[JakesRJT]

I may be mistaken... but it feels as though you're pushing the issue rather strongly.. if it's something that you're into then great... but I doubt that many men get married with the intentions of having a divorce... Sure it's something that everyone needs to consider before marriage but outside of telling them to consider it, what else can you do? People do things everyday that will change the rest of their lives drastically and there's not alot me or you can say or do to stop it...