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Originally Posted by Tessa
Ya you're gonna have to explain that one a LOT if you get it - just saying...
 that is basically it yes.
But I am not happy being fat and feeling ugly and never being able to fit into clothes I like and having to dress like a middle aged over weight woman who likes wear prints that aren't even fit for a couch, you know? 
So to be happy and feel good about me - I'm finally getting off my fatass. I was almost 250lbs when I got married and seeing the pictures was just horrifying. I lost some weight after I moved back home, but now I'm really managing it and I have the motivation I lacked before.
And I can fit into jeans I haven't worn since I met that bastard 10 years ago - so I'm a lot happier now. 
But trust me - my azz'll never be that skinny - I has hips, so I always have junk in my trunk 
(and I will admit - it might still be supersized bootylicious, but my azz looks hella sexier now then it used to  ) |
I don't have to explain anything, lol.
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Originally Posted by CamaroSpike23
plenty of people with less money than you raise perfectly fine children every day. and plenty of people with more money than you or I combined raise ass-hat children every day.
Its not about money. Like I said before, if everyone waited till their lives were "ready" for kids, they would never have them. there is always somethinge new, some change. what would you do if you were "ready", got pregnant, then lost your job?
you would make due and take care of things. all that more money means is that you can buy that extra toy for christmas. it doesnt mean you have to work any less.
if you are like me... nothing is perfect. ever. there is always something that needs to be improved, modified, changed, upgraded, whatever. my greatest flaw is the innate ability to find the flaws in everyone and everything else |
Yes I am that way...some days it sucks.
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Originally Posted by Tessa
Which is a good thing - it's how we progress and individuals and as a society
(that last bits going kinda slow these days tho eh? )
I just want to look in the mirror and not be like  but be like 
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Yes it's a very good thing!
I too am not happy with my weight and am trying to lose weight. Just hard right now with school and work. Perhaps I'll be able to better handle it once I finish school.