Guys, having met Stephanie, I can tell you that she is a special girl.
When Bonnie and I visited them the first time, we drove half the way back home (it's about a 4 1/2 hr trip) without so much as turning the radio on. Just thinking and talking about her. I felt so ashamed and small after meeting her considering her situation. As a few of the above posters stated, it puts things into perspective. I complain about accounts receivable, bounced checks, my kids breaking things, gas prices, slow drivers and whatever else.
I wish you could all meet her. When this is all over I hope some of you close get to meet her. You'd be amazed.