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Originally Posted by PIPE
AS I'm reading everyone's responses I chuckle a little cause it seems noone, or very few has been in this situation before. With that said I can tell you I have and still am. My best friend is female and We have been friends more then the 13 years my wife and I have been together. We go out and do many things together with or without the wife. Wifey knew about my female best friend before we got married and was given a choice to either accept it or not. I wasnt changing myself or my friendships with people just to please or appease her and wouldnt ask her to do the same. My point is when two people get married you both accept eachother for who they are, not for who they will or will not become. If youre soon to be wifey cant accept everything about you and who you truly are and what you truly think and want then trust that she IS NOT the one for you. Believe me when I say those that truly accept who you are will always be the ones who stick around no matter what.
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Probably theoretical, but would you feel the same if her "bestie" was a man? Most guys, me included, would have a problem with it.