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no smileys .........He wouldn't get the point anyway. Just take a deep cleansing breath, accept that he asked you for guidance without any intent to take it, and take the high road. It is his loss and his choice. It need not feel so deeply insulting. How you think about it is a choice. You can tell yourself "that is infuriating, I should give him a piece of my mind" or................ you can tell yourself "Oh well, His loss, no sweat off my back". It is what you tell yourself about what he did that dictates how you feel, not what he actually did. Okay, taking my therapist hat off now.
Ol' Fart Jan is back. Hang in there. Don't let him get to ya. Have a good evening.
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