[hrpiii]

That's not how this works Timmy...hehehe.

You post via facebook/email/text where everyone is meeting. No one has to reply back or respond. If people are going to make it, they will. Many families have so many commitments, soccer, baseball, school, church, work, etc... sometimes a decision to go is not till the last minute.

Our club was posting several car shows or events going on and people would just choose which they wanted to attend. It's great to have a lot of club members at the shows, but remember, it's all about being around people that enjoy the meets and shows and meeting new people.

Now if he always has a negative attitude when he shows up, it's up to the club officers to speak with him. Remind him they are there to enjoy the day, enjoy the event and the company, and that negativity is not welcome. Be happy, enjoy or take your ride somewhere else.