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Originally Posted by angie7
Ugh. So I went to a show today. I posted on fb that I was at a show but left out where it was. She sends 2 messages saying she didnt know there was a show and how she bets my car looks great. I ignored her.
Fast forward to 20 mins ago. I get an email that is titled "whatever" well shes going on about how I obviously dont want her there and how Im better then her now and I hurt her feelings......really??? Wtf?
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Here's what I think: I think that you are too nice to want to risk hurting her feelings. Nothing wrong with that, not trying to rip on you: I am the same way. For some reason, I attract insane people as friends, because unlike MOST people, I am too concerned about hurting their delicate feelings to just tell them to go F- off. So, I end up with lots of people who just want to hang around with me, be pals.
However, your post (quoted above) may be your best chance for a clean break... the hardest part is over... she has realized that, indeed, you don't want her around. The feelings have been hurt: Damn, too bad... rather than try to soothe her hurt feelings, and be back to square one, this is probably your opportunity, right now, to escape. Either never respond to her again (maybe that will work), or, if you can muster the strength, respond and tell that, damn straight, you don't want her around.
You are halfway there... she at least has a hint that you don't want her mental- case- self around... run while you can!