First off, I got married at the age of 23 to the love of my life. Granted we had only been together 1 1/2 yrs before we got married, but when you know you just KNOW!! Everyone thought he was my re-bound guy since I met him a week after I left my ex-fiance, but boy were they wrong. We have been going stronge for the last 6 1/2 yrs of marriage and nothing shall waiver this. I believe everything in this world happens for a reason and certain ppl are placed in your life for whatever reasons. I wouldn't trade my hubby or 2 boys for anything in this world. Has it been easy, oh goodness NO, is it an adventure oh you bet your a$$ it is and worth it, IMHO!! Now to your questions.
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Originally Posted by Renegade
Whatever your reasons are we won't judge you. I believe marriage is a big step. I know some people in a rocky relationship they feel if they get married or have a baby it'll bring the couple that much closer and solve all their problems. What do you think of couples who think this way? Is it smart on their behalf? or just suicide?  |
I think these couples feel the need to rush big steps in their lives because they know the relationship is coming to an end and they are scared about moving on with someone else or having to be out there alone. I was scared when the ex and I broke up cuz we were together for 5 years and he was all I knew. We couldn't force anything to happen because when we did it made us more miserable. We grew up to have different wants and needs in life, and I'm happy we didn't rush it. We are best friends now and he is in my Camaro club and that's how it was to be. Completely idiotic on their behalf to force something to happen that isn't meant to be. It's one thing to get married when in an unhappy relationship, but you don't bring a child into that.
