 1,695 View My Garage	girls come and go but ur camaro will never walk out on you lol __________________ "Letty" Murdered out 2013 Camaro 1LE. (Old car SIM 2010 2SS/RS)

02-03-2010, 10:24 PM	#6
SSOOCH Camaro SL,UTs Drives: 2010 Camaro SS/RS #16429 Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Jordan, UT Posts: 7,357 View My Garage	Love is greater than any material item. Even a Camaro. __________________

02-03-2010, 10:32 PM	#8
PAUL SS The Mark of Excellence Drives: 2010 ABM 1SS RS LS3 Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Smallest State in the Union Posts: 8,688 View My Garage	Human vs machine, it's a no brainer. Make the right choice. Evaluate your situation, maybe right now a big car payment is not what you need hanging over you. Think about it. __________________ BMR, CAI, DynoMax, Elite Eng., Hurst, Jannetty, Clear Image Headers & Hi Flow cats, Jet Hot, LSR, TSW, VMax, Vredestein

02-03-2010, 10:23 PM	#5
cam5 War Eagle Drives: 2010 2ss cyber gray Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Alabama Posts: 269 View My Garage	well my girl is upset im buying rims for my car when i have "more important" things to spend money on.. but all said and done she understands my passions and understands i need my hobbies that keep the heart thumping.. so any true woman will understand its not whats smart but what makes u happy.

02-03-2010, 10:32 PM	#9
will69camaro Drives: 1969 and 2010 Camaros Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Spring, TX Posts: 514	Good woman is harder to find than a good car. If she's WORTH it then do what it takes.

02-03-2010, 10:35 PM	#10
BlackSunsine Drives: 1967 Custom Camaro Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: 5280 Posts: 296 View My Garage	Well, do you really really need the rims? And yet, what would the money be spent on differently? I really want stripes painted on the car, and I could afford it, but then I would be tappin savings. So I will wait and save the $$. can you wait a few months for the rims, put a bit of $$ on the side each month. __________________ Current Cars - 1967 Chevrolet Camaro (1983) 2004 Harley Davidson Road King(2004) Ex 2001 Chevrolet Tahoe (2007) (Totaled Labor Day) 2004 Chevrolet Tahoe (Thursday) 2010 Chevrolet Camaro SS(2009) Colorado Fall - Beautiful - Cool - Snow is soon!!!

02-03-2010, 10:36 PM	#11
SScattergunSS ~ Love or Lust ~ Drives: R6P 1SS/RS BLK/L99 Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: With My CynAgain Posts: 25,198	Maybe you could fall in love with a wonderful woman who already has a Camaro?! __________________ ~ Then conquer we must, when our cause it is just, And this be our motto, "In God is our trust." And the Star Spangled Banner in triumph shall wave O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave ~ Francis Scott Key ~

02-03-2010, 10:37 PM	#12
bozbot Boom goes the dynamite Drives: '02 civic Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Dutchess County, NY Posts: 168 View My Garage	haha. thanks guys i needed that. well i got the car before her but i feel like my world is collapsing now that she is gone. im not even sure me getting rid of the car would solve anything. im trying to communicate with her but she isnt answering me now. tried everything from phone calls, txts, facebook ims and messages but no response. my mother says that she prob just needs time to cool off from the fight but im worried she might not respond at all __________________ Camaro - "a small, vicious animal that eats Mustangs."

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