[UFN Wish]

Originally Posted by 4DoorRocket

Not to be a jerk, but the whole work thing, you kinda got what you had coming to you. Where I work, I have competitors, and if I worked at one of them one day a week and my job found out, I would be fired. You should have used common sense on that one. That's playing russian rouilette.

As for the rest...

I can relate to you. I have had times where I felt like I had hit rock bottom. Maybe I did. It's a feeling that you don't want to feel and will never forget. Like you, I felt like I was alone. I felt like I was fighting a losing battle all by myself. It feels as if, no matter how hard you try, the more you sink. As cliche as it may sound, things will get better.

my advice to you...

Keep your head up. You don't need anyone or thing to help you get through these hard times. (in regards to feeling like a failure) Remember, it doesn't matter how many times you get knocked down, but how many times you stand up and what you do, when you stand up.

Actually no I didn't have it coming to me. Last year she allowed her staff to work the big event without firing them. I wasn't supposed to work her bar. Never been written up or given a verbal warning. We support other bars in the area and they support us. We have no policy stating we can't work. What I do on my weekends off is none of her business.