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Originally Posted by Kwaz1335

Id hate to be honestly blunt with you...but it's for your own good. Ever notice some guys date a girl and she is absolutely horrible. He gets walked all over and his friends try anything and everything to break them up but yet he is relentless and stays with her till she finally breaks up with him. Few months down the road and he meets nice girl..she treats him with respect listens to him and yet a few weeks or even months down the road...ends up in the SAME situation as before and yet again the cycle continues...same with girl 3,4,5,and 6. Maybe the problem is not the girl....ITS THE GUY. From the day you meet a person (lets say for this instance its a guy..as a friend) you train that person how to treat you. If they cross a boundary your more than willing to let that person know it. Change that person to a beautiful girl..and yet the rules seem to change a bit for some reason. We get more lax and let the girl get away with a bit more because your attracted to her..and it dose not seem like its a big deal..after all the ultimate goal is to get inbetween her legs...not loose her. Its that little bit more that turns into more and more as time goes on...pretty soon she is telling you what you are doing Friday night..which friends you can hang out with...she wants to know who you are with and where you are at all times...I hate to say it...but once you lose the power in a relationship..your gonna lose the girl. Although this is true in most cases..there are the rare circumstances where the female loves having all the power in a relationship.The best advice I can give you is..Lead the relationship and the girl will be along for the ride. Be a man..if she wants to end things...there are plenty of other girls out there that would love to be your girl. Smile..it gives them something to wonder about. Respect is key...if you do not have any for YOURSELF and you let her walk all over you..you are going to lose her. The moment you see something you don't like that she is doing..be honest with her and tell her. Which leads me to my next point...HONESTY...if you can be brutally honest with a female from the get go and never lie about a thing to her you just might shock her into doing whatever you want. Most females are not use to hearing honesty from a guy. If you want something in bed from her..TELL HER that you are going to do it...clearly and like you mean it...don't yell at her of course but don't whisper and say it soo weakly that she barely hears you. She may laugh, she may say ok, she may say just stare at you completely shocked or she may even ask you what you said again..just tell her again in the same fashion...DO NOT BACK DOWN and tell her you are sorry..this is the ultimate mistake most guys make. You may just be surprised at the outcome....And by the way....dont ever TRY to figure women out...it is a waste of time that will cause your head to explode..The easiest way I can put things on that topic is girls are more emotional..guys tend to be more logical. Hence when a girl has a problem we try to logically solve it and she dosen't get better..she gets worse because your not LISTENING to her. The best way to deal with a girls problem is to shut up and ACTUALLY listen and just reverberate what she has said so it sounds like you understand what her problem is. Eventually she will calm down..DVR is AWESOME for this purpose...because it always seems she has a problem ONLY WHEN you happen to be watching the game. I haven't figured out why this is the case...and I am not gonna try to. You guys have any questions I am more than an open book when it comes to stuff like this. I have been told by hundreds of people I should write a book but this is stuff you should already know or just have not learned yet

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