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Originally Posted by 69supersport396
Looks like I am not going to Florida, as my cousins do not want the "hassle" of others coming to the funeral. Never thought of myself as a hassle, but what the hell do I know. We'll send some stupid flowers and some sympathy cards and be done with it.
Anyway, at least I get to enjoy a nice holiday weekend with MY family.
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Sorry to hear the bad news.
Not everyone is the same. My hubby has all his affairs in order, and he has clearly stated that there will NOT be a funeral or service or even an announcement in the paper. He's a very quiet, calm, reserved man, and he is extremely uncomfortable around gatherings.
Going to a concert or some sort of show he's fine. But gatherings or parties where everyone is talking, drinking, socializing, then forget it. He doesn't do weddings, parties, or any family gatherings. Definitely not his thing.
When his parents would have a Christmas or thanksgiving gathering he would show up the next day to help clean up the mess after everyone is long gone. Plus he much prefers one on one time, especially with his folks.
You offered to come, I wouldn't be offended, it's the thought that counts.
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