When I was 18-25 I would have probably responded much more aggressively so I can get where some of those guys are coming from.
My response to that action now would be very similar to the Op.. but i'm 30+ now. My priorities have changed and overall my life is pretty good. I feel that I have alot to lose. Things can escalate out of control pretty quickly.
I hope the OP isn't taking any of the criticism too seriously. This is the internet and you're dealing with people (of varying testosterone levels) that are at different stages in their lives.
I think the OP made the right decision by keeping cool...
I don't know the OP personally but I'd still say without a shadow of a doubt that his life is more valuable than any defacement or potential damage to his car!
