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Originally Posted by CamaroSpike23
plenty of people with less money than you raise perfectly fine children every day. and plenty of people with more money than you or I combined raise ass-hat children every day.
Its not about money. Like I said before, if everyone waited till their lives were "ready" for kids, they would never have them. there is always somethinge new, some change. what would you do if you were "ready", got pregnant, then lost your job?
you would make due and take care of things. all that more money means is that you can buy that extra toy for christmas. it doesnt mean you have to work any less. 
if you are like me... nothing is perfect. ever. there is always something that needs to be improved, modified, changed, upgraded, whatever. my greatest flaw is the innate ability to find the flaws in everyone and everything else |
And you don't see what I am saying. I am not ready to raise a child on my own. Yes I know I could do it but do I want to do it no. And you have no idea how little I made. I couldn't afford to work and pay for child care. I know this because I crunched the numbers when I though I was pregnant a year ago.