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Originally Posted by hrpiii
I can understand that, I truly can. My sister and brother know what my car means to me, and if they done it, they would truly be sorry and offer to pay. But if they didn't, I wouldn't care (I wouldn't like) I would fix it and move on.
I can preach this because I have seen this similar situation with my wife and her eight older sisters. Then the children pick up on it and have no idea why the family hates each other.
No, DNA doesn't give a free pass, but you have to weigh the issues and what it means to you and the other family, and their children. It's a ding, not a dent that may/would require repairs and new paint. Just saying think about long term effects and how it could go bad quickly.
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A wise man u r
My car was a 5 year sobriety gift to myself congratulating myself for turning around my life and succeeding at something 99% of people fail at. I told myself at the beginning of the journey when I made 5 years I'd buy my dream car.
The fact he was in no way sorry is part of what made me overreact. Had my other sister done it and apologized it would have blown off my shoulders like it didn't even happen.