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Originally Posted by jewel25
I didn't say I was going to be handing them everything. I just don't think I should be living in the shit hole ghetto ( where I am living now) with children. Even with giving up Jewel I wouldnt be able to afford a child on my own. The reason why I am not ready for a child is because I don't have someone to help me. The thought of raising a child alone terrifies me.
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plenty of people with less money than you raise perfectly fine children every day. and plenty of people with more money than you or I combined raise ass-hat children every day.
Its not about money. Like I said before, if everyone waited till their lives were "ready" for kids, they would never have them. there is always somethinge new, some change. what would you do if you were "ready", got pregnant, then lost your job?
you would make due and take care of things. all that more money means is that you can buy that extra toy for christmas. it doesnt mean you have to work any less.
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Originally Posted by Lgndryhr
This!
Also, I agree with Spike. We are human so we always want to improve and better ourselves.
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if you are like me... nothing is perfect. ever. there is always something that needs to be improved, modified, changed, upgraded, whatever. my greatest flaw is the innate ability to find the flaws in everyone and everything else