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This may help. I dont know why I read this just about 5 mins ago and then I go here and read about your delema but I believe things hapen for a reason. This is something I just got in an e-mail;
A Blind Girl
There was a blind girl who disliked herself because she was blind. She was mean to
everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, “If I could only see the world, I would
marry you.”
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her
boyfriend.
Her boyfriend then asked her, “now that you can see the world, will you marry me?” The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that
he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn’t expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her
life led her to refuse to marry him.
Her boyfriend left in tears and several days later wrote a letter to her saying this:
“Take good care of your beautiful blue eyes my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.”
This is how the human brain often works when status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was
always by their side in the most painful situations.
So today before you say an unkind word – think of someone who cannot speak.
Before you complain about the taste of your food – think of someone who has nothing to eat at all.
Before you complain about your husband or your wife – think of someone who is crying out for a companion.
Before you complain about life – think of someone who went too early to heaven.
Before whining about the distance you drive to work – think about someone that has to walk that same distance on their feet.
And when you are tired and complain about your job – think of the unemployed, disabled, and those who wish they had your job.
And when the depressing thoughts seem to get you down – put a smile on your face and think: I am alive and still around to get to
experience tomorrow.
It’s the little things in life we often don’t see.
I hope this helps in some way.
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