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Originally Posted by sugar'n'spice
Hence the name 'EX' ...You are happily married with your own family and dealing with your own life..and many beautiful and joyous happenings. I don't really think it was such a great idea, honestly...as if we don't have enough in our own lives...not going to get too much into it..because I could..but should have just told him that you were sorry to hear and that not to worry and that all will work out....and walked away..
Don't want to sound mean...but...EX means...past life.
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You're right!! I know I shouldn't have but I think my kindness (that was NOT a joke
) got the better of me with this one. I always wanted KARMA to teach him a lesson and BOY DID SHE!!
I'll be careful, and I don't talk to him much anyways.
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Originally Posted by Ladybugsmom
In a perfect world, we would all be able to remain friends with our exes. If your hubby is alright with the two of you becoming friends again, then I think that's OK. I've had exes over for dinner or bbqs (with their new ladies, usually) and my hubby's cool with it. As far as your sister hooking up with him??? Well, you know him better than your family does. Occasionally, people can change, but usually they don't - so, if the demise of your relationship was due to something about HIM, I'd give your sis a heads up, just in case he hasn't changed. She's an adult, can make her own decisions, but should certainly be informed. There must be something good about him though, if you were with him for 5 years and engaged...
Ya never know - maybe you two were destined to be related, just not married to each other...  |
Very true, and Danny doesn't seem to mind at all. Then again he is friends with his ex-fiance and I don't mind it either. Granted she is all the way in Beaumont, TX, but still
. Well, she knows already what went on between us because it was like the shock of the century when we split. I love my sister and all, but she can be a bit of a hoe and I think that's why it bothers me that she is going after him. She ruined so many friendships I had with guys and some were my husbands friends because she did that.
Oh I hope not!!
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Originally Posted by BowtieBelle
Personally, I don't think it'd be cool at all for your sister to date your ex, and I sure hope she'd have enough respect for you to not even do that-- I don't know what your mom is thinking! It's just against girl code, IMO, and while it's OK to feel sorry for the guy, there's definitely a reason he's your ex, and your family should hold him at arm's length. This just has disaster written all over it, if you ask me.
I should note that I am friends with a few of my exes, and it's fine-- but at some point or another, something besides friendship WILL come into the equation. It always does. You can't take back what happened between you two, and if it was me I'd tread very lightly. Good luck, girl, and if you need to talk let me know  |
That's what I was thinking! Some kind of sister code in there somewhere!! Granted some women don't mind, but I don't think it's right just like you don't date a friends ex boyfriend and what not.
Yeah, we are all treading rather lightly. I"m making sure to be careful as well since I do have a great marriage and wouldn't want to screw it up over something like this.
I will def keep in touch with you on how it progresses.
THANKS LADIES FOR THE ADVICE!!! I will be extremely careful, and already had to slap him (verbally) for being stupid since he isn't technically divorced yet. Seriously, what would men do without us women here to stop them from doing STUUUUUUPID things. Oy!!
