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ok, obviously I don't know you and I only have the information you gave us in your original post, so keep in mind that's entirely what i'm basing this on.
when I go shopping for clothes, sneakers, music, etc. I have a rule I always adhere to: "if it's not a yes, it's a no." if I look at a shirt or listen to a song and I think "this is pretty good. not sure if I want it" then no, I don't want it. if I buy it, I'm gunna regret it. there'll be another shirt that jumps out and says "YES!" so why waste my money on this one?
now, marrying someone is a way bigger deal than wasting a couple of bucks on a pair of kicks. if you don't feel overwhelmingly compelled to marry this girl that you're 100% unquestionably in love with and ready to spend the rest of your life with, then just don't do it. even if she's not cheating on you, there's obviously something about the way she handles her bidness that you're just not in tune with. sounds like you really wanna get married, but this isn't the one. this is just the one keeping you from meeting the one. I know it's harsh, but it's like a band-aid. make the decision, rip it off fast and never think about it again. it'll hurt for a little bit but you'll be fine in the long run.
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