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Old 12-10-2011, 08:51 AM   #93309
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Originally Posted by jewel25 View Post
I am starting to realiz it, but I am a person that doesn't forget and I will remember this when I meet people at Fest. No I am not going to be mean because that is not just me. My boss told me in my Eval last week that I have to be bitcher to people. I am too nice. I was like what the hell. How can someone be too nice?
Honey, I can forgive easily but, like you, I will NEVER forget. When you get to the Fest, be yourself. Don't put on an act. As the old saying goes, you can kill 'em with kindness. However, people should NEVER mistake kindness for weakness. It's FAR from that - it just shows YOU are the bigger person.


As far as being "too nice" at work - stick to your guns. You can be firm but fair. No need to break out the "bitch boots". Keep on keepin' on.
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